introduction
"It's hard to get married" is a topic that people often talk about.
So, why is there a phenomenon of "it is difficult to marry a wife"?
A marriage expert pointed out that, first, economic problems are an important factor that cannot be ignored. In modern society, marriage is no longer just an emotional union, marriage also involves economic considerations. After all, women also want to live happily ever after, and high housing prices, prices, and increasing pressure make it difficult for many men to afford the financial burden of marriage. In this case, it is easy to have the phenomenon of "it is difficult to marry a wife".
The marriage expert went on to point out that, second, the change of social concepts is also an important factor that cannot be ignored. Due to the increasing status of women and the growing sense of independence of women, more and more women no longer regard marriage as their only destination, and these women will pay more attention to personal growth and development. In this case, the proportion of women who are willing to marry will be significantly reduced, and when the proportion of women who are willing to marry is reduced, some men will not be able to find a partner.
The marriage expert continued to point out that third, demographic changes are an important factor that cannot be ignored. At present, the male population of the mainland is significantly larger than the female population, and the imbalance between men and women has become more and more prominent. In such a situation, the competitive pressure faced by men in finding a partner will naturally increase, which will exacerbate the phenomenon of difficulty in marrying a wife.
The dating expert concluded by pointing out that, of course, the personal factor is also an absolutely important factor. After all, women want to find a good husband, and once a man's personal conditions or abilities are very limited, he will lose the competition for a mate, which makes it difficult for the man to find a partner.
A senior netizen said that in the marriage and love market, there is a very strange phenomenon: obviously a man is mediocre or poor, but he can "hold the beauty", and some men have good conditions in all aspects, but they have not been able to find a partner. This phenomenon is very strange!
Actually, this phenomenon is not surprising at all. As long as a man is good at thinking and willing to use his brain, even if the man is mediocre or poor, he can still find a partner!
No, Huang, a man who was impoverished before marriage, married a beautiful wife by "being good at thinking"!
So, what's going on here?
Next, let's talk about it.
affair
A few days ago, the man Huang shared the following experience when chatting with his wife Du:
First, first of all, you must admit that you are very poor at the moment, but you must have the courage to "draw cakes" and let your love partner see hope
When his wife Du asked her husband Huang how he had the courage to pursue her when he was so poor, Huang said: "Poverty is a fact that cannot be concealed, and it cannot be concealed. However, while I admit to poverty, I have also drawn a 'big pie' for you! Didn't I give you a plan when I was chasing you? Didn't I tell you, 'I'm going to fight a turnaround battle in three years?' Didn't I make up a few powerful friends for you that you could count on? Even though these friends were all made up by me, didn't you also believe them? It is precisely on the basis of your belief that you will have a heart for me?"
Second, secondly, you have to show your talent and make your partner feel like you've met a talented person
When his wife Du asked her husband Huang how he was so good at expressing himself, Huang continued: "I want you to admire me, and make you feel that you have picked up a treasure when you meet me! Aren't you stealing fun when I'm fully expressing myself?"
Third, and finally, you have to show that you are responsible, so that your relationship partner feels that you have met a responsible man
When his wife Du asked her husband why Huang was so diligent when he chased him, Huang continued: "Diligence is a specific manifestation of a man's responsibility, and no woman is willing to live with a lazy man." At the beginning, it was because of your diligence that made you feel relieved and made you feel very happy, and when you were in a very happy mood, I bravely took that step, which led to your unmarried pregnancy, and when you were already pregnant, didn't you naturally want to marry me?"
When Huang said this, he directly made his wife Du laugh.
The above is a general process of this event.
When many netizens learned about this incident, netizens started a heated discussion.
Netizen voices
Netizens chattered: Huang's level is really high! He is so poor that he can marry a beautiful lady, which is really envious!
Netizen's autumn leaves: Haha! Men also need some brains to chase women! As long as you are good at using your brain, no matter how bad your conditions are, you can still find a wife!
In short, netizens have a lot to talk about.
Lao Hu's point of view
"Difficulty in marrying a wife" is indeed a big problem, and this problem must be solved. And to solve this problem, only older unmarried young men can figure it out on their own. The method shared by Huang is of reference significance. I hope that all older unmarried young men will be able to actively find ways to solve their marital problems. If you don't think of a way, perhaps, you will be destined to be a bachelor in your life!