01
Before I picked up my parents, my wife Xiaomin was virtuous, kind and gentle, a person with a tough personality, and never complained about poverty easily.
But after I repeatedly proposed to take two parents with underlying medical conditions to recuperate at home, Xiaomin's attitude towards me plummeted, and the two of them kept fighting coldly and did not back down from each other.
After I really took the initiative to bring my parents in, Xiaomin simply disappeared with her two children, and didn't even return to her parents' home.
I was in a hurry, and I searched the world for their mother and daughter, but they never disappeared. And I called my wife many times, but the phone has blocked my contact information, even WeChat.
02
My wife Xiaomin and I are in a college relationship, and it is also a love from school uniforms to wedding dresses, and it is each other's first love, and the relationship is deeper than that of ordinary couples.
My family is much better than Xiaomin's family, my parents have a formal job, a house and a car, and I am the only child in the family, and my parents have pinned almost all their hopes on me.
But Xiaomin's family is a lot worse, she was born in the countryside, her parents are just ordinary farmers, and they have been farming for most of their lives. Later, for the sake of the schooling of his two children, he had to leave his hometown and come to the city to work.
I know that Min's family background is very different from mine, but I don't care, and I don't think my parents will care.
After all, Xiaomin is hard-working, lively and cheerful, but bright and moving. My parents will love her.
03
However, I overestimated my parents and underestimated their prejudice and attachment to the family.
My parents did not approve of this marriage and forced me to break up and marry my only daughter. For this reason, I had a cold war with my parents for a month before forcing them to compromise.
But the parents compromised, but they deliberately made things difficult for their wives at the wedding and bride price, so that their wives would retreat. My wife was very aggrieved and married me without even asking for a bride price.
After I got married, under my persuasion, my wife was also very respectful and respectful to my parents, and never dared to do anything to my parents in person.
04
When my wife gave birth to their eldest daughter, my parents were still looking forward to it. It's just that after conceiving and giving birth to a daughter in October, the parents saw that it was a girl, and turned around and left in disappointment, without taking care of the confinement and not taking care of the child for a day.
The eldest daughter was more than a year old, and her parents began to give birth to a second child. I was also moved, so I soaked my wife for a long time before she agreed to have a second child.
However, the second child is still a daughter, and the parents' expectations and enthusiasm were suddenly extinguished. They only glanced at the child and then left the hospital, and they refused to stay to take care of their wife and children.
The wife cried a lot, and then asked her parents-in-law for help. After that, as soon as she finished her maternity leave, her wife quit her job and became a full-time mother at home.
05
I can't stand the days of delaying two. The two daughters call their mother all day long, and they can call their mother dozens of times a day.
But the wife is still very patient, unhurried, and does not get angry with her two daughters because of trivial matters.
Seeing that my eldest daughter is in kindergarten, my youngest daughter is almost 2 years old, and my wife is about to be freed from the life of one and two, who knows that my parents, who have been out and about, have fallen ill one after another.
The problem is not big, it is all some basic problems, from time to time back pain, from time to time leg pain, headache and high blood pressure, anyway, you can't do heavy work, you just have to lie down and let people serve.
06
My parents have offered me many times to live with me, saying that they raise children to prevent old age, and now that they are old, their legs and feet are not convenient, and it is not suitable for them to live alone, otherwise no one will find out if they fall ill.
I'm two years old, and I know the difficulties of my parents, but I don't think their bodies are enough to need someone to take care of them. And I would go back to visit them from time to time and do some housework that I could.
My parents felt sorry for me and didn't let me do it, saying that my wife would do it. I told my parents to hire a nurse to take care of them, but they thought it was a waste of money and it was better to take care of their daughter-in-law with care and care.
Under the noise of my parents, I had to bow my head and compromise. It's just that as soon as my request was spoken, my wife refused, and said that I won't stop you from doing your filial piety, but I won't take care of you for it?
07
I thought that my wife was just talking, after all, what daughter-in-law would really stand by and ignore her sick in-laws?
My parents also insisted on living in my house, saying that they paid for the house, and my wife was an outsider and had no right to stop it. So, I took my own hands and took my parents into the house.
When the wife saw her uninvited parents, her face suddenly became gloomy. But she didn't say anything, didn't make any noise, as if accepting the fact that my parents had come to live with her.
Until the next day, my parents called me and said that my wife had gone out early in the morning with two suitcases of luggage and two daughters, and had never returned, and they had not eaten breakfast or lunch, and had been hungry and waiting for my wife to come back to cook.
I hurriedly called my wife, but she didn't answer the phone and didn't reply to text WeChat. I rushed to my parents-in-law's house, and they said they hadn't seen my wife come back. And just like that, my wife left me and my parents and disappeared with my two children.
It wasn't until I learned from a friend that my wife had taken her two daughters to Sanya, which we had been dreaming of for a long time. I was anxious to serve my two parents, while my wife was enjoying life in Sanya.
I was very remorseful and wanted to apologize to my wife and admit my mistake, but I didn't want to put my stature so low. Am I really wrong to advocate that my sick parents be brought to my home to recuperate?