The parent wrote about his worries on his blog:
I really don't understand what's wrong with my son. He was the same age as the girl in the neighborhood, born in the same day, and went to kindergarten and elementary school together. But the gap between the two is too big. The girls in the neighborhood were rated as "Outstanding Students" and "Outstanding Class Leaders" every year, but my son always signed for me with a failing transcript. This worries me and his mom. In order to improve his grades, we bought him a lot of tutoring books, enrolled him in a lot of training courses, and prepared nutritious meals for him, but it didn't work at all.
You may say, is my son not studying hard? He studied very hard, getting up at 5 o'clock in the morning to memorize books and going to bed at half past eleven in the evening. I've never seen my neighbor's kid work so hard, but why is his grades still not good? Is my son really stupid?
In fact, this situation may have been encountered by many parents. My boy is obviously working hard, but his grades just can't be improved. Could it be that their congenital conditions are inferior to others?
Actually, it's not right to say that children are stupid. You look at Carl Witt, he was considered a bit "dumb" as a child, but later he was very smart, had a lot of knowledge, and also achieved a high degree. This is all because of his father's good education methods.
Some students do well in their studies because they have found a study method that suits them and is efficient. But although some students work hard, they still can't get grades because of the wrong method. Some students want to copy other people's learning methods directly, but often fail because everyone's situation is different.
It's like there are no two leaves in the world that are exactly the same, and no two people are exactly the same. Two students who study well may have completely different learning methods. Even if two students use the same method, the results can vary greatly. Therefore, the most important thing is to find a learning method that suits the child's own, so as to improve the efficiency and effectiveness of learning.
To put it simply, the way to learn is to find the most suitable time and way to learn. That's why, in the same class, there are students who can complete assignments faster and more accurately in the same amount of time and get high marks on exams.
We want to emphasize that every child is unique and needs to find a learning method that works for them. While some study methods are universal, such as note-taking and exercises, it's more important to find a way that works for you.
How can we help boys find the right way to learn?
Tips for young parents:
Method 1: Make boys more enthusiastic about learning
Did you know that Confucius said a long time ago: "It is better to know than to like, and it is better to enjoy than to like." That is to say, if you just know something, but you don't like it, then you don't really like it, and the best way to like it is to enjoy the process of learning. Interest is the biggest motivation for learning, and with interest, boys will be more active and motivated to learn. So, try to get them to preview before class, speak more in class, and think more, so that they will enjoy the learning process more and enjoy learning more.
Method 2: Refer to the learning experiences of others
Although everyone's learning style is different, it is also a good way to see how others learn and improve it based on your own characteristics.
First of all, boys should be encouraged to prepare for the class, so that the effect of listening to the class will be better. Preview is to see what you want to learn in advance and find out what you don't understand, so that you can be more targeted when listening to the class.
Secondly, during class, let the boy follow the teacher's train of thought as much as possible, and think more about the key points and difficulties mentioned by the teacher, so that he can not only solve the problem, but also exercise his thinking. Don't forget, the class is a two-way street, the teacher sees the students' reactions, and the students get feedback from the teacher.
Finally, don't forget to review after class. Revision helps boys remember what they have learned better and forget less. Remember, review in a timely manner, and it will be better to review at certain intervals.
In short, every child is unique, find the right learning method for them, and you can learn more with less, thank you for reading.
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