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Li Qingzhao begged her husband for pleasure and was criticized for lewdness, Li Qingzhao: I am a lyricist, but I am also a woman

author:Yan Ling【Special Topic】

Everyone thinks that Yi An is a graceful lyricist, I think, they should be Li Qingzhao's sentence "and shame to go, leaning on the door and looking back, but sniffing the green plum." The move was deceived.

Those who are familiar with Li Qingzhao know that Li Qingzhao is still an "old driver", and the speed of the car is not fast, but the turn is very sharp.

Li Qingzhao begged her husband for pleasure and was criticized for lewdness, Li Qingzhao: I am a lyricist, but I am also a woman

In my opinion, although most of Li Qingzhao's poems are graceful, I see her maverick in grace. You must know that in the environment of the Northern Song Dynasty, if a woman wants to let go of herself, she needs to bear too much pressure from society and family.

But Li Qingzhao just did it.

Li Qingzhao: I'm a good gambler and a good drinker, but I'm a good girl

Li Qingzhao was born in Jinan, Quancheng, and her father Li Gefei was a student of Su Shi and a high-ranking official in the Northern Song Dynasty. Li Qingzhao has lived in a scholarly family since he was a child and became famous at a young age.

"I often remember the twilight of Xiting, I am drunk and don't know the way back", Li Qingzhao was a little girl's house, and when she went out boating and playing, she was even drunk and confused. Returning home at night, the boat startled "a shoal of gulls and herons". In doing so, wouldn't there be a bold style of words.

In addition to drinking, Li Qingzhao also likes to gamble, and plays cards on weekdays to adjust his life...... From the perspective of her growth experience, Li Qingzhao was not completely suppressed by Cheng Zhu Lixue, and in her bones, she still likes to release her nature.

Li Qingzhao begged her husband for pleasure and was criticized for lewdness, Li Qingzhao: I am a lyricist, but I am also a woman

As Li Qingzhao grew up day by day, she also reached the age of the beginning of love in a blink of an eye.

The embroidered face hibiscus smiled, and the oblique flying duck lined the cheeks. Li Qingzhao is in love

Li Qingzhao, as a famous talented woman, was taken by the son of Zhao Tingzhi, a high-ranking official in the Northern Song Dynasty. He was Zhao Mingcheng, a student of Taixue in the Northern Song Dynasty.

At that time, when he entered Taixue, he undoubtedly stepped into the officialdom with one foot.

Li Qingzhao and Zhao Mingcheng are in love, and the two are busy dating, busy loving each other in their own small space. Li Qingzhao once wrote a poem "Huanxi Sha", in which he wrote:

The embroidered face Hibiscus smiled, the oblique flying duck lined the cheeks, and the eye waves were guessed.

When it comes to dating, Li Qingzhao dressed up beautifully early, and the smile on his face couldn't be hidden at all, and his smile was as sweet as a flower. I don't dare to look at others, so I worry that my heart will be seen by others through their eyes.

Li Qingzhao begged her husband for pleasure and was criticized for lewdness, Li Qingzhao: I am a lyricist, but I am also a woman

The girl is full of style, and she can also feel it through the words, how happy and sweet Li Qingzhao is in love. In today's words, Li Qingzhao likes "hair rings", and also likes to show affection and sprinkle dog food.

Such Li Qingzhao, how can he not be liked, but unfortunately, a little cabbage is about to be arched by Zhao Mingcheng.

The cloud sideburns are oblique hairpins, and the disciples want to teach Lang to compare and see. Li Qingzhao is married

The white and tender little cabbage raised by Li Gefei was taken away by Zhao Mingcheng. Li Qingzhao got married and married her first love, Zhao Mingcheng.

If we don't look at this marriage from God's perspective, I think anyone who sees the combination of the two of them will offer good wishes.

Li Qingzhao and Zhao Mingcheng also think so. After getting married, Li Qingzhao's hobby of "showing affection and sprinkling dog food" became stronger and stronger. One happiness, shared out, will become two.

After the two got married, during a shopping trip, Li Qingzhao began to "do":

I'm afraid Lang guessed. Slave noodles are not as good as flower noodles. Cloud sideburns oblique hairpin. The disciples are to teach Langbi and see.

After the two got married, they went shopping and met a flower seller. How could a girl not love flowers, so she spent money to buy one. She looked closely, and the flower was blooming so beautifully, stained with dewdrops, and reflecting the morning light was simply beautiful.

Li Qingzhao begged her husband for pleasure and was criticized for lewdness, Li Qingzhao: I am a lyricist, but I am also a woman

Li Qingzhao's heart suddenly became sour, she was worried that her appearance would be compared to the flowers, so she began to "be a demon". She put flowers in her sideburns and asked Zhao Mingcheng a "proposition": Husband, do you say, are the flowers beautiful or am I good-looking?

