Elaborate on Dream of Red Mansions 157: Mrs. Xing's Retention
❂ Author: Jun Jian Yakan Red Mansion
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Last time, it was said that Jia Yu sent someone to tell Daiyu to live with her grandmother and aunt, and not to be aggrieved if she was unhappy, reflecting Jia Yu's "tender" side.
Combined with the large number of concubines and girls in his room, it can be seen that there are loopholes in his personality, which is also the foreshadowing of his loss of Rongguo Mansion and the death of Jia Zhengfen. Not to mention.
Since the eldest uncle was gone, Daiyu sat down for a moment and then took her leave. At this time, Mrs. Xing's performance was somewhat overdone and out of proportion.
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(The third time) Mrs. Xing stayed for dinner, and Daiyu replied with a smile: "My aunt cherishes the food, so I shouldn't quit, but I still have to go over to see the second uncle. I hope my aunt will forgive me. When Mrs. Xing heard this, she smiled and said, "That's right." Then he ordered two or three grandmothers to send the girl over in a good car, so Daiyu said goodbye. Mrs. Xing sent it to the front of the Yimen, instructed everyone a few more words, and watched the car go and come back.
Mrs. Xing "stayed" Lin Daiyu for dinner, which was really redundant and ignorant.
The so-called "bitter retention" is to be very persistent and constantly retained. The retained person can either accept it or have to reject it.
Sure enough, Lin Daiyu could only refuse in person in the face of her aunt's "enthusiasm", and told a reason, saying that she had to go to see her second uncle, and it would be very disrespectful to go after eating here.
The eldest aunt should accept the food, but it can only be received another day. The future is long, why do you have to be today?
Lin Daiyu's reply was polite and courteous, neither arrogant nor humble.
She was only seven years old at the time, but she responded decently, much better than Mrs. Xing.
You must know that on the first day Lin Daiyu came, it was impossible for her to eat with her aunt and grandmother.
She came out now, and it was her grandmother who told her to go to her two uncles.
Since I came to worship my eldest uncle, I should go to my second uncle, and then go back to Jia's mother and accompany my grandmother to eat the first meal.
Mrs. Xing is really "sensible", so she shouldn't be so polite, but said to Daiyu: "My niece is here today, I should have stayed for dinner and then went, but when you first came, the second uncle has not seen it, and the old lady must be ready tonight, the eldest aunt does not dare to take the lead, and she will definitely come over in the coming day, and the family will eat flesh and blood." ”
Mrs. Xing said so, and then arrange someone to send Daiyu back to Jia Zheng's side, which is polite and moderate, which is the true feeling.
But she has been suffering for a long time, and it is easy to "do bad things with good intentions", and I don't know if she is stupid or ignorant.
In case Lin Daiyu lacks a little experience in coping, it is difficult to refuse her aunt's "bitter stay", and promise to have dinner with her before going. not only delayed the visit to Jia Zheng, but Jia's mother was also difficult to explain.
She was so unruly when she first came to Jiafu, and she will completely become the "laughing stock" in Jiafu.
Therefore, the "kindness" of people like Mrs. Xing should be very careful. She only cares about her own favors, she doesn't care about everything, and if she is not careful, she will be taken into the ditch, and she may not know it.
✍ The above views are sorted out and inferred from the story clues before the 80th episode of "Dream of Red Mansions".