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Mrs. Wang said that she was about to get sad.
The son suddenly filed for divorce from his daughter-in-law, but the daughter-in-law did not agree, but the son was determined to end his marriage.
She thought it was strange that her son and daughter-in-law had no major conflicts, and even small frictions rarely occurred.
Moreover, they have been married for nine years and have a child, and their son's behavior is very abnormal.
Subsequently, the mediation team followed Mrs. Wang home.
At this time, her son Xiaolong hadn't gotten up yet, and he was reluctant to get up while lying on the bed.
He didn't want to say much about the mediator's question, whatever other people thought.
The mediator is patient and persuasive, everyone has times when they are confused, she has rich social experience, if you don't share it with her, maybe you can give him useful advice.
Xiaolong said that the matter has been decided, and there is no point in saying more.
As soon as this marriage ended, it was good for them, at least he didn't have to continue to hurt his wife.
As a husband and wife, he was worried that she would do something worrying.
Forget it, don't talk about it, they can go directly to his wife Xiaopei, enlighten her, comfort her, and let her accept the reality.
After saying these words, he was reluctant to say more.
The mediator persuaded Xiaolong again, hoping that he would face the problem positively, get up and clean up, and everyone sit together to explain the matter.
Xiaolong did not give a clear reply.
In desperation, everyone had to go to Xiao Pei's mother's house and ask Xiao Pei, what is their situation?
Xiao Pei had tears in her eyes, she didn't know why he suddenly filed for divorce without any warning.
A few days ago, the two lived a good life.
After a meal, he called her to sit together, said that he had something to tell her, and reminded her to be mentally prepared.
She looked at him with an unhappy look on her face, and had a bad premonition in her heart, and then she heard that he had filed for divorce.
He said that he didn't want her and the children anymore, and the old people didn't want it either, they didn't care about anything, they could do whatever they liked.
In addition to being sad and sad, she also has a lot of doubts.
They didn't quarrel, and she didn't say anything unpleasant to irritate him.
At first, she thought he was impulsive and said something foolish.
But after so many days, he still gritted his teeth and insisted on a divorce, which shows that he is real.
In order to be able to get a divorce, he said a lot of things that pierced her heart. In her opinion, the two should not divorce, after all, they both have children.
What's more, they are still people with an emotional foundation, who have known each other for more than ten years and have been married for nine years.
People should cherish the moment, and she doesn't want to give up easily.
The mediator listened incredulously, didn't she notice any change in him in the past two years?
Xiao Pei shook his head, he didn't find anything abnormal, even his in-laws didn't find it, he still had the same attitude and style of doing things as before.
Actually, he was very good to her.
It was precisely because of his good past that she wanted to continue to insist on this marriage.
It seems that only Xiaolong himself knows the answer.
Xiao Pei dialed Xiao Long's phone and asked him to come to her house.
Xiaolong agreed and was willing to go to Xiaopei's house to participate in mediation.
Soon, everyone waited for Xiaolong.
Xiaolong still didn't answer positively, only saying that he just wanted a divorce. Xiaolong's mother, Mrs. Wang, interjected, this was not Xiaolong's true words at all, he couldn't let go of his daughter-in-law and children in his heart. Xiaolong also said that he is no longer able to maintain the whole family, and divorce is the only way out.
They are not him, and I don't know if he has a hurdle in his heart. Ashamed of his wife, he has no face to continue living with her. The mediator was a little surprised that a twenty-nine-year-old man, who was still the father of a child, had such a negative attitude towards marriage.
At this time, Mrs. Wang took over, and Xiaolong told them that he had borrowed loan sharks on the Internet and borrowed money from the bank, and a lot of debts were rolled, and the debts were always not paid off, so his mentality collapsed.
Xiao Pei opened his mouth and said that he was reluctant to tell her and her in-laws the ins and outs of the matter, they only knew that he owed money, and did not know how much debt he had.
One day, he suddenly told her that he owed more than 100,000 foreign debts on loans, and the money was spent on buying lottery tickets.
In order to create better conditions for the family, he made stupid and foolish things.
She sounded a little angry, but thinking that his intentions were good, and he assured her that he would definitely change in the future, she was soft-hearted, so she didn't blame him.
Then, she took out 100,000 yuan from her own pocket and gave it to him and asked him to use it to pay off her debts.
The 100,000 yuan is the money she has worked hard to save for a long time. The in-laws added tens of thousands, and paid off the debts of more than 100,000 yuan.
