Why don't you have children now, mainly because of the social climate, after the age of 35 or 40, you can only find a low-level job, and you will have children? Most people can't afford to have children at all, unless they endure it very hard, and their lives are not guaranteed.
The lifelong childlessness rate in mainland China is close to 10%. On average, 1 in 10 women will never have children in their lifetime. At present, the number of women in the mainland is 690 million.
At 10 percent, the figure is 70 million. If 10% of women do not have children, then 20% of men do not have children either.
It's okay to work at a low level, the key is that the income and the effort are not equal, you can do the most tiring work, but the working hours must be shortened and the income must be increased. American delivery workers, workers are all high-income, and the income of sitting in the office is low, which should be in line.
Social pressure and food are becoming more and more unhealthy, resulting in many people being infertile, even if they are infertile, raising a child is still half their old life.
Not to mention that the child is going to inherit the property, inheritance?!inheritance what?!inherit the school where I was young, I didn't sleep and forgot to eat and sleep, and I couldn't get in?
Or do I inherit a few copper plates that my youth earned for work, busy and busy, wearing stars and wearing moons? Or is it my middle-aged sadness for the sake of my family's old and sick? I really can't think of what to let my children inherit?
Many people have figured it out, except for some who can't have children due to physical reasons, there are many who are born, and it's good to be a chic person.
If a child is born with a continuation of suffering, is it more responsible for the child not to have a child? If you can't give the child a good life, then please don't bring him into this world.
Human beings are also one of the natural animals in the mammalian world, and animals instinctively refuse to reproduce when they have a premonition that the environment is not suitable for giving birth! The extinction of the race is basically the killing of the same kind, don't look at China as a high-level animal, but it also depends on reproduction to survive!
Most of them don't sleep endlessly, squeezing their heads to rush through the high school entrance examination, college entrance examination, and find a job, and in a few years, they have to accompany the next generation to walk another "Long March".
This society is not like raising five children with a salary of 30 yuan in the 80s, and now the society must not have a second child if there is no 50 million in the family.
Although there are great mountains and rivers, but I can only go out early and return late in my one-third of an acre, I have no income if I don't work, I have no income, I have never even been to Beijing.
Ordinary people can't afford to give birth! Open the three and four children and see what kind of people are working in life. Let them work hard, and inherit their parents' positions more in the future.
It is better to be kind to the existing children first than anything else, many people are not just for themselves, but look at the crowded classrooms and endless homework, the school has no finished requirements, and the school bullying that cannot be solved for a long time, and feel sorry for them for giving birth to the child.
Can the great rivers and mountains be eaten as food, can they be spent as money, can they be used as houses to live in, can they be healthy? Inheriting the great rivers and mountains is just an illusory word, a word that fools a three-year-old child. How many good rivers and mountains did your parents give you to inherit?
Now the pressure on society is very great, and the cost of raising is high, who is not afraid, if the country wants to change, it should improve or even reward the fertility personnel instead of blindly punishing the infertile people!
Food, clothing, housing, and transportation are all rising, but wages are not rising! The harder you work, the fewer opportunities you have, so how can ordinary middle- and lower-class people have children?
At present, in addition to stable occupations such as civil servants, public institutions, teachers, and doctors in the system, young people are very unstable in other occupations.
Basically, no one is over 35 years old, and the recruitment requirements are all under 35 years old. All of the above, how can young people have children, how dare they have children, in this era, they may not even be able to survive themselves, how to raise adults after giving birth to children!
Young people don't want to have children, families with a second child, as long as education and medical care are all free, there will definitely be a positive increase in young people who have a second child, but now the cost of having a child is indeed too high and too high.
The sweeping sister-in-law knows that women are not guaranteed, and the workplace will be eliminated after the age of 35, so few people are willing to have children now, and personal survival is involuted, do economic experts really don't know, or don't want to propose targeted solutions?
Who doesn't want to have more children and more blessings, but the cost is too high, take education as an example, the state does not allow make-up classes, which ones are not making up, but make-up classes are now ridiculously expensive, my niece's child is in the third year of junior high school, and it is 70,000 yuan in half a semester.
From the birth of the child, the child is sick and goes to the hospital to spend a lot, the cost of going to kindergarten is 10,000 yuan a year, kindergarten 3-4 years, parents have to pick up their children and can not go to work.
