I used to be an ordinary and ordinary person, living in this noisy world, always habitually following the routine. Until one day, I met a person who opened my eyes and made me realize the biggest flaw of ordinary people: the lack of wisdom to "come the other way around".
That person was my neighbor, a seemingly ordinary middle-aged man named Li Ming. His way of life is markedly different from that of ordinary people, and he always approaches problems in a different way. By chance, I told him about my troubles, but his answer was an eye-opener for me.
"You know, sometimes the dilemma in our lives is that we habitually think and act according to routines? Li Ming said, his eyes revealing a deep wisdom.
I looked at him puzzled, waiting for his explanation.
"For example, sometimes when we are faced with difficulties, we always habitually look for conventional solutions, and ignore the possibility of 'doing the opposite'. He continued, "Perhaps, the solution to the dilemma is to let go of conventional thinking and find a different path. ”
I listened so intriguedly that it was as if I suddenly saw a bright sky.
His words made me think deeply, and I began to try to face various problems in life with a "reversed" way of thinking. When I encounter difficulties, I no longer habitually look for conventional solutions, but try to think from different angles and find new solutions.
In the days that followed, I went through many challenges and dilemmas, but each time I was able to find a solution to the problem. Sometimes, these methods may seem odd or even unconventional, but they always work.
I began to realize that wisdom that "comes the other way around" is not a gift, but an ability that is learned and cultivated. As long as we are willing to let go of our stereotypes and dare to try different ways, we can discover the infinite possibilities in life.
Under Li Ming's guidance, I am no longer an ordinary person trapped in conventional thinking, but a person with the wisdom of "coming backwards". I learned to see the world differently and solve problems in different ways, and my life became more colorful because of it.
I am grateful to Li Ming for making me aware of the biggest flaw of ordinary people, and it was he who made me find a way to overcome this flaw. I am willing to spread this wisdom to more people, so that they can also have the wisdom of "coming backwards" and make life better.