Who knows, debt is like a bottomless black hole, endless.
Mrs. Wang sighed, she and her wife both felt a headache, and her son was too uneasy.
A few days after repaying the debt of more than 100,000 yuan, he said that the debt had not been repaid, and he had borrowed more than 100,000 yuan online before, but the money had not been repaid. When she and her wife heard this, they almost fainted, they were just ordinary people, and so many debts directly emptied their family's foundation.
They couldn't accept it for a while, even if they scolded their son, they couldn't change the facts.
There was no way, so they had to grit their teeth again and help their son pay off the hundreds of thousands of debts.
Xiao Pei was also helpless about this, the first time it was more than 100,000 yuan, she and her in-laws helped to pay it back.
The second time it was more than 100,000 yuan, and the in-laws also found a way to scrape together the money to pay it back.
In other words, the debts that the family helped pay off add up to more than 300,000.
But he didn't want to have a third time, and now he said that there were still 200,000. Wave after wave of this debt came and went, and they were almost too old to count.
She guessed that the debts that had not been paid were more than 200,000, and there were some bits and pieces that were not counted.
Hearing such information, the mediator was even more surprised, but in two years, Xiaolong owed so much money, where did the money go?
Xiaolong said that it was used for investment, but the mediator thought that there must be an inside story, and Xiaolong may have concealed the truth.
Mrs. Wang gave the answer, Xiaolong didn't take the money to invest at all, but transferred the money to a netizen.
Speaking of this, Mrs. Wang's face was not very good-looking, and she wanted to speak again and again, as if there was something unspeakable.
After a pause, Mrs. Wang still opened her mouth to say that her son fell in love with someone on the Internet, saying that he liked that person very much and couldn't let go of this relationship.
What kind of person this netizen is, they don't know, everyone hasn't seen it, and they don't know how their son knows that person. They persuaded their son for a long time, but he just didn't want to listen, didn't want to turn back, like he was enchanted.
The mediator asked Xiaolong again, what is the situation?
Xiaolong was silent for a while before saying that netizens work in Hangzhou and have known each other for two years.
Although he has never met with netizens, has not passed through video, and has no voice chat, he still knows netizens well. The mediator's eyes widened and he didn't even send a voice, is this still called understanding?
Usually typing, I don't know who the other party is, and Xiaolong is too easy to trust people on the Internet.
To put it mildly, the netizen is still a man. This is no joke.
Xiaolong felt that it didn't matter, and he couldn't rule out the possibility of a boy, but it wasn't a big deal.
He doesn't care, even if it's a male netizen, he likes it.
Until now, he is still thinking about netizens.
Even if they don't have much time to chat every day, it's all about quality, not quantity.
The mediator wondered what they were talking about and if they could give her a look.
Xiaolong refused directly, he had already deleted all the chat history.
A netizen who has never met each other, where exactly attracted Xiaolong, the mediator felt more and more incomprehensible.
Xiaolong said that it is difficult to say what exactly attracts him, it may be that netizens recognize him, often encourage and care for him, and make him feel the warmth that is not available at home.
As for how much money was transferred to netizens, he couldn't remember clearly, but he had transferred it many times, about more than 400,000.
People didn't take the initiative to ask him for money, but he was willing to transfer money to others in order to express his sincerity and show his love for netizens.
A netizen is not an anchor, just a person who works normally, and he will never deceive him.
Mrs. Wang hated that iron could not become steel, and thought that her son was too confused, and at this time, he had not yet recognized the fact that he had been deceived.
It's just a netizen, I don't know why my son fell in?
She couldn't figure it out either.
Seeing Xiaolong's obsession, Xiaopei was very sad.
She said that she didn't expect this kind of thing to happen to her, but she only saw someone transfer money to netizens on the Internet before, and she thought it was incredible!
To tell the truth, knowing that her husband had caused a lot of damage to her by dating someone online, and knowing that he had been dating that person online for two years and spent 500,000 yuan on others, she really collapsed, and the sky seemed to be falling.
It took a long time to recover, and her husband said that he only gave more than 400,000, but she didn't believe it, and it should have been 500,000.
For the sake of the child and the family, she endured the heartache and persuaded him to turn back, cut off contact with the man, recover the money that was transferred in the past, and she would give him a chance to change his ways.
Everyone is still willing to accept his return to the family.
