In today's marriage market, the profession of civil servant is highly sought-after. But recently, a post on the Internet shattered this stereotype. A civil servant at the deputy department level with outstanding conditions was complained by the woman as "no future" during the blind date.
In the post, the female netizen described in detail the comparison of her conditions with that of her blind date. She considers herself young and beautiful, with an outstanding figure, a bachelor's degree and a wide range of hobbies. Although her annual income as a short video blogger is not high, her family is well-off and she is the only daughter in the family. The blind date is a 32-year-old civil servant with a height of 180. Although the man is highly educated and likes to read, he is considered by the woman to be too boring and has poor taste in dressing. What's more, the man's parents are deaf and mute, enjoy subsistence allowances, and have limited mobility, which makes the woman look down on him even more.
However, the post caused an uproar online. Many netizens have accused the woman of being too superficial and not seeing the true merits of the man. They believe that the man, as a civil servant at the deputy department level, has a stable career and has a large space for development, and his steady and introverted personality is also a rare quality. Some netizens even said that the woman thinks too highly of herself, but she is not worthy of the man.
As the discussion deepened, some people began to question the woman's motives and vision. They believe that in today's marriage market, it is not easy to find a civil servant with such conditions, and women should cherish this opportunity. At the same time, some people expressed understanding of the man's family of origin and believed that this should not be a factor hindering the development of the two.
In the end, the woman revealed the truth in the post: it turned out that the man had no intention of going on a blind date, and only ate with her parents out of politeness. After learning the news, netizens expressed regret and thought that the two might try to date. However, the woman has deleted the post and disappeared from the Internet, leaving only a heated discussion.
This story allows us to see the collision of various phenomena and concepts in the marriage market. In this seemingly materialistic society, should we pay more attention to the inner qualities and potentials of each other? Should we easily dismiss a person because of some superficial factors? These questions are worth pondering.