Parent-child fish water situation
Marriage is the continuation of love, and parent-child love is the greatest human being. In a complete family, it is normal for husband and wife to love each other, and children can enjoy the love of their parents. However, some families are destined to be not so happy, such as the marriage of actor Da S and Wang Xiaofei.
The cause of the "poisonous" end?
Where did the root cause of the grievances between Da S and Wang Xiaofei come from? The two sides went back and forth in the divorce proceedings, and no one could explain it clearly. But one thing is certain, Big S's drug abuse problem may be the fuse.
Wang Xiaofei has exposed evidence of Big S's drug use on the Internet many times, and has called the police several times. And Big S did not admit that he had drug abuse, and in turn accused Wang Xiaofei of domestic violence. It can be seen that the contradiction between the "Mrs. Huang couple" has been going on for a long time, and the two parties have already had an intractable mustard in their hearts.
The fighting resumed
The ending of the marriage is certainly suffocating, but what is even more sad is that two innocent children are involved in this parental power struggle. According to media reports, since Da S and Wang Xiaofei divorced, Wang Xiaofei has not been able to meet her children.
Big S used custody to completely isolate the children from their fathers. Wang Xiaofei has run to Da S's residence countless times, crying and begging to see the child, but she is always turned away. On one occasion, he impulsively called the police, trying to see his own flesh and blood in this way. But the funny thing is that he was accused of "harassment" by Big S.
Seeing that her own flesh and blood were just a stone's throw away, but she couldn't meet them, Wang Xiaofei's mood can be imagined. In a live broadcast, he choked up several times in front of the camera, affectionately telling his desire for children, the words are round, and the sentences are moving, which makes people sigh.
Children become weapons
As a mother, Da S should do her best to take care of the healthy growth of her children. However, what she did was the opposite, and she repeatedly used the child card to hurt Wang Xiaofei's heart.
For example, during a festival, Da S specially sent a "family photo" to Wang Xiaofei, in addition to her and the children looking at each other and smiling in the photo, even her new boyfriend Gu Junye was also in the camera. This photo is undoubtedly a blow to Wang Xiaofei, they were also such a family back then, but now they can only taste the bitterness of loneliness alone in the mockery of outsiders.
What's even more amazing is that Big S did not hesitate to hack the children. Some netizens once happened to see Big S's daughter Xiao Yue'er crying in the rain, but Big S was nowhere to be seen. As Xiao Yue'er grows older, even the most basic underwear is unattended. It can be seen that Da S has no time to take care of the children's daily life, and she would rather use her limited energy to "abuse" Wang Xiaofei's heart.
There is little hope
Despite repeated difficulties by Big S, Wang Xiaofei still did not give up hope of seeing her child. He did not hesitate to hire a nanny to take care of the children, and once wanted to cut off the financial support of the absolute big S. However, all these efforts were in vain, and in the end, he retreated because of Sizi's eagerness.
Not long ago, Wang Xiaofei finally seized an opportunity and ran to the children's school gate to meet them. However, this meeting disappointed him again. In the face of their biological father, the two children showed unusual coldness, and even basic intimate actions were absent, as if Wang Xiaofei was a stranger.
Seeing that the children are so unfamiliar with herself, how painful should Wang Xiaofei's heart be? Netizens also sighed in their eyes. Some people persuaded him to simply have another child, but Wang Xiaofei resolutely opposed it, because "every child is unique to parents".
Abuse of power in education
Parents are born with great educational responsibilities. However, Big S is too negligent in this regard.
In addition to the various negligence and accidents mentioned above, there is also an infuriating detail: Wang Xiaofei found that the sleeves of the clothes her son was wearing were a little short. But Da S, as a mother, was indifferent, but enthusiastically bought luxury goods for himself and his new boyfriend.
This is not the end, according to insiders, Da S does not personally pick up and drop off the children to school at all, but only sends assistants over, and the assistants often lead the children into the school gate in pajamas. It can be seen that Da S has completely forgotten the identity of her mother, all she cares about is how to hurt Wang Xiaofei, and the healthy growth of the child is insignificant.
Call for attention
The root causes of domestic conflict violence are complex, but the destructive power it produces is enormous. If one of the parties to a marriage abuses domestic violence, possession of private property, abduction of children and other illegal means, it will inevitably bring mental and physical trauma to innocent children and hinder their healthy growth.