However, he refused, saying that he wanted to be with netizens and go to netizens to show up.
Even if netizens are not with him, he will give netizens money. Some time ago, my husband secretly went to Hangzhou to find the netizen.
Xiaolong admitted that he did go to Hangzhou to find someone, but they didn't want to see him.
He went to the netizen company, but he still didn't see anyone. However, he believes that netizens did not deceive him, and they have all opened location sharing.
In that company, only internal personnel can go in, and people are inside, which means that there is really work there.
People don't want to meet, there must be some kind of hardship.
Sure enough, under his constant questioning, netizens confessed. They said that once they met, he would not want to go home.
According to the meaning of netizens, people actually hope that he and his wife can be reconciled, and the family will live a good life together, and stop thinking about netizens.
The more netizens think about him, the more he can't let go.
The mediator thinks he is too stupid, give 500,000 to a stranger, his wife has been married to him for nine years, give him children, and take care of the housework, does he give his wife 500,000?
Xiaolong is hesitant, no, let alone 500,000, maybe less than tens of thousands, he hasn't given much money to his wife.
The wife doesn't need his money, she has money herself, 500,000 or something, and the wife must have it.
Hearing her husband's words, Xiao Pei was very sad, she had no money now, and she only had five hundred yuan on her.
All the money, she paid off his debts.
Right now, she has to buy things for her mother, or her father can only buy them if she transfers money.
Even the child's New Year's money was taken out for him.
Mrs. Wang was also very dissatisfied, because her son was in debt, she and her wife had no money, and the family's savings were completely empty. In order to maintain the normal life of this family, my wife is old and has to go out to work every day to earn money.
Xiaolong said that he didn't spend much money on them.
Besides, the money he transferred to netizens was the money he borrowed from, not from them.
When he said this, the mediator was a little annoyed, Xiaolong was quibbling, he lent money to others, and his family helped pay it back, which was equivalent to him taking the family's money to an outsider. Mrs. Wang said that the family was under a lot of pressure, and her wife was injured in a fall, so she didn't dare to rest, so she endured the pain and went to work.
Xiaolong's father, Lao Li, frowned, there was no way, in order to repay his son's debts, he could only grit his teeth and insist.
The son's nature is not bad, he hopes that he can correct it, and as long as he turns back, he can still be a good person.
For his parents' words, Xiaolong is indifferent, even if the family is short of 500,000, it is not a big deal, and it will not have much impact on the whole family.
Mrs. Wang said sadly that this was already a catastrophe.
However, the netizen is to blame for everything, it was the man who pulled his son into the water and tricked his son into transferring money.
In fact, the son is a good child, but he is too kind and innocent to be deceived.
In any case, Xiaolong must recover the money, or if he doesn't come back, they will go through the legal route.
The daughter-in-law once contacted the man on the Internet and sent a message to the man, asking why the man destroyed other people's families and cheated money.
However, when it came to money, the man didn't reply to the message. Xiao Pei made an online video call to the man again, but the man didn't answer for a long time and didn't hang up.
Xiaolong stressed that he would not recover the money.
Things are like this, no wonder he, who makes his wife always nag, saying that he is not motivated, playing games full-time to earn money, and his wife dislikes to earn less.
Then, he went online for solace and met the man by chance.
Xiao Pei explained that she didn't dislike him, she just asked him to find a job and earn 2,000 yuan a month.
He played games for fun, and he didn't make much money at all.
I just said it once or twice, and there was no nagging.
He is not down-to-earth, he has never been willing to work steadfastly, fishing for three days and drying nets for two days.
She felt that her requirements were low.
Xiaopei's mother, that is, Xiaolong's mother-in-law, said that her daughter-in-law's family is too accustomed to her son-in-law, and she does everything for him, resulting in her son-in-law not being self-motivated and not having a strong sense of responsibility. If he can correct his mistakes and realize that he has lost his way, they will give him one last chance.
If you don't want to change, that's the end of it.
In this regard, the mediator gave a lot of advice to Xiaopei's in-laws, persuading them not to spoil the children, but to let the children grow up.
And Xiaolong, under the persuasion of everyone, finally came to his senses and agreed to break off with the man, and at the same time find a way to get the money back.
People have to distinguish between reality and the Internet, and those who are addicted to the Internet will definitely plunge themselves into darkness and affect their families. Especially for people who have already become a family, they should not fall in love with people on the Internet, use the family's money to coax people, lack of virtue and stupidity.