Author: Peanut
A video went viral the other day.
The title of the video is very straightforward: father-in-law punches daughter-in-law.
At first glance, many people thought that the video blogger was exaggerating, but after watching it, they found that it was not the blogger who exaggerated, but the father-in-law in the video.
Let's take a look at what happened in the video before the whole network is so angry.
The video was shot in a living room.
At the beginning of the video, a woman and her father-in-law got into a quarrel over taking care of the children.
The daughter-in-law said, "Then I'll bring (the child) myself, okay?"
The father-in-law's tone was obviously a little displeased, and he asked rhetorically: You brought it yourself?
The daughter-in-law emphasized not very happily: I bring it myself, I bring it myself.
At this time, my father-in-law became angry, and he, who was originally cleaning up things on the sofa, suddenly turned around and pointed at the woman and said loudly: I don't worry about you!
The daughter-in-law also immediately shot back: I'm not worried about you yet!
She then went on to add: "I bring my own child."
The two of them are obviously angry, but so far they are actually ordinary family conflicts.
But then, a jaw-dropping scene came.
The father-in-law in the video suddenly strode over and began to slap the woman after saying "I'm going to hit you today".
He scolded and slapped his daughter-in-law continuously, and there were swear words mixed with it from time to time.
What's even more worrying is that there is a child next to the daughter-in-law who is so frightened that she keeps crying, but the father-in-law doesn't care about it and keeps beating her mother in front of the child.
During this period, a school-wearing elementary school student also came to stop him, but he couldn't stop him after pulling a few times.
At the end of the video, the child is crying, the student is at a loss, the daughter-in-law is apologizing, and only the father-in-law is still abusive.
Amidst the sound of weeping and apologies, he shouted with full anger:
I'm going to hit you today!
I'll hit you!
What's wrong with me hitting you!
It's no wonder that netizens shouted after watching it: I can't watch it, it will explode after watching it.
Indeed, this is really too explosive.
In the video, how domineering and justified this father-in-law slapped him one by one.
He also said, what's wrong with beating you?
Here we also want to ask, why did he beat people?
Is it because he is an elder, or is it because he acquiesces that his daughter-in-law can be bullied casually?
Just ask, would he beat his daughter like this?
I also asked how he would feel if his daughter was beaten like this at her in-law's house.
He fought himself hard. But did he ever think that the woman he beat was also a baby daughter that others were reluctant to beat before she got married.
Man, if you don't have a heart, what's the difference between it and an animal!
What makes this news even more unexpected is that compared to blaming the father-in-law.
There are more netizens who complain about women.
You may ask, what did this woman do wrong?
There are really many people who say this: they can't get used to seeing women apologize to their father-in-law.
What they were expecting was a counterattack from their daughter-in-law.
But what I didn't expect was that the daughter-in-law in the video not only did not fight back, but kept begging for mercy and apologizing.
It was so disappointing for them.
So compared to the father-in-law, many people aim their guns at their daughters-in-law first.
It is also true that the poor often suffer more malice than the wicked.
However, should the daughter-in-law be scolded if she doesn't fight back?
You must know that there is no cool text in reality, but more tragedies of falling into the abyss if you are a little careless.
Remember the sensational murder in Nan'an?
On August 21, 2021, Li Ya's parents suddenly heard bad news from their son-in-law: their daughter was missing.
Li Ya's father-in-law, Wang Biao, showed them a photo of a woman's back, told them that this was Li Ya, and said that Li Ya's electric car was also missing, and she might have run away from home.
In order to appease Li Ya's parents, who were worried about their daughter, Wang Biao specially accompanied them to look around the creek.
But Li Ya's parents still realized that something was wrong.
First of all, the woman in the photo didn't look like her own child.
Secondly, there are rumors in the village that human tissue has been seen under the bridge and in the garbage incineration site.
They had a bad premonition and hurriedly went to the police station to call the police.
And the surveillance from the police investigation also made their hearts drop by three points.
It turned out that after the surveillance video of Wang Biao's house was retrieved, everyone found out from the video that Li Ya had never come out since she returned to her mother-in-law's house from work on the evening of the 19th.
The next morning, Wang Biao pushed Li Ya's electric car away from home.
Less than ten minutes later, the Wang family drove out of an unlicensed van and headed for the back mountain.
The truth is almost revealed here.
