There is no one in the world who loves her children more than a mother!
On April 20, Hangzhou, Zhejiang Province (source Ersanli Information) released a video: Bao's mother lost control of her emotions and yelled at her child, which quickly became a hot topic on the Internet.
The baby in the video is crying mommy, mom...
Mom's emotions instantly lost control: "Don't shout anymore!" Mom's voice was full of collapse, frustration, helplessness and even despair......
The mother dragged the child and shook it and screamed, while the child looked up at the mother in panic.
Bao Ma put down the child. , Mom covered her face with her hands, turned around, and cried silently!
At the end of the video, my mother sat in front of the floor-to-ceiling window and looked out of the dark window, and my child sat on the windowsill with his head down and apologized to his mother.
Bao's mother's back, helpless, sad and lonely, the child was frightened and at a loss, looking at this picture, suddenly felt that his heart hurt, and tears couldn't help but flow out.
In the life under surveillance, in addition to chicken feathers, there is also a lot of heartbreak and heartache, because I didn't see my father in the whole process.
At this time, it is said that the father is lying on the bed playing with his mobile phone, and the movement of his wife and children in the living room is far less attractive than his mobile phone.
Such a widowed marriage is distressing, according to Bao's mother, the husband has never taken care of the children, and he only lies in bed and plays with his mobile phone on his days off. Bao's mother was emotionally out of control, so she dragged the child, and her husband pretended not to hear it.
I believe that this mother will calm down, she will blame herself more than anyone else, because no one loves her children more than her, and I believe that the mother will be more disheartened.
Once the heart is tired, there is no turning back.
Netizens empathize, there are so many mothers of the same style in the comment area.
Netizens said that in fact, many mothers' winds are forced out by fathers at home, and they can only take their children out of anger, and they can't control themselves at this time, and they will really be depressed after a long time.
Some people criticize the mother's emotional instability and psychological damage to the child, but who takes the child to try it 24 hours a day, and then says that the mother is wrong.
The hardships of raising children can only be experienced by those who bring children. No matter how emotionally stable people are, they take the baby 24 hours a day, all year round, people who have never taken children will criticize their mothers, and those who have taken children know how terrible widowed marriages are, and the indifferent man behind them is the original sin.
Some netizens commented: If the father is lazy, the mother will suffer, the mother will be afraid, and the son will be afraid. The old man is immoral, the father is incompetent, the wife suffers, and the son labors.
Some people say that when they were children, they felt that their mother was out of control, yelling, and speechless, and when they grew up, they realized that their mother was the most pitiful person.
It can be seen that the father's important position in the family, after starting a family, if he thinks that he is the Dinghai Shen Needle, then he has to play the role of the Dinghai Shen Needle in all aspects, instead of being there and not caring about everything.
In marriage, in the face of trivial life, if a man stretches out a hand, a woman cannot collapse to such a point.
There is also such a mother, because of taking care of the child often ask for leave, this time the child is sick again, the mother holds the child both sad and helpless, hoping that the husband can let the mother-in-law come over to help take care of the child for a few days, because if you ask for leave again, you will be fired by the company.
As a result, her husband said: "If you are fired, you will be fired, I will have the money if I work for a while, and my mother will not come to take care of the child, it is a love to see, and it is my duty not to come to see it." ”
The husband's words seem to be reasonable, but there is actually a sense of indifference when he delves in.
If a family wants to live better and better, and the generation is stronger than the next, it is not a simple matter of one person or two people, but the unity and cooperation of the whole family, and it can only be done if the previous generation makes every effort to support the next generation.
Some netizens said, "Won't you hire a nanny for this mother?" Won't you let your husband take care of the children? Why do you have to count on your mother-in-law?
First of all, we must consider whether this small family has the conditions to hire a nanny? Is there any condition for the husband to take care of the children without earning money for a day? When these conditions are not met, saying such things is as ridiculous as saying "why not eat minced meat."
When a man is unable to carry the role of the family, it is the woman who suffers the most.
Therefore, there is nothing wrong with paying attention to the right family under marriage, a man who comes out of a happy and united family is likely to start a family in the future, and he will treat his wife and children in the same way.
Therefore, before a girl gets married, it is more important to understand the man's family in an all-round way than to understand the man himself.
A few days ago, a female college student talked about her concept of love in a marriage class, and received thunderous applause from the audience.
The girl thinks that the current society has too high requirements for boys, demanding his family, his height, his education, and his parents.
Girls think that a good love is when two people progress together. Seeing this video, I felt that the only thing to be thankful for at the time was that the girl did not say that a good marriage is for two people to progress together.
She is still a female college student, simple and innocent, she has not been beaten by society, with the views she thinks, it is recognized to have a vigorous love during college. But if you enter marriage with this point of view, then the two mothers we wrote about above will be what she will look like after marriage in the future.
Marriages that match each other will have similar family backgrounds, social status, and similar economic foundations, which will allow couples to have more common language and fewer run-in conflicts.
The union that comes from a happy original family will inevitably produce another happy family.
Marriage is not a child's play, before stepping into the marriage hall, understand each other in many ways, and even make an effective marital agreement. Only by avoiding a widowed marriage can we avoid becoming a broken and helpless mother.
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