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The cause of all these events can be traced back to the major decision a few years ago - Sun Li's decision to support a student from a poor family for a long time. No one could have predicted that this act of kindness from the bottom of his heart would eventually lead to such serious consequences.
At that time, Sun Li was highly enthusiastic and full of hope to provide a dawn of hope for this diligent and studious child through her own efforts, leading him to a broader path in life.
However, just as Sun Li was embracing a vision, a shocking Weibo post went viral on the Internet, sparking a wide and heated discussion. The famous writer Han Han openly criticized: "Others are not allowed to raise large dogs, why can Sun Li raise wolves?"
When it comes to Sun Li, the audience is naturally full of praise for her outstanding achievements in the field of acting. In the classic TV series "The Legend of Zhen Huan", her superb acting skills amazed people, and successfully interpreted the wisdom and charm of the role of "Concubine Ling", which can be called a model among the classics.
Not only that, in this entertainment industry full of glitz and vanity, Sun Li has never been polluted by any scandals, has always maintained a simple and low-key lifestyle, and devoted herself to her career and family.
In addition to her outstanding performance in the film and television industry, Sun Li is also a philanthropist who shows the brilliance of humanity. She often gives generously to support children from poor families who have dreams.
It is precisely because of this selfless kindness that in 2001, when Sun Li watched a TV program that exposed the real situation in poor mountainous areas, she was deeply moved by the innocence and simplicity and self-improvement spirit of a boy named Xiang Haiqing.
Xiang Haiqing was born in a poor family and lived in an extremely difficult environment, but he never gave up the pursuit of a better life, studied diligently in the depths of the barren mountains, and his grades were always among the best.
Seeing this situation, Sun Li was determined to sponsor him to complete his studies and help him get out of the mountains and start a new chapter in his life.
Back in 2001, Xiang Haiqing was in the prime of his youth and full of vitality. Despite his poor family and poor living environment, he never stopped yearning for and pursuing a better life.
Located in the depths of the distant and impoverished mountains, Xiang Haiqing is like an unswerving rock, unflinching in the face of difficulties, working hard and diligently seeking knowledge. Not only did he excel in school, but he also held many key positions at the school, demonstrating his unwavering self-motivation.
It is such a quality of unremitting self-motivation and persistent pursuit that deeply touched the top film and television superstar in the bustling city - Sun Li. In the process of watching the show, Sun Li was attracted by Xiang Haiqing's innocent, simple and unyielding temperament, as if she had found the shadow of her youth in him.
Therefore, Sun Li decided to go all out to sponsor this hard-working child and lead him out of the mountains and towards a new journey in life.
Although Sun Li had just stepped into the entertainment industry at that time and had a meager income, she still kept her promise to remit 500 yuan of living expenses to Xiang Haiqing on time every month, and often sent study materials and daily necessities, giving him endless encouragement and guidance in terms of spirit and studies.
With the support and assistance of Sun Li's selfless dedication, Xiang Haiqing finally overcame many difficulties and was successfully admitted to a well-known university in Shanghai.
However, not long after Xiang Haiqing stepped into the university gate with great anticipation, the fire of greed in his heart gradually ignited. When he met Sun Li for the first time, he was shocked to find that the benefactor he had been funded for many years turned out to be Sun Li, a high-profile and hot film and television superstar! This sudden fact made Xiang Haiqing fall into an inferiority complex of being charity by the rich.
Coupled with the fact that there are many classmates from wealthy families around him, Xiang Haiqing is increasingly dissatisfied with the current living situation. So, he began to complain about the tight cost of living in letters to Sun Li's mother, and the words were full of intentions to put pressure on the other party.
He even mentioned that he held a position in the student council at the school, and his monthly mobile phone bill was as high as nearly 100 yuan, and he hoped to receive more funding.
In the face of such an unreasonable request from Xiang Haiqing, Sun Li's mother patiently explained and suggested that he put aside these trivial matters for the time being and focus on his studies. However, Xiang Haiqing stubbornly insisted that these jobs were of great help to his personal ability and was resolutely unwilling to give up.
As a result, there has been a gap between the two sides, and the contradictions have deepened day by day.
Time flies, Xiang Haiqing's attitude towards Sun Li's mother has become more and more arrogant, and the contempt and sarcasm revealed in her words pierced her heart like a sharp knife. Looking at the scene in front of her, Sun Li's heart was extremely painful, and the dream that was once full of hope was now uncertain.
After careful consideration and repeated communication, Sun Li's mother finally made a decisive decision - to stop all-round financial assistance to Xiang Haiqing. Although the decision was difficult, it was made carefully after many in-depth conversations with the school's teachers.
They found that Xiang Haiqing's mind had been severely distorted, and he mistakenly believed that Sun Li had promised that he could ask for money endlessly as long as he needed it, and this dependence and possession had long been deeply rooted in his heart.
It must be known that Sun Li's original intention of sponsoring Xiang Haiqing was to hope that he could rely on his own strength to change his fate, rather than let him fall into the abyss of poverty forever. However, Xiang Haiqing failed to grasp this, and his eyes were completely focused on Sun Li, who was regarded as a never-ending source of wealth.
Faced with such a regrettable ending, Sun Li and her mother were both frustrated and disappointed.
At this time, this matter actually caused an uproar on the Internet. A reporter named Qiu Chaoju was preparing a documentary on the theme of celebrities sponsoring poor children, so he got in touch with Xiang Haiqing.
After learning the truth of the incident, although Qiu Chaoju concealed the true identity of the relevant personnel out of sympathy, the matter still spread quickly on the Internet and attracted widespread attention.
Opinions are rife about Sun Li's actions, with some questioning her aim to beautify her personal image and create a positive public image. Suddenly, Sun Li's glorious image of an "angel" in the past disappeared, and was replaced by questions and accusations from the majority of netizens.
In this way, the career she had carefully built over the years took a heavy hit.
And Xiang Haiqing was also forced by the pressure of public opinion, so he had to interrupt his studies, leave his hometown, and look for a position as an ordinary employee in an ordinary unit in his hometown. The life path full of infinite possibilities in the past has come to an end.
Looking at the ups and downs of the whole incident, we will undoubtedly reveal a sharp reality: in the context of our current era of material supremacy, countless people have gradually lost their judgment of self-knowledge in order to seek more wealth and a higher level of quality of life, and have forgotten the most basic and important moral norms and gratitude in the process!
Xiang Haiqing is a typical representative of this phenomenon. At first, he deeply admired Sun Li's selfless assistance, worked hard, worked hard, and hoped to change the trajectory of his fate through his own efforts.
However, when he stepped into the bustling metropolis of Shanghai, he was unfortunately overshadowed by the extravagance around him.
As time passed, he gradually developed a natural mentality, mistakenly believing that Sun Li's assistance was a matter of course, and even excessively demanded and had no restraint.
This scene can't help but make people feel emotional, even if we give others a fishing rod, if they lack noble moral cultivation in their hearts, they will eventually become endless greedy.
This incident is like a wake-up call to remind us that the primary mission of education is not limited to simply imparting knowledge, but more importantly, to shape students' noble moral integrity and cultivate their correct outlook on life and values, only in this way can a new generation of people be truly born.
Otherwise, if you let yourself be restrained like Xiang Haiqing, you will eventually fall into the endless abyss of materialism and become a pathetic and lamentable. This incident is a profound wake-up call for us to reflect deeply on the far-reaching significance of education.