Text: Jade cherishes poems
Editor|Jade Cherish Poems
Preface
Hou Yong, a national first-class actor, told us with his personal experience that some people's lives are inseparable from marriage. After all, he married a post-70s school girl in the first marriage, a post-80s beauty in the second marriage, and a post-90s wife in the third marriage at the age of 50.
So, what's wrong with Hou Yong? Is it obsessed with marriage, addicted to marriage, or is he, like the public, trying to find her who can best survive the ups and downs of life?
Material wealth bridges the age gap
Although the hero is late, it doesn't matter, there are beauties on his side. At this moment, Hou Yong, who is over half a hundred years old and has slightly white temples, snuggles up to a young and beautiful long-haired woman on his shoulders.
This woman's name is Wang Rui, born in the 90s, and she is dressed in famous brands, from knitted sweaters and shorts to brand-name bags and baseball caps, showing her high value.
It's no wonder that the wife of a national first-class actor and the jewel of a wealthy jewelry businessman has no money? Of course not. Perhaps it is precisely because of their abundant assets that two people with an age difference of a generation have come together.
So, in marriage, age is not an issue, money is. Hou Yong has struggled for most of his life, his reputation and status have been gained, and he has finally straightened his waist financially, which is a man's greatest confidence, as long as his wife wants to, he can afford anything.
It is said that Wang Rui is still a fan of Hou Yong, so it's no wonder that the two came together like this.
Ordinary men can't get into her eyes anymore, and it wasn't until Hou Yong's appearance that Wang Rui had the urge to get married. After all, at that time, he had already achieved a successful career and exuded the charm of a mature man.
Not only that, Hou Yong, who is at this age, no longer has much heart to fight, and is more about leaving his energy to wash his hands and make soup for his wife.
Compared with most men's earning money to support their families, now, Hou Yong is coaxing his wife, waiting for retirement, and his enterprising spirit has been exhausted as early as 40 years ago.
In fact, Hou Yong has not always been so family-oriented and loves his wife, if it weren't for the efforts of his previous two wives, he probably wouldn't have the smooth sailing and family-oriented he is now. Even when he was approaching the age of sixties, he was accompanied by Bai Fumei Wang Rui.
Therefore, Wang Rui and her husband's loving life is probably due to the favor of others, as the so-called "predecessors planted trees, and later generations enjoyed the shade", which is the case. So, how did Hou Yong engage in love competition and become gentle and homely?
The premise of being loved is not necessarily pretty
In 1967, Hou Yong was born as the eldest brother in an ordinary family, which was not a piece of study material, and his younger brothers and sisters were thirsty for knowledge, so he simply chose to drop out of junior high school and vacate an opportunity to go to school and become a carbon sifter craftsman.
The job is dirty, messy, and poor. Halfway through, the mother came to see her son, and when she saw Hou Yong in the sun and rain, she was dark and thin, and her heart was broken, and the unspoken words became tears on her face.
Later, his mother helped Hou Yong find a job in the meat factory, because of his young age, good memory, and great strength, he was particularly valued by the leadership, and soon entered the leadership of the factory, and fate opened a fork in the road for him.
In 1987, old classmates came to Hou Yongzhuang, hoping that someone could accompany him to apply for the Jiangsu Provincial Drama Academy, but he didn't expect his classmates to fall off the list, but he was unexpectedly admitted.
As a result, Hou Yong gave up the management position of the meat factory and entered the art school. Like other boys, he talked about campus love, and went in and out with his girlfriend Shen Rong every day.
But the difference is that Hou Yong is more blessed than most boys, because his girlfriend is a school flower, in terms of appearance, grades, and family background, everything is good, and he also talked about such a beautiful woman as his wife.
After getting married, Shen Rong was willing to retreat behind the scenes for the sake of her husband's career and paved the way for him. By constantly dredging and sorting out his contacts, Hou Yong finally got the opportunity to star in "Rushing Out of the Amazon".
In order to be in good condition, Hou Yong deliberately went to Hainan and spent two days tanning himself, which was no different from a special soldier. When performing live, it created amazing effects and was loved by the audience.
At this point, Hou Yong became an instant hit, and when asked if there was any secret to success, Hou Yong said excitedly: "Everything I have today is due to my wife Shen Rong, without her, there would be no me Hou Yong." ”
The applause from the audience was long and full of wishes for the couple. Later, Hou Yong's career became more and more successful, and he thought that everything would get better and better, but unexpectedly, his marriage changed.
The cause of the accident is fertility problems. Maybe it's a physical handicap, Shen Rong has never given birth to a child, but Hou Yong's parents are anxious to hold their grandson and keep putting pressure on their son.
Seeing that her husband was constantly being urged by her parents to give birth, and she couldn't get her husband's absolute favoritism, Shen Rong finally took the initiative to file for divorce and said that she didn't want to delay Hou Yong because she couldn't give birth. In this way, Hou Yong parted ways with his first wife, and Shen Rong also used her personal experience to tell the world: The premise of being loved is not necessarily beautiful.
The same choice leads to the same ending
After divorcing Shen Rong, Hou Yong's career became more and more smooth, and when he was in the middle of the day, he met actor Pan Yuchen. To be precise, when filming, they have already come together with fake scenes.
Later, the two naturally received a marriage certificate, and Pan Yuchen brought the filter in the play to the outside of the play, like Shen Rong, choosing to sacrifice her career and be the woman behind Hou Yong.
The couple had a daughter in the case of you and me. At the beginning, Hou Yong turned into a slave of his daughter, and as soon as he got home, he took pictures and showed the baby, and wrote love letters for his daughter. I thought that such a happy and happy life would last for a long, long time. Unexpectedly, after three years of maintenance, there was a crack that could not be repaired.
It turned out that the in-laws urged their daughter-in-law to have a second child when their son was out filming. But Pan Yuchen's dedication does not allow her to do this, and her husband's silent attitude towards this matter seems to be a tacit approval of what his parents have done, and in desperation, Pan Yuchen chose to divorce.
She never thought that she would choose to become her husband's support with a good future and youth, but in the end she almost became a fertility machine.
It's just that Pan Yuchen didn't expect that Hou Yong later did not force his wife to give birth, and as his wife, he didn't have to touch the empty pillow every day when he woke up. It was she and Shen Rong who jointly created a gentle husband for Wang Rui.
For ordinary people, marriage is not so complicated, it is not a bargaining chip for official careers, there is no need to build a ladder for promotion, it is not a product of pure love, and it makes people live and die at every turn.
Marriage is marriage, there are not so many beautiful things attached to it, and when viewed rationally, it is just a minimalist model of human cooperation, which is long-term and effective.
If you want to work together happily, you need to inject a strong spirit of contract into both parties. After all, a person's life, long and short, needs to go through countless ups and downs.
In the loneliness of life, if you can have a partner to advance and retreat with you, the suffering will also have a different taste. That's probably what marriage is all about.
epilogue
In the face of love and reality, material standards, age is not a problem, and it can even be ignored. Hou Yong's marriage is moving towards younger and younger women, and there must be a credit for status and wealth.
Hou Yong, who is non-stop in marriage, will inevitably be criticized. But his behavior is not illegal, and no one can stop him. A man who is born with a smile and hatred often likes to have fun doing things. No matter how many wives he marries in his life, he may just be living casually and spontaneously.