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Although he is over 37 years old, Ding Ding still remains single, which undoubtedly fills his mother Cai Ming's heart with endless worries.
Cai Ming has always been proud of his son's brilliant achievements, and looks forward to seeing him enter the palace of marriage as soon as possible and enjoy his own happy family life.
However, the reality is always full of unexpected variables, and when faced with her son's unwavering refusal to marry, her heart is full of anxiety and helplessness.
Whenever he sees his friends around him already loving each other, holding hands, and taking his lovely grandchildren for a leisurely walk in the park, Cai Ming can't help but feel extremely envious.
She fears that her beloved son will end up alone and unaccompanied, which plunges her whole body into an abyss of melancholy.
Whenever night falls and everything is silent, Cai Ming will always toss and turn, unable to sleep, and his heart is full of deep worries about his son's marriage.
Tintin is perplexed by his attitude, believing that her son, despite his impressive career achievements, has never found a home in the emotional world.
As a great mother, she has always longed to see her son enter the palace of marriage as soon as possible and build a happy family of his own.
However, the reality is often contrary to expectations, and this pain and anxiety have undoubtedly become an eternal "heart disease" in Cai Ming's heart.
In the face of his son's resolute refusal, Cai Ming also tried to have in-depth communication with her husband Ding Qiuxing. Ding Qiuxing believes that young people's married life should be left to their own choices, and parents only need to provide appropriate guidance and support, rather than imposing their own wishes on them.
These words made the opinionated Cai Ming fall into deep thought, and she realized that she could no longer treat her son as hard as she used to, but needed to learn to respect his choice and give him appropriate understanding and support.
However, even after understanding this truth, Cai Ming still can't get rid of the anxiety and pain in his heart. She is always heartbroken about Ding Ding's lifelong events, for fear that her beloved son will die alone.
Under this mindset, whenever he sees his friends and grandchildren strolling leisurely in the park, Cai Ming not only feels full of envy, but also can't help but feel deep worry and guilt for his son.
Looking at the overall situation, Ding Ding is thirty-seven years old and still maintains the status quo of being single and childless, which has undoubtedly become an indelible pain in the heart of his mother Cai Ming.
As an extraordinary professional woman, she has always been full of confidence and courage, but in the face of this incident, she feels helpless and helpless.
Although Cai Ming knows that her son's personal choices must be respected, she still can't shake off the anxiety and pain in her heart, and this contradictory emotion constantly torments her.
How should she deal with the predicament that her son is facing? This is undoubtedly a question worthy of our in-depth consideration.
From the moment Ding Ding fell to the ground, Cai Ming had high expectations for him. As a well-known artist with a prominent background, she longs for Ding Ding to cultivate the fine quality of diligence and studious from an early age and achieve brilliant achievements in his career.
Therefore, when Ding Ding was only four years old, Cai Ming hired a senior tutor to teach him calligraphy and painting skills. At the same time, she also earnestly warned her son: "Academics should start from an early age, and there should be no slackness."
In Cai Ming's eyes, only through strict education and guidance can we ensure that Ding Ding has a smooth journey in his future life journey. She hopes that her son can make achievements in his career and become the center of attention.
As it turned out, Cai Ming's expectations were not groundless. After years of unremitting efforts, Tintin has finally grown into a talented young talent, and with his own strength, he has gradually made his mark in the entertainment industry, and finally succeeded in creating the critically acclaimed comedy film "Thai Embarrassment".
Her mother, Cai Ming, was naturally very proud of this, and she often proudly showed off to her relatives and friends that the film was made by her son.
However, just as she was immersed in this joy, she found that her son seemed to have no interest in love, and even though she arranged blind dates for Tintin many times, he was always perfunctory and difficult to resonate emotionally.
This made Cai Ming, who has always been full of self-confidence, fall into deep worry, and she worries that her beloved child will eventually spend the rest of her life alone.
Cai Ming really can't understand why his son, who has a successful career, has never been able to make a breakthrough in the field of relationships. She has been eagerly looking forward to seeing Tintin enter the palace of marriage as soon as possible and have a happy family of her own.
As an outstanding female hero in the workplace, Cai Ming is always full of confidence, but she feels powerless and helpless in this matter. She spared no effort to persuade her son Ding Ding, hoping that he would take a cautious view of the marriage matter, but every persuasion was met with her son's stern rejection, which made her feel very frustrated.
