Many women will painstakingly find the secret of love and try to keep the man's heart.
Helpless, I tried many methods, tried every possible way to understand men, approached men, and wanted to break men's hearts, but I never got the law.
Even, I paid too much, but in exchange for the dislike of men.
In fact, they got the wrong direction from the beginning and targeted men, which is itself a wrong approach.
Only by putting energy and direction on oneself and using the light emitted by oneself to attract men is the valve that makes men favored.
Women, after doing this, men will love them to the bone, such a woman is really noble.
Ability to live independently
A woman, if she wants to be loved by a man, must first have the ability to live independently, which is the most basic.
It is a noble thing to have the ability to make a living, the ability to make a living, the ability to support oneself, and not need to rely on anyone.
There is no distinction between high and low occupations, and although there are high and low incomes, there is nothing to compare with them.
As long as she bears her own life, she doesn't need to beg others for life with her palms up, such a woman will take the initiative of love in her own hands.
A woman, no matter whether she is beautiful or not, no matter how many men pursue it, this is not a skill.
Even if a man likes you because of his beauty, if you don't even have the ability to live independently, then sooner or later he will leave you.
Only by being financially independent can you be qualified to fall in love.
Found a cause to fight for
I know a sister who was in a very poor state when she first met.
has been a housewife for many years, and her husband dislikes her, and there is more and more nothing to say between the two.
Even her son always said something that looked down on her.
She feels sorry for herself every day, can't find the enthusiasm for life, and is very decadent.
She said that she had been separated from society for many years, unable to find a purpose and direction, and completely disconnected from society.
During that time, she always complained that life was very depressing.
Later, after I gave birth, the contact decreased, until a few days ago I inadvertently swiped the video she posted on a certain platform and accumulated a lot of fans.
She has been studying parenting knowledge over the years, and has released some parenting tips and skills for getting along with children, which has been loved by many people.
When a woman has a career to fight for and finds the direction of her efforts, the whole person is shining, and such a woman has her own light, which makes people can't help but be attracted.
Rich on the inside and strong at the core
Whether the relationship between men and women can be maintained can be sustained depends not on the outside, but on the inside.
The more stable the core, the better the relationship, and the more loved by men.
The core is unstable, and the whole person is like a hedgehog, which will slander the people closest to you and affect the intimate relationship.
After I gave birth to a child last year, all my time and energy were devoted to my child, and I was in a very poor state every day in the midst of trivial matters.
I'm always looking for fault with my husband, we have frequent quarrels, and the relationship is very tense.
Later, I made a change, I read books every day, learned about parenting, picked up writing, and had a lot of things to do every day, so I didn't spend all my time on trivial things.
When my heart was full of things, my state became better and my relationship with my husband improved.
Only when the heart is full and the core is strong can love be constant and love bloom.
Women, no matter what time it is, always put themselves first.
Maintain financial independence, spiritual independence, have your own pursuits and goals, and cultivate your own heart.
Women, the more self-loving, the more noble and charming they are. The more you can manage love and life.