Can you come in and knock on the door!
How many children begin to pay attention to privacy when they grow up, but their parents don't think so, and always prevaricate with a sentence about what privacy children can have, but I don't know how many children's hearts are hurt by this sentence.
Nowadays, more and more people suffer from depression, but there is a mental illness that is even more serious than depression, especially for some adolescent children, it is even more frequent!
What exactly is this mental illness and how can we avoid it in our daily lives?
They also cry when they are respected by their parents
This is a memory from Xiao Q, she said that she still remembers that when she was in junior high school, she understood what privacy is, and also understood that girls should pay attention to their privacy.
But the parents didn't seem to think so at all, they just felt that their daughter was just a child who hadn't grown up yet, so they often entered her room without knocking.
Xiao Q doesn't know why, in the face of her reckless parents, she seems to be a little angry, she begins to become restless, often locking herself in the room alone, but her parents never know why Xiao Q became like this at that time, they just feel that she is making trouble unreasonably.
But suddenly one day, because he called his daughter to eat, he saw a note written on the door saying come in and ask to knock on the door, and suddenly understood the reason why his daughter had been depressed for the past few days, and from then on, the family would knock on the door when they entered her room.
Little Q also realized that her family began to respect her, and understood that children should also have privacy, and she no longer had to have nightmares when someone broke into the door at night, at that moment, she not only felt the respect of her parents, but also love.
I remember that night, a knock on the door brought tears to her eyes.
60% of the reasons for the sudden restlessness of children come from the family, in other words, from the nagging of the parents.
This kind of "Chinese-style" parental education seems to have become widespread, and it has also become a childhood nightmare for many children.
We're all for your good
The three words "good for you" can be said to be the earliest CPU speech, how many children's active consciousness is drowned out by their parents' words for your good, which is why many young people now have difficulty in choosing.
Parents used to define whatever they did, because they had traveled more and eaten more salt than their children had ever eaten rice, but how could they empathize with them if they didn't experience it firsthand?
This causes many teenagers to be overly anxious and even a little precocious, but sometimes children's excessive anxiety actually comes from the anxiety of their parents.
Parents want their children to be successful so they put unprecedented pressure on them when they are very young, which leads to many children looking like adults at a young age.
The reason why parents are in a hurry is also because of the pressure brought by society, this child starts learning from the age of three and has to read until the age of 30, such a long process is simply a torture, so many children have some backlash physically and psychologically, so they are very prone to adolescent bipolar disorder.
Adolescent mania
This is also because people's emotions are constantly fluctuating, when he has nothing to do, he always vents his inner dissatisfaction through his mood, and bipolar disorder means that this person often has two very extreme bipolar disorders.
Either irritable like thunder, or even smashing things, or depressed, sitting there alone and not moving, this is a typical bipolar disorder, and every year on March 30 is also known as World Bipolar Disorder Day, this holiday is also born to let people know more about the disease, but also to learn more about the growth and development of some teenagers.
How many children do not have the right to choose in their lives, basically arranged by their parents for a lifetime, from food and clothing to what college to go to, and even what kind of marriage partner to find, they may be interfered with by their parents, at this time will you choose your favorite lifestyle or live according to the requirements of your parents step by step?
This is a big question, but for bipolar disorder, how can we tell in real life that we or someone close to us has bipolar disorder?
In fact, z mainly starts from these aspects.
How to tell if you have bipolar disorder
People with bipolar disorder generally do not have very good sleep quality, it is difficult to fall asleep every night, and even use alcohol to numb themselves, and they sleep very shallowly, they can't hear a little wind and grass, and they sleep very late, but they get up very early in the morning, which is also one of the phenomena that people with bipolar disorder may have.
The main manifestation is of course in behavior and speech, the mood of general bipolar patients is particularly difficult to guess, sometimes a person will stay there, not talking for a day, sometimes will be extremely excited, and even exaggerate consumption to make themselves happy.
Especially in terms of speaking, during the period of bipolar depression, they often scold the people around them, and they can't control their emotions at all, but this is not their original intention, but the sad words blurted out are like water spilled out, and they can't be taken back at all.
And many teenagers suffer from bipolar disorder and they don't know it, and the doctor is often misdiagnosed as depression, so parents must pay attention to the growth of their children, and for some adults, they should learn to use some appropriate ways to regulate their mood, such as traveling, seeing the great rivers and mountains of the motherland, refusing internal friction, and starting from themselves.
Many geniuses are not like this, they have abilities that ordinary people don't have, and they also have obstacles that ordinary people don't have, so "Love Apartment" once said it very well, saying don't discriminate against crazy people, they just have a different worldview from you.
Mature parents do this to their children
When a child behaves abnormally, truly mature parents will not blame the child at the first time, but empathize with the child from the child's point of view, but there are very few parents who can really do this.
Information sources:
The official account of Oriental.com
"Alert! This mental illness is more serious than depression, with a high incidence of adolescence and a high rate of misdiagnosis"
hatps://baijiyahaao.baidu.com/s?id=1795008426058125747&dfr=spider&for=pc
The official account of Xinmin Evening News
"Alert! This mental illness is more serious than depression, with a high incidence of adolescence and a high rate of misdiagnosis"
hatps://baijiyahaao.baidu.com/s?id=1794846681104946537&dfr=spider&for=pc
Political and legal channel (released by Guangming Network)
"I'm doing well, but I don't think it's interesting to live" Attention! This is a more serious mental illness than depression
Hatpas://m.gmv.cn/2023-11/10/content_1303566608.hatma
Shangguan News
Van Gogh, Churchill, Hemingway all suffered from this disease, and it was more painful than depression
hatps://export.shobserver.com/baijiyahao/html/353852.html
The official account of Xinmin Evening News
"Adolescent Emotional Abnormalities Like a "Roller Coaster"? Beware of This Kind of Mental Illness That Is More Serious Than Depression |
https://www.toutiao.com/article/7351587488109986339/
The official account of Xi'an Educational Television
"It's Scarier Than Depression, High Incidence in Teens!How Can Parents Help Prevent It?"
https://www.toutiao.com/article/7080751731776176680/