Go to a good school in primary school and pay 3-40,000 yuan to enter the school, 10,000 yuan per year for primary school, 100,000 yuan for junior high school and high school, and then the child will buy a house and a car when he reaches the age of marriage, and there is a bride price, 300,000 yuan, a car 200,000 yuan, and a house of more than 1 million.
After getting married, the parents still have to subsidize, the children who have the ability to earn a lot of money, and the rural children who get married are not enough to spend, how much do you say you want the parents of a child to pay?
"Call on the labor demand side to relax the age limit and constraints, in terms of age restrictions, should not be too strict, otherwise it will lead to different degrees of anxiety of people of different ages", private enterprises can only say that civil servants and public institutions are restricted35, do not do to others what you do not want.
Now the pressure on young people is indeed very high, there are mortgages, car loans, old and young, prices are rising, employment is becoming more and more difficult, and now both husband and wife are under pressure in their lives, not to mention children.
Education is no longer involuted, wide in and strict out, housing prices are reasonable, no longer exploited by the government's land finance and real estate capitalists, truly free medical care for all, and everyone is treated respectfully, especially those who retire from ordinary enterprises. The above four points are reasonable, who doesn't want people to prosper!
Not only does it cost money and energy, the responsibility of raising children is too stressful, children go to school and they go to school again, learning is originally a child's business, but now they are fighting parents, parents have to have money to buy a school district house.
There should be time to pick up and drop-off, to tutor, to supervise and control not to let children play with mobile phones, to ask questions about the four primary doors, to help write homework, to take photos and videos to punch in, to find parents if they can't complete their homework, and to find parents if they can't take the test.
There are other messy things, children get up early and are greedy late to study, and many people don't know why they want to have children and let them suffer. Adults also accompany children to suffer.
Moreover, there are tens of thousands of prenatal examinations, and there are more than 100,000 baby milk powder diapers in infancy. Fifty or sixty thousand in 3-4 years in kindergarten, which is still ordinary.
The nine-year compulsory education is said to be free, but in fact, it is also several thousand a year, except for food and clothing, and you can't get sick. The cost of high school and college education, and there may not be a good job when it comes out. Get married, buy a house, and buy a car. Why are you so tired! It's good to live alone.
There is also the fact that wages are too low, because wages are related to the principle of accounting cost accounting, and the principle of accounting cost accounting is only the input of capital, and does not include labor, that is, the cost of population production and reproduction, into the accounting, "fixed capital + circulating capital" Is there labor in it? So how to solve it?
The so-called high cost is actually the loss of young people's personal quality of life, in a word, to enjoy the world. It's the perception that has changed.
However, some people, who only feel happy when they have children and grandchildren, do not envy billionaires, and are currently in the minority.
In the past, there was a place to give birth to a baby, the cost of education was low, and the return rate of old-age care could be high when growing up, but now the baby has not yet been pregnant and began to prepare for pregnancy, pregnancy test, milk powder diapers after birth are all money, and kindergarten tuition is even more expensive.
It has been cultivated until hundreds of thousands of people are gone. The key is that marrying a wife and marrying someone is even more unaffordable. Then the rate of return is not high, and there is a pension for the elderly. Sick babysitter abuse.
Nowadays people prefer to enjoy it alone. In addition to the bright lights that young people like in big cities, there are also games, live broadcasts, short videos, and short dramas on smartphones.
What young people come into contact with is how much money is made, delicious food every day, beautiful scenery, watching handsome guys and beautiful women, going to Internet celebrity attractions to travel and check in, and living a high-end life of fine clothes and food.
Now that the gap between the rich and the poor is so big, either they live in dreams or they live in alcohol, and young people think so, anyway, it is impossible to follow the old path of the generation. Although they don't make much money, they will use their limited money to please themselves.
This is also the reason why eating, drinking, and playing in the city are always vigorous, and as for having children, it involves too much. When you have a baby, you have to be responsible for him.
Financial resources and energy will have a great impact, and even lower the standard of living by a few notches. So they don't want to give birth anymore. They prefer to please themselves with limited money and time.
There may be many comprehensive reasons for the low fertility rate, and there are many non-marriageists who are now being killed by too much capital, resulting in incorrect values, views on marriage and love, and fertility.
Is this the invasion of the culture of the outside world into the country to stifle women? Either they are not married, or they are married and do not want to have children, and I feel that the country should study the real reasons carefully, so that there will be great mountains and rivers.