Faced with her son's firm resistance, Cai Ming tried to find her husband Ding Qiuxing's assistance. Ding Qiuxing has an opinion on this, believing that young people's marriage and love career should be decided by themselves, and parents only need to provide appropriate guidance and support, rather than forcibly instilling personal wishes.
This remark made Cai Ming, who has always been stubborn, fall into deep thought. She gradually realized that she could no longer be as tough on her son as she used to, but that she needed to respect his choices and give him proper understanding and support.
However, even after comprehending this truth, Cai Ming still couldn't get rid of the worry and pain in his heart. She is always thinking about Tintin's lifelong events, lest her beloved son spend the rest of his life alone.
Whenever he saw that his relatives and friends had become pairs, strolling hand in hand in the park and enjoying the joy of family, Cai Ming not only felt endless envy in his heart, but also couldn't help but feel worried and guilty about his son.
Looking at the overall situation, as an excellent mother, Cai Ming has always had high expectations for her son Ding Ding, expecting him to achieve brilliant achievements both professionally and emotionally.
However, the reality is often contrary to the ideal, and in the face of her son's indifferent attitude towards marriage, she is full of anxiety and helplessness.
Although she understands that she must respect Ding Ding's choice, Cai Ming still can't get rid of her inner worries, and this contradictory emotion torments her repeatedly.
Tintin's birth process is a wonderful journey. It was at an art event in 1983, and just as Cai Ming was fully engaged in his work, Ding Qiuxing was immediately attracted by this beautiful and moving lady.
Although Ding Qiuxing did not have a pen and paper in his hand at that time, he did not hesitate to tear off the plaster on his body, recorded his contact information with a pen, and then walked through the crowd to Cai Ming, and gently pasted the plaster on her back.
What people never expected was that just a few days later, Cai Ming actually connected to the phone number left by Ding Qiuxing! Since then, the beautiful marriage between these two people made in heaven has come as scheduled.
After only two years, they walked into the palace of marriage hand in hand, and then, Cai Ming was lucky to give birth to their beloved son, Ding Ding.
I remember that when Tintin was young, he showed a different kind of hard work. In order to live up to his mother's deep expectation of "not letting the child lose at the starting line", he would concentrate on writing and drawing in his notebook every day, and sit for most of the day.
Although he was under tremendous psychological pressure at the beginning and was even almost admitted to the hospital, under Cai Ming's patient guidance, Ding Ding finally grew into an independent and calm teenager.
Tintin is not only hardworking, but also very sensible and considerate. He would take the initiative to ask his mother to buy various types of books for him, thus cultivating a good habit of reading every day.
In terms of learning, he is even more tireless and unrelenting, which undoubtedly deeply touched Cai Ming, who has always been strict, and she is proud of her son from the bottom of her heart.
In Cai Ming's eyes, having such an excellent son is undoubtedly her greatest blessing. Even when her son was sent to study abroad when he was 15 years old, she never interfered too much, but had full confidence in him, believing that he would never do anything deviant, and that he was visionary.
Thankfully, when Ding Ding was in his third year of college, not only did he not reach out to his family to ask for living expenses, but took the initiative to send money to his grandparents to buy nutritional products and pay attention to their health.
This fully reflects Ding Ding's noble quality of independence and calmness, which undoubtedly makes Cai Ming feel very pleased and proud.
Time flies, and in the blink of an eye, in 2009, Ding Ding successfully completed his overseas studies and resolutely chose to return to his motherland for development. At this time, although he was only 23 years old, he had already become a talented screenwriter.
Although Cai Ming has already made a name for himself in the entertainment industry and has become a high-profile star, Ding Ding resolutely refused his mother's assistance, and he hopes to break through his own efforts in this circle and become a well-known director or screenwriter.
These words deeply touched Cai Ming's heart, and she deeply felt that her son not only had the spirit of filial piety, but also was quite independent and assertive.
Therefore, she decisively gave up the idea of trying to interfere with her son's career development all the time, and instead let him run freely with trust and support.
Eventually, Tintin relied on his profound skills to create the popular comedy film "Thai Embarrassment", which made him a high-profile screenwriter.
