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He Ruizhi's choice
Marriage, which is supposed to be a haven of happiness for both parties, sometimes turns into a lose-lose gladiatorial battle. He Ruizhi, the male protagonist who was pursued and became a spouse, behind his choice, was actually a failure of a psychological game. That's right, at first, he was pursued in a grand manner under the bright sun, and everything seemed good.
But who would have expected that in the end, the entanglement between him and Bai Yueguang would be nothing more than a farce of free will. The children are already so old, isn't He Ruizhi's dislike of Jian Qingfen a kind of disregard for the friendship between husband and wife for many years? Netizen "The Temptation of Donuts" said: "The biggest mistake in marriage is to regard the right to choose as the right to dislike, which is sad and ridiculous. ”
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Jian Qingfen's loneliness and dedication
And Jian Qingfen, the respectable heroine, silently bears the weight of the psychological gap after resigning in the family. Every day in her family, she wrestles with loneliness, exhaustion, and endless responsibilities. When taking care of her paralyzed mother, her efforts were taken for granted. On Instagram, "The Bitterness of Orange Peel" commented: "Why can a thank you card replace a mountain of gold? This is not a thanks, this is a debt." ”
The confusion of love
When it comes to cheating, He Ruizhi can only use "love" to define this complex human heart. And Jian Qingfen just smiled at this and said nothing. Is her laughter a helplessness for He Ruizhi to understand love, or a sadness for her innermost emotions? ”
He Ruizhi's misunderstanding
He Ruizhi's understanding of Jian Qingfen has always been his mother's words. Their marriage seems to be a transaction, in exchange for responsibilities and obligations, rather than a spiritual fit. The birthday cake and ring he prepared for Jian Qingfen, is there really the power of love hidden behind these little surprises? Under the hot topic "#婚姻里的礼物" on Weibo, netizens left a message with "sugar in their pockets": "The ring can be a shackle of love or a chain of bondage, depending on how you wear it." ”
Cold and violent marriage
He Ruizhi's cold violence is not only the emotional destruction of Jian Qingfen, but also the torture of his own heart. He thought that this would relieve his pain, but he didn't know that such a marriage was a kind of torture for all three of them. If there was no love from the beginning, why did they come together and eventually lead to everyone's suffering? The resonance of some viewers on Douban: "Looking at He Ruizhi, my heart trembles, such a plot is too exciting." ”
Love is the same as the "almost" choice
Some people say that it doesn't hurt to choose a "almost" person to enter into marriage, after all, and passionate love often ends up being a chicken feather. However, people who are "almost" are unable to give lasting emotional support. When love becomes a thing of the past, that "almost" may only be regret. Zhihu is hotly discussed: "If the ending is the same, why not choose love?" At least my heart is warm when I leave. ”
The truth of love and the reality of life
The beauty of love is often accompanied by the cruelty of reality. He Ruizhi's changes and Jian Qingfen's patience are all true portrayals of real life. Cold violence is everywhere in life, perhaps we should face up to this problem and communicate openly and honestly, instead of hiding the problem in the shadow of life. In the "#生活里的真相" challenge on Douyin, netizens shared various moments of cold violence, allowing us to see another side of life.
To sum up, we can see that the story of He Ruizhi and Jian Qingfen is not just a drama between two people, but a profound analysis of love, marriage and reality. This kind of topic always sparks heated discussions on social media. Now, the microphone is handed over to you, #何瑞之冷暴力#, what do you think? What is your marriage story? Come and share your thoughts in the comment section!