Isn't it just to attract the attention of the other party? Judging from Li Qingzhao's actions, there is no such thing as "marrying and following a husband".

Li Qingzhao: I am me, and if you love me, you have to spoil me. Li Qingzhao's concept of love is already ahead of the year before last.

Laughing Tan Lang: Tonight the kitchen pillow is cool. Li Qingzhao took the initiative to ask for pleasure, and the mature woman was full of style

After Li Qingzhao married Zhao Mingcheng, in addition to shopping, the two of them were tinkering with gold and stone cultural relics. Although they are not rich, they are willing to eat.

On weekdays, there will be no quarrels and quarrels. A cultured person, even entertainment is full of elegance. Li Qingzhao's "Golden Stone Record" records:

Both of them love to collect ancient books and have super memory. In order to make their daily life more emotional, they often ask each other the source of each text, on the pages and lines of which book. Or maybe it's a certain allusion, where it comes from.

Nalan Xingde once wrote, "Gambling books are full of tea, and at that time it was just ordinary", such a plain and comfortable life is the true meaning of life.

Li Qingzhao begged her husband for pleasure and was criticized for lewdness, Li Qingzhao: I am a lyricist, but I am also a woman

Li Qingzhao: I want the happiest woman in the world.

In addition to these little pleasures on weekdays, Li Qingzhao also wrote a poem to record the more private side of the husband and wife.

A gust of wind and rain came in the evening, washing away the heat.

In her writing, both wind and rain have become human weather. A gust of wind and rain came, and the heat of the day had long since dissipated.

This night, Li Qingzhao was happy and physically and mentally happy.

dismissed the sheng spring, but made light makeup on the rhombus

In the evening, she had a full dinner, freshened up early, and put on a light makeup in front of the mirror. A woman is the one who pleases herself, and she dresses herself beautifully. She wanted Zhao Mingcheng to turn around, but she couldn't bear to turn her head back.

绛绡缕薄冰肌莹,雪腻酥香。

After tinkering with himself for a long time, Zhao Mingcheng was still reading on the desk in the distance, as if he hadn't noticed Li Qingzhao's actions at this time. (No wonder it is said that men have become upright men and gentlemen after marriage, which is common in ancient and modern times.) )

Li Qingzhao begged her husband for pleasure and was criticized for lewdness, Li Qingzhao: I am a lyricist, but I am also a woman

After Li Qingzhao finished putting on makeup, he stood up. Since it was summer, she wore a crimson silk tulle transparent nightdress, her snow-white skin loomed, and she could even smell a burst of fragrance.

Li Qingzhao walked towards Zhao Mingcheng.

Laughing Tan Lang: Tonight the kitchen pillow is cool.

Li Qingzhao walked to Zhao Mingcheng's side, smiled and said: Tan Lang, let's rest early, the mat tonight can be cool.

The word Tan Lang was first used to refer to the beautiful man Pan An, and Li Qingzhao directly used this word to call Zhao Mingcheng, showing the delicate side of his little woman to the fullest.

"Ugly Slave" was criticized for being lewd

For this song "Ugly Slave", Li Qingzhao recorded a little love between her husband and her husband with delicate brushstrokes. This poem seems to say everything, but it doesn't say anything, leaving people with plenty of room for imagination, which can be described as "oily but not greasy".

But the Song Dynasty writer Wang Zhuo once publicly stated:

Make long and short sentences, can twist and turn to the best of people's wishes, light and sharp new, Lu Xiang absurd words, wanton pen, since ancient times, the women of the gentry's house, have not seen such no scruples. - "Biji Manzhi"

He claimed that he had never seen a woman from the squire's family who could say such "absurd" words without scruples. Some people also say that Li Qingzhao is destroying his image. In their opinion, these are all small pleasures between her and her husband, and it is difficult to be elegant.

Li Qingzhao begged her husband for pleasure and was criticized for lewdness, Li Qingzhao: I am a lyricist, but I am also a woman

Maybe Li Qingzhao didn't care about these worldly views at all: I am a poet, but I am also a woman. Isn't it natural for a woman to express her feelings to her husband? Women deserve to suppress themselves? Women can't share their happy moments?

Li Qingzhao is a lyricist, but she doesn't have to be an official, she doesn't have to stand up to the sky, she just needs to enjoy her life to the fullest.

Why not use poetry to record life?

postscript

Li Qingzhao's life in the second half of his life is really worrying. Her relationship with Zhao Mingcheng has also experienced twists and turns. The Jin soldiers invaded and their homes were lost, and Li Qingzhao single-handedly protected the cultural relics that the two of them loved.

In Li Qingzhao's view, those beloved gold and stone cultural relics are the best memories of her and Zhao Mingcheng. Especially after the death of Zhao Mingcheng, these gold and stone cultural relics mean more to Li Qingzhao.

I don't know if Li Qingzhao will take out this "Ugly Slave" and read it in her later years, and whether her face will smile charmingly......