While Li Ya's parents were waiting in despair and grief, the police still had to tell them the cruel truth: Wang Biao killed Li Ya after having a verbal altercation.
It is alleged that on the morning of the incident, Wang Biao was cooking porridge in the kitchen of his home.
When opening the pressure cooker, Wang Biao accidentally burned his hands with hot steam, and the porridge was also spilled on the ground.
However, Li Ya did not help to clean up, and the dissatisfied Wang Biao had a verbal altercation with Li Ya, and then choked her neck until she stopped resisting and finally did not breathe
In March 2022, the court sentenced Wang Biao to death in the first trial, and Wang Biao appealed.
In June 2023, the court rejected the appeal and upheld the death sentence.
If you want to watch Shuangwen, you see this and wait for a happy ending.
However, for Li Ya's parents, their lost daughter will never come back.
For Li Ya, her beautiful and splendid life came to an abrupt end as early as 2021. She can no longer accompany her children to grow up, nor can she enjoy her beautiful life.
She was forever left behind that quarrel in 2021.
So, I will always support those who are brave enough to fight back in order to protect themselves.
But those who choose to endure for safety, I also believe that they have done nothing wrong.
After all, being alive is better than anything else.
However, the focus of these two stories should not be whether a daughter-in-law has been wronged in her in-law's house and should choose to back down and forbear.
The real point of this matter should be: the in-laws should treat their daughters-in-law as their own children equally.
Many years ago, there was a joke that the criteria for girls to find a partner are: both parents are dead, and they have a car and a house.
ridicule is ridicule, but it does prove one thing: it is really difficult for a daughter-in-law to have a good relationship with her in-laws. So instead of trying to find a way to improve the relationship with their in-laws, they should choose someone who does not have a mother-in-law's family from the beginning.
But the reality still has to be faced, so the inescapable mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship provides all kinds of outrageous jokes for the majority of netizens.
The most famous is the daughter-in-law who ate 12 pumpkin stalks during confinement.
This is actually news, there is a daughter-in-law who can't eat delicious food during confinement, and she has no hope of chicken, duck and fish, but what she never expected is that she has endured it so much, but she was still blamed by her mother-in-law for eating 12 pumpkins.
Facing the camera, my mother-in-law cried and complained: I ate 12 pumpkins, which took my hard work.
The daughter-in-law couldn't help but say bluntly: What kind of life did I live in his house? I quarreled with his parents, and my husband. The three of them are just dealing with me.
She was so miserable that she could only eat when her mother's family brought food.
In the end, she chose to run.
The story of 12 pumpkins may be a little too outrageous, but in reality there are many outrageous ones.
If you randomly open a post of "mother-in-law leaves vegetables for her daughter-in-law to eat", you can see all kinds of explosive operations.
For example, some in-laws will leave uneaten leftovers to their daughters-in-law, with only onions, ginger and garlic in them;
For example, some in-laws will fry steamed bread slices, and will give the core of the steamed bread to their son, and give the side of the steamed bread to their daughter-in-law;
For example, some in-laws made sweet potato soup, but they specially picked a bowl of sweet potato stalks for their daughters-in-law to eat;
Another example is that some in-laws set the plate before eating, and they will specially put the big fish and meat in front of their son, and the leftovers in front of their daughter-in-law.
In short, every detail is the eye of the heart, and every eye of the heart is full of insidious calculations.
But the story looks funny, and the situation of each party is uncomfortable or uncomfortable.
Who would have thought that a long-awaited marriage would become a battlefield of soldiers?
Who would have thought that the so-called in-laws would always treat themselves as outsiders?
Who would have thought that every day there are countless contradictions to overcome.
Marriage shouldn't be like this.
At least for every woman, if they had known that marriage would be like this, they would not have chosen to marry at all.
We all say that husbands should be the bond of family relationships.
But other than the husband, others should also learn to compare hearts to hearts.
In addition to right and wrong, there is family affection, and there is affection in addition to generation.
A harmonious family is inseparable from the tolerance and maintenance of each family member, and the blessing of a family is inseparable from the friendly coexistence between members.
In the final analysis, there is never any special secret to a happy family, only the word tolerance.
Therefore, in the family, everyone should take a step back, once each other has done it, blessings and good luck will naturally come slowly!
(The above case person is a pseudonym)