"All the jewelry under the name of Ms. Chen Shuzhen was given to Ms. Liu Wanyu, thanking Ms. Liu Wanyu for her dedication to the Mai family. Ms. Chan Shuk Chun handed over all the deposits in her name to Ms. Mak Shing Huan to inherit. Ms. Chen Shuzhen's name is a garden house with an attic balcony at No. 9, Lane 110, Jianhua West Road, and the property rights of the garden are inherited by Mr. Yao Zhiming. Located at the junction of Jianhua South Road and Fuyang Road in Xuhui District, Xing'anli Hotel Group is an independent property held by Ms. Chen Shuzhen, and the property rights are transferred to Ms. Mak Chenghuan and owned by Ms. Mak Chenghuan. ”
This is the distribution of Chen Shuzhen's estate.
Although at the funeral, Mrs. Mai said to Mak Chengzao:
"Grandma doesn't take much care of you, but grandma knows that you are a filial child, boys should be confident, and you are also grandma's pride. ”
Mrs. Mai has a lot of dislike for Liu Wanyu and is dissatisfied. But she left all her jewelry to Liu Wanyu. Since she didn't take much care of Mak Chengzao and owed it, and said that Mak Chengzao was also her pride, why didn't she leave anything for Mak Chengzao?
Mai Chengzao in "Chenghuan Ji" didn't know that Mrs. Mai gave him the biggest inheritance and hid it on a woman.
Mai Chengzao was sent back to the countryside and was wronged
Due to various reasons, Mai Chengzao was sent back to the countryside to be raised.
After the death of Mak Chengzao's grandmother, Mak Chengzao's aunt Liu Wanrong and aunt-in-law Fang Zhihong did not have any patience and love for Mak Chengzao.
Although Liu Wanrong is very good, she also wants to be extremely tender to Mai Chengzao, but in front of Fang Zhihong, she is humble and powerless, she is weak and powerless, she can only turn a blind eye. plus their son Fang Jie, he did a lot of wrong things, and then without everyone knowing, he let Mai Chengzao take the blame.
For example, it was Fang Jie who stole the money, but Fang Jie asked Mai Cheng to take the blame early.
They are a family and naturally prefer to trust each other. Who will listen to Mak Syngman's explanation?
What's more, Mai Chengzao is a sensible child, he doesn't want to cause trouble, more things are better than less, he has no explanation at all, and there is no justification.
Liu Wanyu is an extremely face-loving person, she is vain in front of her sister and brother-in-law, her sister and brother-in-law came, obviously the old bungalow was not hers, but she showed it off, saying that it was hers; obviously the hotel in Xing'anli had a requirement to pay a deposit of 5,000 yuan, but she asked Mai Chenghuan to give her face and did not pay the deposit.
Qiuqiu and Ding Ding had a conflict, obviously Qiuqiu's fault.
But when something went wrong, Liu Wanyu's first thought was to ask Mai Chengzao to apologize, she never chose to believe her son in the first place.
Mai Chengzao couldn't understand that he had suffered so many grievances for so many years, he went back to the countryside, and after returning to Shanghai, he could only support a marching bed on the balcony, but his mother didn't seem to owe him anything, nor did she have any love, she never believed him, something went wrong, and asked him to apologize indiscriminately.
In fact, what he didn't know was that Liu Wanyu didn't love Mai Chengzao, but that she valued face, and she asked Mai Chengzao to apologize, but she also wanted her sister and brother-in-law to say that she taught her son well.
But in the final analysis, it was Liu Wanyu who wronged Mai Chengzao, and there was very little care and love for him.
Why is Mai Cheng happy to sleep on the balcony early, why does he have to carry his home to deliver food after his work, because he has suffered too many grievances in the countryside, and his current life in Shanghai is good enough. Moreover, he hopes that he will become good and strong, so that his parents can see him, discover his existence, and share some love with him.
Children who are particularly sensible have a maturity that does not belong to that age, it is life that destroys them, and it is the closest people who ignore them, so that they have to be sensible and mature, because otherwise, they will be afraid of losing that little bit of warmth. In fact, they deserved more warmth. Therefore, such children will also be particularly sensitive and prone to drill the horns. It's just that they are too lacking in love.
Mrs. Mai's "inheritance" to Mak Chengzao
The relationship between Mak Chenghuan and Mrs. Mai is very close and harmonious.
Their relationship is even better than her relationship with her grandson Yao Zhiming, Mai Chenghuan fell out of love, quarreled with Liu Wanyu, and was able to be comforted and guided by Mrs. Mai.
However, Mai Cheng has long been different.
He never took the initiative to see Mrs. Mai, only when Mrs. Mai was sick and hospitalized, he appeared in the hospital with his family.
It's not that he blames him for not caring about Mrs. Mai, nor does it mean that Mrs. Mai expects his company and care. It can't be said that Mai Chengzao has no filial piety to Mrs. Mai, and Mrs. Mai is also eccentric and does not love Mak Chengzao.
Mrs. Mai has experienced two marriages and has read countless people, she has a vicious eye for people, and everyone is very accurate.
Mai Chengzao didn't come to her, didn't appear in front of her, she had no way to enlighten Mai Chengzao like guiding Mai Chenghuan.
