Seeing the life experience of this blogger, I can't help but sigh, everyone has a life!
The blogger "Rice Millet" talks about her fate, which is still poignant.
On an early winter morning more than 30 years ago, she was abandoned on the street by her biological parents a few hours after she was born because she was a girl.
The place where she was discarded
When the grandmother and grandfather who raised the family went out to set up a stall at four or five o'clock in the morning, they saw a package on the steps at that time, and inside was a poor baby shivering with cold, and they couldn't help but feel distressed.
So, my grandparents quickly hugged me without thinking about it.
My grandparents used to sell noodles at their stalls, and they were also frugal, and they were reluctant to sit on the bus for a few cents every day, and walked back and forth back to the mountain village every day.
After picking up the child, I bought the best ceramic bottle at that time, milk powder, which was particular in the local area, bought a red cloth, and took a few relatives at home, a mighty team, to send the child to the adoptive mother (grandmother's daughter).
The adoptive mother's family was also very poor at that time, living in an earthen house, and the adoptive father was not very happy when he saw that his grandmother had sent a small baby, and the family had another mouth, and the family itself already had two and a half young men, and the future would be even more difficult.
But when he saw the poor dirty little baby come to the house, he couldn't bear it, and the next morning he went out to work with a few simple clothes on his back.
That year, the eldest brother was 13 years old and the second brother was 11 years old.
But when she came to this family, her adoptive parents and brothers gave her the best food and clothing in the family first, and she never felt that her family was poor.
Even when she was four or five years old, her adoptive father was sick and couldn't work, her eldest brother had to drop out of school to work to support her family when she was admitted to high school, and her second brother also dropped out of school to work at the age of fourteen or fifteen, but the family's love for her was still never stingy, and she was dressed cleanly.
Sometimes, when she meets people in the village and says: The children she picked up have grown so big, she will say that your whole family is the one who picked it up, and she never doubted that she was picked up.
She said: "A woman in the village is married from outside, and when she saw me, she thought it was very familiar, and after inquiring about my identity, she was sure that I was the child that her cousin had discarded.
I remember that one morning, her adoptive mother took her to a tea house and met the so-called biological parents, who told her about the birth process, and also vowed that they would come to celebrate her on her tenth birthday, and the two families would raise her together in the future.
However, on his birthday, the adoptive parents set up a few tables for a banquet, and waited for more than one o'clock in the afternoon and did not wait for the biological parents.
Because of the failure of this confession, the blogger's heart has changed, low self-esteem, sensitive, every time she meets someone who says she picked it up, she will lower her head and hurriedly walk over.
Because the family is very poor, when he was ten years old, the eldest brother was 23 years old, and the second brother was 21 years old.
When she was in high school, the people in the village secretly said to her adoptive mother: What's the use of girls studying, let's go to school and work as a tailor to make money, and then marry the eldest brother, anyway, there is no blood relationship, and the bride price money is saved.
At that time, the adoptive mother and eldest brother flatly refused, she said: The family has never thought of it this way.
Even though the family is very poor and the eldest brother and second brother do not marry a wife, the family still provides for her to go to college.
After graduating from college, she worked hard and always had a desire in her heart to repay her adoptive parents and brothers at home.
And the so-called biological parents over there never appeared again, until the age of 32, the biological parents over there appeared.
Why did the biological parents suddenly appear? The blogger is 32 years old, and the biological parents are probably about 60 years old.
The blogger went to college all the way, talked about marriage, gave birth to a daughter, his career gradually improved, and his economic conditions were much better, and he bought a one-story house with a courtyard for his adoptive parents in Wuhu, Hubei Province.
It can be said that the adoptive parents are worthy of the blogger's reward, and they live as a matter of course.
But the adoptive parents lived a happy old age, and the biological parents over there heard that their daughter was promising, and began to take the initiative to recognize their relatives.
Their requests were rejected one by one by the blogger, who said loudly: The current parents are my biological parents.
But the biological parents over there began to mess around, embarrassed the adoptive parents, and had to do a paternity test, and they had to go to the blogger's unit to make trouble, call the leader, find a lawyer to do a paternity test, and the eldest sister over there sent text messages, and all kinds of follow-up threats, in short, they wanted to recognize their biological daughter.
After being rejected by the blogger, he came up with a trick to ask for 200,000 yuan to end the grace of childbirth at one time and not look for her again.
After that, the so-called brother sent a text message to the blogger saying that he was in debt and pretending to be pitiful, and asked the 300,000 gang to repay the debt, but these were rejected by the blogger.
Seeing that the blogger was anxious about these things every day, he also felt pity for her, and was even more ashamed of her so-called biological parents, they said: I knew that you didn't recognize us now, and I stabbed you to death with scissors.
How ruthless a person's heart is, it can be seen from the moment she leaves her own flesh and blood. Of course, God began to doom each other.
In order to get his son to throw his own daughter on the street, for fear of borrowing money to support his family, he refuses to recognize his daughter; in order to provide for his own old age, he does not care for his face and does not compromise his means to ask for pension money; in order to repay his son's debts, he wants his daughter to sell her house and car.
It's really drunk to have such biological parents today!
I think of a saying: This life cannot determine our origins, but it can determine our future.
The blogger is a grateful person, who understands the gratitude of the newspaper, because after she came to the adoptive family, the family that was not rich was even poorer, and the two elder brothers were also married at an older age, but the adoptive parents and brother still loved her, so that she could succeed in her studies, and it was too commendable to meet such a family.
After the funeral, may good people have good rewards, may time be kind to good people, and wish adoptive parents health and longevity, health and joy!
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Thank you!