When people are old, if they meet love again, it is not a beautiful thing, but a kind of "bad fate" that has no results
Love, love, is not the patent of the young, the elderly also have the right to love someone.
In other words, love does not distinguish between young and old, and everyone has the need to love and be loved.
But you must understand that falling in love with the right person and the right fate is a lifetime of happiness, and falling in love with the wrong person and the wrong fate is a kind of bad fate and a lifetime of pain.
Whether it's 20 or 30, or 50 or 60...... It's all true.
If you are old, if you have a wife, if you meet love again, it is not a good thing, it is not a good fate, but a bad fate.
If you are old and still encounter these 3 feelings, please remember to refuse, so as not to capsize in the gutter and fall into the abyss of love when you are old, hurting others and suffering yourself.
First, don't have the illusion that people with extremely superior economic conditions will love you.
In this world where everything is realistic, when you are old, don't fantasize about being able to suddenly appear in front of you with a rich and handsome or white rich beauty, saying: "I am affectionate to you", saying: "I have loved you for a long time".
Just like Grandma Wang, she met a man who claimed to be rich in the park, and the other party spoke sweetly to her, making her think that she had met true love. However, she later found out that the other party was just trying to scam her out of money.
Therefore, don't be blinded by the appearance of others, don't lose your mind because of a few secret words and sweet words from the other party, for fear that you will miss the opportunity, take out money and transfer money, and be busy.
In short, when people reach old age, they encounter love other than their spouses, it is not a beautiful thing, it is not a beautiful fate, but a wrong fate, and they must keep their boundaries so as not to fall into the abyss of pain.
Second, people who have obvious advantages over themselves in appearance and age.
When a good-looking, young person of the opposite sex says "I love you", you have to see if you are a match for him?
If there is too much difference in age and appearance from him, you have to ask yourself, what is he trying to do with you, and what advantages do you have that deserves his affection for you?
For example, Uncle Liu met a young and beautiful woman, and the other party took the initiative to show affection, which made him feel fluttering, thinking that the other party had taken a fancy to him and really liked him, but he didn't realize that what the other party liked was not him, but the property in his hands.
It is really important to know yourself, to others, and to your feelings, and only when you recognize this problem will you tighten your money bag. It doesn't matter if you have a wife or not, you won't lose completely.
When people reach old age and encounter love, they have to be cautious and think twice.
If each other is single, if each other has no other plans, they just want to live on fire and spend the rest of their lives hand in hand, it is understandable and beautiful.
If you are accompanied by a lover and meet love again, it is not peach blossom luck, but the temptation of desire, a kind of evil fate that destroys your happiness, and an abyss that will never bear fruit. When I meet it, I have to tell myself and others, no matter how many sweet words you say, I will not find happiness for myself, I will only keep my own love, and you will find your own belonging.
Reality tells us that once people get old and have savings, real estate, or other property, they are easy to be remembered and calculated.
Be calm, be rational in old age, and don't think that the other party is true because of other people's rhetoric.
Don't let people blindly pursue love because they have the right to love, and don't regret it for the rest of their lives because they are hot-headed, throwing away their most important things.
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