Undoubtedly, this is also one of Cai Ming's proudest deeds as a mother.
It goes without saying that since childhood, Tintin has shown outstanding talent and noble qualities on various occasions. He was not only diligent and diligent in his studies, but also showed the fine character of honoring his parents and being independent.
Even with his impressive career achievements, he still adheres to the responsibility of caring for his family. These are all things that Cai Ming is proud of, and she is proud of her son from the bottom of her heart.
Although Cai Ming is still worried about her son Ding Ding's marriage, she is also extremely proud of her son's brilliant achievements in his career.
In 2009, after returning to China at the age of 23, Ding Ding firmly chose to return to China for development. At this moment, he has become a talented screenwriter.
With his own strength and unremitting efforts, Ding Ding has created many works that are loved by the audience, including the comedy film "Thai Embarrassment".
At the time of the premiere of "Thai Embarrassment", the box office climbed like a rocket to an astonishing 300 million yuan, triggering an enthusiastic response from the entire film and television industry.
The success of this masterpiece is naturally inseparable from the hard work of screenwriter Ding Ding.
As a mother, Cai Ming is naturally very pleased, and she often proudly shows off to friends and family, saying that the film was made by her son.
Since then, Ding Ding has created many excellent works such as "Kung Fu Panda 3" and "Havoc in Tianzhu", as well as many classic funny lines in the recently acclaimed animated film "Mamma Mia Duck", which are undoubtedly from his ingenious ideas.
There is no doubt that Tintin is a dedicated workaholic, and he has poured all his heart and energy into the growth of his career.
In the face of such a predicament, even Ms. Cai Ming, who has always been serious, could not change the firm determination of her son Ding Ding. She did her best, mobilized all her social networks, and carefully planned a series of blind date activities for Tintin, full of anticipation to see her beloved son step into the palace of marriage as soon as possible.
However, in the process of each blind date, Ding Ding showed extreme perfunctory and indifference, and it was difficult for the blind date to have any emotional resonance, and he frankly stated that only after achieving a major breakthrough in his career or achieving outstanding results, he could think about finding the other half of his life.
Tintin was deeply shocked by Tintin words, and she realized that her son had grown into a mature and independent man, and with his own talent and hard work, he gradually emerged in the film and television industry and became a high-profile screenwriter.
This is undoubtedly the proudest thing for Ms. Cai Ming, and she is extremely proud of her son from the bottom of her heart.
However, as a mother, Cai Ming has never been able to get rid of her deep worries about her son's marriage. Despite Tintin's impressive career achievements, it did not alleviate her anxiety and pain.
She still longs to see her son enter the palace of marriage as soon as possible, have a happy family of her own, every time she sees that her friends have spent the rest of their lives together, and when she takes her grandchildren for a leisurely walk in the park, Cai Ming not only feels endless envy, but also can't help but feel deep anxiety and guilt for her son.
Looking at the overall situation, as an outstanding screenwriter, Ding Ding has made brilliant achievements in his career, which has undoubtedly become the proudest place for his mother Cai Ming.
However, Cai Ming also can't get rid of the deep worries about her son's marriage, and she looks forward to seeing Ding Ding enter the palace of marriage as soon as possible and have her own happy family, which is a complex and contradictory mood that plagues this excellent mother all the time.
Faced with his son Ding Ding's indifferent attitude towards marriage, Cai Ming was full of anxiety and helplessness. As a successful professional woman, she has always believed in herself, but she feels helpless and unable to do anything about it.
This passage made Cai Ming deeply emotional, and she realized that her son had completely grown into a mature and independent man, and with his own strength and struggle, he gradually emerged in the circle and became a popular screenwriter.
In the face of such a situation, even Ms. Cai Ming, who was too strong, could not shake her son's firm determination.
Tintin's attitude left Cai Ming with deep doubts, she knew that her son had achieved remarkable achievements in the professional field, but he always seemed to be unable to keep up with the pace in the emotional world.
As a great mother, she has always been eagerly looking forward to seeing her son enter the palace of marriage as soon as possible and build his own happy home.
Faced with her son's firm refusal, Ms. Cai Ming tried to find empathy with her husband Ding Qiuxing. Mr. Ding Qiuxing believes that young people's married life should be left to their own choices, and parents only need to provide appropriate guidance and support, rather than forcing their own will.
