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#花27万彩礼订婚准新娘十余天后自尽#
After 5 days of blind date, spend 270,000 to get engaged?
More than ten days later, the bride committed suicide by jumping into the river?
Was it forced, or was there another conspiracy?
The man spent 270,000 bride price to get engaged, and the bride-to-be committed suicide more than ten days later: what kind of tragedy is behind love?
Sometimes, people think that true love is just around the corner, that happiness is coming their way. However, reality is often cruel and unforgiving, allowing us to see the other side of love, a story full of tragedy.
"270,000 bride price has become a dead letter"
On April 18, a shocking incident occurred in Shangqiu City, Henan Province. The acquaintance between Li and Zhang was like the plot of a TV series, and they quickly decided to get engaged, but no one expected that this hurried love would end in a tragedy. At the engagement banquet, a huge sum of 270,000 yuan became the price of the transaction, but it failed to exchange for the guarantee of happiness.
It is alleged that Li went to Zhejiang to work after the engagement, and chatted with Zhang on his mobile phone during the period, but he did not realize the abnormal emotions hidden in the bride-to-be's heart. It wasn't until the news came that I learned that Zhang committed suicide by throwing himself into the river. What is even more unacceptable is that only part of the bride price was returned.
True love? or is it an illusion?
There is too much pain and powerlessness hidden behind this incident. What was supposed to be a good start ended in tragedy. We can't help but question, what is the purpose of such a bride price and such an engagement? Is it for the expectations of parents, for the eyes of society, or for the pursuit of an illusory happiness?
Perhaps, this is not an isolated incident. Perhaps, in this materialistic society, money has been shrouded in the veil of love. Engagement is no longer a match between two hearts, but a transaction with pressure, and marriage is no longer a partner committed to life, but a stranger with a heart.
"Behind the Bride Price"
Zhang's family claimed that she committed suicide by throwing herself into the river and only partially returned the bride price. This shows that in this marriage transaction, money becomes everything, and human life and emotions become insignificant. Should we look at the hidden issues behind social mores and marital customs?
On the road to happiness, we cannot ignore the inner voice, and we cannot be blinded by utilitarianism and materialism. Love should be a kind of beauty, a kind of tolerance, a kind of cherishing.
This incident touched the softest place in the human heart. What was supposed to be a festive engagement banquet turned into a sad song between families. Li's efforts eventually came to naught, and Zhang's choice to end his life was helplessness and despair for the whole situation. This kind of psychological trauma is far more serious than the material loss.
Netizens are hotly discussed
If it is true love, the groom will admit it without a penny, if not, he should also withdraw it all. After all, the wedding banquet also received a share of the money?
Is this better to die than to marry? What is the specific situation!
Is this a sale? The custom of bride price money is in existence in many big cities?
This mother-in-law went too far, giving 270,000 dowry and 10,000 meeting gifts, the key is what kind of bullshit money to give to her uncle? I really haven't heard of it! It's about her uncle's shit? She wants to fill it and force her daughter to death! It's sad!
Naked deals
Don't force people to introduce engagement Parents are a big reason
It's not that you can't abduct and sell women, and if you don't give a bride price and don't get married, isn't it a change of soup and not a change of medicine!
Three views that resonate
Perhaps, we need to re-examine the traditional bride price culture and rethink the meaning of marriage. Marriage should not be the product of a monetary transaction, but a union of two hearts that are sincere to each other. This incident taught us a painful lesson and made us think deeply: in the face of love, money can only bring emptiness and helplessness.
This story provokes a reflection on traditional marriage customs. In today's society, marriage should not be just a material transaction. The expectations of parents and the pressure of society make this process full of helplessness and sadness.
For Li and Zhang, maybe they are just two little people who are tricked by fate. But we can't ignore the fact that behind this incident lies a pervasive problem in our society.
If the 270,000 bride price is a symbol of love and responsibility, then it only became the beginning of a tragedy in the end. We need to reflect, we need to change. Marriage should not be just a contract, and the bride price should not be the price of love.
epilogue
Although this incident is a sigh, it also reminds us to cherish the happiness in front of us. Money is not the measure of a happy marriage, love is. I hope everyone can find their own happiness, so that love is no longer a mystery, but the most beautiful scenery in life. May all love shine brightly and shine in our hearts forever.
The editor has something to say about the bride price:
1. Regardless of why the woman threw herself into the river, according to the current known information, it seems that she has nothing to do with the man, so why don't you return the bride price in full?
2. To girls. The speculation of the editor and netizens is that you are forced to get married, and what the editor wants to say is, if you really don't want to, no one should be able to force you? You have thousands of ways to escape from marriage, but you have chosen the most way for you to have no way back.
Love should not be bound by money, but should be based on sincerity and honesty. May the deceased rest in peace, and may we all cherish the people in front of us and cherish that sincere emotion.
In this world, love is a luxury, but please let us manage it with our hearts and not let it become an irreparable tragedy.