Recently, the "open water gate" incident caused by a husband and wife in Zhejiang due to domestic violence has set off a huge wave on the Internet. The man who was one of the parties was poured boiling water by his wife in public, and the picture was thrilling, and condemnation was everywhere for a while.
However, just when netizens were very happy about this domestic violence case, the situation was reversed! Unexpectedly, after a period of recuperation, the man who was poured on him began to admit his mistake. What's even more jaw-dropping is that the couple not only reconciled, but also faced the media together to tell their story.
As soon as the news came out, netizens immediately fryed. Some people question whether the man was "threatened", others denounce him as "brainwashed", and some people think that the man is "deceived to gain sympathy" out of selfishness. For this reconciled couple, netizens can be described as mixed, noisy and noisy.
What happened to make the attitude of the parties change so much? What is the reason why they choose to get together again? What kind of story is hidden behind this domestic violence case? It seems that only by getting to the bottom of the matter and thoroughly understanding the matter can we sort out the clues and make a fair judgment.
Soon after the two were married, the husband reportedly began to commit domestic violence against his wife. At first, it was just verbal abuse and pushing, but Lu Susu wanted to maintain the family, so he kept putting up with it. It didn't take long for the husband's violence to escalate to beatings, sometimes beating his wife with household tools.
Seeing that his wife was covered in bruises, relatives and friends persuaded her husband several times, but he didn't care at all. Just when everyone thought that this domestic violence would be endless, an unexpected thing happened.
One night in November last year, the husband began to beat his wife again, and the wife finally broke out into the anger and helplessness she had felt for many years, she picked up a pot of boiling water and poured it on her husband in the face! Wang Dawei was burned on the spot, and his wife was reported to the police by his relatives.
Fortunately, after hospital treatment, although the husband suffered severe facial burns, he was not in danger of life. He has been discharged from the hospital.
Now the couple seems to have reconciled and decided to start over. They had gone through a difficult time with constant family conflicts that led to their marriage coming to the brink of collapse. Many people are saddened by this marriage, but others feel that their choice deserves respect.
The couple went through many struggles and tribulations. They had been caught in a cycle of silence and bickering, and communication with each other seemed impossible to establish. This has caused a lot of stress and harm to their children and families. However, they did not give up easily, but chose to work together and change.
During this difficult process, they began to ask for help and advice. They received emotional counseling and attended courses on relationship repair. These initiatives allowed them to re-examine each other's problems and learn to better listen to and understand each other's perspectives. They begin to learn how to express their needs and emotions instead of burying all their contradictions in the bottom of their hearts.
They are also starting to give each other more space and time to find their own interests and personal development. They found that their relationship could only be stronger and healthier if they were independent and happy with each other.
It is difficult for outsiders to truly understand the situation of others. Everyone's marriage has its own unique complexities and difficulties. We can't make up our minds about other people's decisions because we haven't experienced everything they have been through. The couple eventually chose to reconcile, and their decision was based on each other's efforts and tolerance. By respecting their decisions, giving them support and blessings, we hope that they can get out of their predicament and create a happier family. Rainbow Dash also hopes that they will be able to spend their days together happily and wonderfully in the years to come.
This domestic violence incident also sparked heated discussions among netizens. Some people strongly condemn the husband's domestic violence, believing that his violent behavior is extremely harmful to his wife and is completely intolerable. They demanded that the law increase the punishment of domestic violence to protect the rights and interests of victims.
Some people also began to question his wife's use of boiling water. Whatever the reason, they argued, the use of boiling water as an extreme means was excessive. They believe that wives should also bear some responsibility, after all, violence cannot be countered with violence.
There is a great deal of divergence between these views. Some people called on the society to increase the punishment of domestic violence, protect the rights and interests of victims through legal means, and strengthen publicity and education on domestic violence to raise public awareness. They believe that only through the joint efforts of all sectors of society can the problem of domestic violence be effectively curbed.
On the other hand, there are also reminders to be cautious when choosing a partner. They believe that the relationship between husband and wife needs to be based on respect and understanding, not violence and oppression. They called on people to pay more attention to each other's qualities and behaviors in love and marriage, and avoid putting themselves at risk of domestic violence.
Everyone has their own opinions and values on this issue. It's hard to say who's right and who's wrong. It is important that we maintain a high level of attention to the issue of domestic violence and convey the correct values and codes of conduct to society through various channels. Only in this way can we work together to create a safe and harmonious social environment.
For this family conflict, it is difficult for us to knock it down with a hammer. Domestic violence is undoubtedly wrong and should be punished by law. But boiling water, although excessive, is understandable in situations of extreme despair. After all, the victim has endured a long period of physical and mental torture, and it is reasonable for him to lose control for a while.
But violence will not solve the problem in any case. We should also call for mutual respect and tolerance in marriage, and resolve conflicts with love and patience. Family harmony is the best choice. At the same time, we also urge all sectors of society to pay attention to the problem of domestic violence, increase punishment and seek justice for victims.
Although this family conflict incident is heart-wrenching, it also gives us some reflection. Married life requires both parties to maintain together, and outsiders must understand each other's situations with empathy. Only by tolerating and respecting each other can our society be harmonious and stable.