The remarks made the opinionated Cai Ming fall into deep thought, and she gradually realized that she could no longer treat her son as hard as before, but needed to learn to respect his choice and give him appropriate understanding and support.
However, despite comprehending this truth, Cai Ming still can't get rid of the anxiety and pain in his heart. She is always worried about Tintin's life's events, and is afraid that her beloved child will spend the rest of her life alone.
Whenever he saw his relatives and friends already in pairs, holding hands and taking his grandchildren to stroll leisurely in the park, Cai Ming not only felt endless envy, but also couldn't help but feel worry and guilt for his son.
In this mode of thinking, Cai Ming could not break free from the anxiety and pain in her heart, and she was worried that her beloved son would eventually die alone and without anyone to accompany her.
This contradictory mentality continues to torment this outstanding mother, causing her whole person to fall into the abyss of melancholy.
Looking at the overall situation, as an outstanding working woman, Ms. Cai Ming has always been full of confidence, but she feels helpless and helpless in her son's marriage.
She has always longed to witness Tintin enter the palace of marriage and have a happy family of his own as soon as possible, but the reality is often contrary to expectations.
Although she understands that her son's choice must be respected, Cai Ming still can't get rid of the worries in her heart, which makes her fall into deep anxiety.
In today's Chinese society, the problem of children's marriage, especially the trend of the younger generation choosing to live alone, is not an isolated case.
According to authoritative demographic statistics, there are already more than 240 million single people in the mainland, and 34% of young people say that they are determined to choose a single life in the future, a phenomenon that deeply worries many parents.
As parents, they always hope that their children can enter the palace of marriage as soon as possible and build their own warm home. However, the reality is often not satisfactory, especially in today's increasingly competitive social environment, where the pressures and difficulties faced by young people are difficult to describe, and it is not easy to find the ideal partner.
Therefore, some parents do not force their children to get married, and they will not easily arrange blind date activities for them. They firmly believe that young people's marital life should be left to them, and that parents only need to provide appropriate guidance and support, rather than instilling their own will.
However, on the other hand, parents are equally reluctant to see their children spend the rest of their lives alone, unaccompanied and without children or grandchildren. They believe that their children's choice not to marry is a sign of evasion of responsibility and an extreme irresponsibility to themselves and their families.
Under the influence of such a concept, whenever he sees his friends holding hands and taking his lovely grandchildren for a leisurely walk in the park, Cai Ming's heart is full of envy, and at the same time, he can't help but worry and feel guilty for his precious son.
Like Cai Ming, many parents have deep feelings. They hope that their children can enter the palace of marriage as soon as possible, but at the same time, they cannot completely deny the right of children to choose single.
Driven by this ambivalence, some parents choose to adopt a more inclusive attitude, giving their children greater autonomy and understanding.
However, there are also some parents, such as Cai Ming, who have never been able to shake off their inner anxiety and worry. They believe that their children's choice of celibacy is undoubtedly irresponsible behavior towards the family, which makes them feel extremely angry and helpless.
Whenever they see their friends walking in the park hand in hand with their grandchildren, their hearts are full of envy, and at the same time, they inevitably worry and feel guilty about their children.
This deep inner conflict is a reflection of the drastic change in the view of marriage in our time! In the traditional concept, marriage is revered as a crucial stage in the course of life, carrying heavy responsibilities and obligations.
Nowadays, however, many younger generations are beginning to think deeply about marriage, and they yearn for more space to pursue individual freedom and self-fulfillment, rather than just passively bearing the expectations given by society.
Faced with this reality, many parents are forced to find themselves in a painful dilemma. They still have the expectation of sending their children on the road to marriage and building a happy family, but at the same time, they must understand and accept their children's independent choices, and give them the respect and support they deserve.
There is no doubt that this has become a major topic in the field of family education that is deeply thought-provoking.
To sum up, Cai Ming's worries and troubles about his son Ding Ding's marriage are a true portrayal of the growing single group in today's society.
Driven by this ambivalence, they need to learn to respect their children's choices, give them appropriate understanding and support, rather than forcibly instilling their own wills, only in this way can we truly build a harmonious and healthy family relationship.