Today's sharing: Empathy in the hospital is a "big taboo", and if you don't do it well, you will hurt yourself
As a person who works in many hospitals at home, I warn all the children who want to be doctors, doctors need to be partially approachable, so that patients can rest assured, but don't really be close, you can smile and comfort each other from the actual condition, but you can't empathize with each other, and you have to be fierce when you should be fierce [than heart]
医院所有你们觉得冷漠无情不可理喻的规章制度，都是保护你们的哈，切记遵守。
It's really ridiculous [awkward laugh] It's so wrong
口罩的时候需要扫绿，我在门口负责门禁，一个大爷绿扫不出要我帮忙，我帮他弄好，过了一会儿他回来说我把他手机弄坏了，要我赔他手机。 I haven't touched a patient's phone since. [laughs]
确实要收起同情心，不然会被一些魔鬼利用伤害了自己
我刚规培上夜班的时候有个大爷特别好，还给了我一颗苹果，后来没抢救过来，我哭的可伤心了，我老师赶紧把我拉走和我说，家属会觉得你是没治好或者用错药而心虚哭泣，我永远记着。
Before the colleague at the window met a person in tatters to exchange the change for the whole money, said to go upstairs to see the patient, the colleague ordered it to him, and he said that the money was not changed, and the colleague did not order it back, and the colleague after work reconciled less than 700
我的天呐[尬笑]真的是防不胜防
Don't empathize [tears] The most unworthy thing is really empathy [tears] Don't reason with them, there are many people who are unreasonable
好了他就会认为跟你熟了，例如，然后如果住院期间不能离开医院，就会软磨硬泡你就出去一会咱俩这么熟了，在护士站跟你唠嗑表现很熟络，利用你跟其他病人达成交易。 Or ask you to bring him something to go to work the next day, which is to use the people you know well to do a bunch of things that make you embarrassed
不说让医护人员怎么办？万一在手术不小心把自己整个口，然后患者的血进去了，直接感染，虽然有阻断但是也不是百分百啊[流泪]
正常，只有接诊医生能看得见病历，其余科室都是配合检查，就算你看见了，偷偷小声的告诉同事没关系，但是要让患者听见了，保不齐会投诉你没有保护他隐私[泪奔][泪奔]
哎[流泪]每个善良的人不会最后被迫变成冷漠的机器[流泪][流泪][流泪]
不交押金 ，今天丢一个明天丢一个 ，几天病区就没遥控器了[捂脸]
You see, the family is so outrageous, let alone strangers [tears run]
善良一定要有锋芒的，我也是吃了不少心软和善良带来的伤害才彻底明白的。 When you are kind, you will be especially healed ❤️ when you meet kind people, and !!when you are kind, you will be unlucky when you meet people who are not kind. If it doesn't affect yourself, you should be kind or kind [than heart]
人家都说人好好的来你们医院，结果查出问题[尬笑]
真的是，我老公抢救病患，家属一口咬定说是用奥美拉唑导致的，把他从死亡边缘拉回来，家属却来骂你[流泪]明明自己病那么严重，家属确想讹钱
你表姐怀疑她妈?[what][what]什么脑回路
Let's put it this way, I have also been punished for sympathizing with the sick, and I will never sympathize with those who cry to you and pity him, they are just pitiful in front of you
一开始上班的时候一腔热血。 Later, he was hit by reality. Later, I had to deal with it calmly and try to learn to explain tactfully. [smiles]
Before entering the hospital, every medical student is full of enthusiasm, sympathy is slow, and I feel that I can do my best to save everyone, and I am too, after entering it is different [tears] I found that the society is cold, there are too many doctor-patient contradictions, and it is very inexplicable, and my contribution is nothing
是这样的，以前去医院实习，我在想为什么医生不会感到悲伤呢，没有必要产生怜悯，[流泪]虽然心里很难受
孩子发烧来抽血化验 ，晚上来说孩子抽完血之后腮帮子疼 ，妈妈说问孩子说就是我抽完血之后疼的 ，我跟他们解释，让他们孩子不舒服赶紧先去找医生 ，然后他们报警 ，让孩子指控我 ，还说我要不是心虚为什么让他们去找医生[微笑]然后还要我对他孩子后半生负责
As an ordinary person, the medical experience of the past three years: 1. You have to trust doctors and nurses. 2 Do not sympathize with any patient you are hospitalized with, including relatives. 3 Don't trust anyone in the hospital except doctors and nurses. Your medical environment depends on your own attitude towards the doctor [smile] I don't have any connections in my family, but just because I believe in the doctor who treated my dad, she shook me the director and experts from hospitals outside the province [covering my face]
And I understand from the relationship between the doctor and the nurse, if the stranger doesn't have kindness to you, if he doesn't have good words for you, you really don't care, don't criticize how the person is like this, he's just protecting himself, just because I'm not him, I don't have to understand why he's the way he is, but I believe he has a reason for that. It is great for a person to strive to do good, and it is great for a person to protect himself from doing good.