Hello everyone~ I'm Xiaoli
Every child's childhood is full of fun, but the way they grow up is very different.
Some children grow up with the support of their parents, some children are left behind to grow up with a greater wildness, and some children grow up under the "routine" of their parents.
Children who grow up in the "routine" don't look very smart, but they actually have 4 major advantages, which many mothers don't know.
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Parents who like to play routines with their children abound.
Last month, I also saw a news that a child wanted to buy a toy car in the supermarket, but the parent delayed satisfying the need through routines. A toy costs dozens of dollars, in fact, there is no pressure on parents, but parents will let their children feel their parents' love for themselves through routines, and also let children realize that their parents' money is hard-earned.
Father's dictation: I said, you can buy a toy car if you want, but Dad needs to work overtime for two hours to earn more than 30 yuan, so should you have something equivalent to give me back?
The child also volunteered to help his parents with housework for a week, and the father did not hesitate to buy a toy car for the child.
In life, parents with such routine education also abound, but this has 4 major advantages for children
01. Know how to exchange and will not ask for free
Children who are routinely tricked are often given problems by their parents, and children will take the initiative to return to their parents through their own things, which invisibly also teaches children to return equally, and no one's things are given to them in vain, and they can also make children understand that the love given to them by their parents also needs to be reciprocated.
02. It is conducive to reflecting the charm of children's language
Routines for children can also stimulate children's language charm. After all, every time a child has a need, parents will create problems for their children, which will test the child's language organization skills, and the child will think: how to communicate with the parents, how can I meet my own needs?
This has certain benefits for children's language expression, and it will also have certain advantages for children's language charm in the future.
03. Problem-solving skills
Children will always encounter setbacks and difficulties from childhood to adulthood, so solving problems is a problem that children must get used to, and "routine" children are also the key to cultivating children's problem-solving skills.
After all, children who grow up in routines will solve the problems given to them by their parents every day, so children will also have the advantages of this aspect in the future.
04. Reverse thinking, beneficial to children's brain development
When parents are tricking their children, they will also let their children have reverse thinking and promote the development of children's brain intelligence.
Because it is difficult for parents to solve the questions for themselves, the children will not be able to meet their own needs, and then they will think before and after, which will stimulate the child's reverse thinking.