When she leaves this world, she wants to leave an inheritance to Mak Chengzao, in order to make up for Mai Chengzao's lack of care and love from her, it is obviously too late.
Giving Mak Chengzao money in the form of an inheritance in this way will only make his sensitive heart more sensitive, and even give birth to an illusion, an illusion that even the deceased can manipulate him.
Man, once a certain thought is born in the heart, this thought is like a budding branch, which grows bigger and bigger, and in the end, the branches are flourishing and cannot be reversed.
She had already seen through all this, and she would not brew such painful feelings as Mai Chengzao.
In her last words, she said to Mak Chengzao:
"Young people, you should be confident. ”
Mai Chengzao questioned his mother's love for him, and Mai Chenghuan told him that every mother loves her children, but in different ways, and took out the birthday gift that Liu Wanyu prepared for him every year.
But his heart is still a little hanging.
He likes Maomao, he likes it for ten years, ten years like a day, and it has never changed, but he watched her fall in love, get married, have children, and divorce, and he never expressed his love.
At the end of the day, it's just that he's not confident enough.
The reason why Mrs. Mai didn't leave him anything was that she didn't let him get everything he wanted by relying on what she left behind.
Mak Chengzao has the ability, good character, and filial piety. But he lacks self-confidence, one day in the future, he will succeed, he will slowly regain his own confidence, and he will also reap success. However, Mrs. Mak could not let all his future successes have the idea that "my success comes from my grandmother's help, and it is her legacy that has made me who I am".
Mai Chengzao's success depends on himself, but Mrs. Mai can't let him have such an idea, not at all. Only in this way will he believe in his ability and find his confidence after he succeeds.
Mak Chengzao's growth and responsibility
Yes, he inherited nothing from his grandmother.
His work relies on his own strength.
He also expressed his love to Mao Mao with practical actions, and received a response from Mao Mao.
Mao Mao and he came together, but because of Ding Ding's distorted attitude, he proposed to reconsider the relationship between the two.
He was really sad, and he didn't even have a birthday.
However, he did not give up Maomao directly, but went to find a lot of information, checked a lot of cases, and then took the sorted information to find Maomao and be Maomao's backer:
"Maomao, I think about it, I still have to decide to be with you, I know, you are worried about Ding Ding's affairs, but we can definitely get Ding Ding's custody back, I have checked the custody dispute files in the past five years, and there are many cases similar to yours. ”
For Mao Mao, he will never give up.
This is his growth and responsibility, he is not to avoid problems, nor to retreat when encountering problems, but to find solutions to problems.
On his birthday, Mai Laitian gave him a card, Mai Chenghuan gave him a card, and Yao Zhiming also gave him a card. Especially Mai Chenghuan, she cares about Mai Chengzao very well, and she also pays attention to ways and means, she will not force Mai Chengzao to go home for his birthday, but let him decide for himself.
Mai Chenghuan's friendship with her younger brother, Mrs. Mai has long seen it, since she wants to give Xing'anli to Mai Chenghuan, why should she also give the deposit to Mai Chenghuan?
In fact, to be more precise, it is to give Mai Chengzao. However, in the hands of Mai Chenghuan, Mai Chenghuan will give Mai Chengzao more, and through this matter, Mai Chengzao can feel his sister's sincere love for him.
The bridge between people and feelings not only needs to be built with sincerity, but also needs good communication and companionship.
Mai Chenghuan and Liu Wanyu are parents waiting for their children to thank them, and children are waiting for their parents to apologize. Liu Wanyu cares too much about Mai Chenghuan, Mai Chenghuan is 29 years old, she is still reluctant to let go, reluctant to give Mai Chenghuan some room to grow. caused the mother and daughter to have a very stiff fight.
After they have a good chat, they can feel each other's deep love for themselves.
Zhang Peisheng is not the same for Zhang Ziyu.
In her own way, Zhang Peisheng feels that the money, house, and car she earns are all to give Zhang Ziyu a better life, and that is the way she loves Zhang Ziyu.
But what Zhang Ziyu needs is not these cold and cold substances, what she needs is her mother's care and love for her, but Zhang Peisheng doesn't even know the school Zhang Ziyu studied abroad. Her love for Zhang Ziyu is also too rude.
Mai Chengzao encountered a problem, he was willing to share it with Mai Chenghuan, and between them, it can be said that there is nothing to talk about.
With this love as a foreshadowing, how much money did Mai Chenghuan give him, and all he felt was full of love, not sympathy. The sister-brother relationship between him and Mai Chenghuan is not the mother-daughter relationship between Liu Wanyu and Mai Chenghuan, there was an estrangement, and later reconciled, and it is not like Zhang Peisheng and Zhang Ziyu, who can't feel love, only money, their sister-brother relationship, affection, love.
This is also the source of his self-confidence.
He and Mao Mao, put aside everything, faced problems together, faced difficulties, and finally came together, which is also the source of his self-confidence.
All this is inseparable from Mrs. Mai's "legacy". Mrs. Mai's sentence "You are also my pride" gave him the greatest confidence.
Let him have a sense of honor and self-confidence that all his achievements are earned by himself.
I have to say that Mrs. Mai is really too witty.