For example, the anti-theft net installed at home, once the joint points are welded to death, it is difficult to break it by hand, and there are many such "solder joints" in the human brain, the professional term is called "synapse", a person in the first 20 years of life, a large number of "synapses" in the brain have been "welded dead", so it is extremely difficult to fuse it and untie it one by one, which is why the country is easy to change, and the nature is difficult to change.
In fact, "the country is easy to change, but the nature is difficult to change" is not only not a bad thing for human society, but also a good thing. Think about it: if people's personalities can be easily changed, then the world will definitely be chaotic, let me give you two examples:
Example 1: The recruitment director of Alibaba's public relations department requires the applicant to be cheerful and outgoing, when you interview, you are outgoing, Alibaba is very satisfied, and you are hired, and in the second week of employment, you suddenly become an extremely introverted person, then, Alibaba is not a big loss.
Example 2: You married a gentle little sister who is a bird, but I didn't expect that in the second month of marriage, her personality changed greatly and became a tigress, Hedong Lion roared, then, aren't you a big injustice.
That's right! The stability of human character is precisely a powerful guarantee for the orderly operation of human society! After reading this, do you have a deeper understanding of a certain sentence? Yes, this sentence is: Existence is reasonable.
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You either change this society.
If you can't change it, then you can escape from this society.
If you can't change or escape, then you have to find a way to adapt to this society.
If you can't change, you can't escape, and you don't want to adapt, then you're actually looking for a dead end for yourself, which is ridiculous.
3
Theoretically, no asset is completely safe, so there is no such thing as absolute "financial freedom".
You can refer to the Vietnamese Chinese in 1980, many of their real estate and savings were confiscated by the Vietnamese authorities, and then the whole family was driven into the sea, took a light boat, drifted to Hong Kong, the United States, and Australia, and became refugees.
The world is impermanent. Be in awe.
4
Every dollar you earn is a reward for doing the right thing in the first half of your life.
Every dollar you spend, you vote for the world you want.
Every dollar you lose is your tuition for your cognitive defects.
5
The essence of all animals is to bully the weak and fear the hard.
In the same way, the essence of human beings is also to bully the weak and fear the hard.
Even the relationship between husband and wife is like this: if you are soft, your spouse will be hard, if you are hard, your spouse will be soft, and the usual law is like this, testing each other and playing games with each other.
Humans and other animals are actually the same thing, and they are all cheap and bad things in nature.
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There are two disadvantages to looking at your phone when talking to someone:
Disadvantage 1: The other party thinks you don't respect them.
Disadvantage 2: Distraction, dual-mindedness, it is easy to mishear and miss others' words, and it is easy to read and miss the information in the mobile phone.
So, when talking to someone, don't look at your phone.
When a master talks to a person, he stares at each other's eyes, because human beings are all self-centered and like to be noticed.
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A person who doesn't take the initiative to contact you is evidence that they don't want to miss you.
Friends, lovers, relatives, classmates, all interpersonal relationships, this is the principle.
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The three most unreliable sentences in the world:
"Forever" in the mouth of the first love.
"When I have money, I will definitely pay it back to you".
The boss said, "You will be given a promotion and a raise next year".
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Are there many good or bad people in the world?
The answer is: not good or bad people, the most.
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Between men and women, there are actually three states:
State A: Love.
State B: Not loving.
State C: Between "love" and "not love".
Because in fact, most people are not good, so in fact, most relationships between men and women start from state C.
Theoretically, C can be converted to A and B, but it also depends on the person, it is easy to convert into B, but it is more difficult to transform into A, and some men and women may never be able to transform into A.
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Every week, every month, ask your employees and subordinates to write an anonymous letter of recommendation to you.
Only by knowing the deficiencies can we improve.
If you do this, your company, your business, and your team will progress very quickly.
Of course, anonymous letters can be very exciting to read, like a roller coaster, and you have to be mentally prepared.
Anonymous advice is often best, because only in the case of anonymity can one dare to tell the truth.
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If you want to reward someone, the other party does not collect money, and you have to send the money out to feel at ease, you can go to the management office of the TA residential community, pay the property management fee of the TA family, pay it for two or three years, and after paying, quietly tell the other party, and then it's done. Of course, charging mobile phone bills is also a way.
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Plan A: 10 yuan a pound of melon seeds.
Plan B: 15 melon seeds a catty, buy a catty and get half a catty.
In fact, the two schemes are the same thing.
However, Plan B sounds like a lot of cost-effectiveness.
Human beings are greedy by nature. When you grasp that, you get the hang of doing business.
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"I want to sleep with you" and "I want to watch the sunrise with you" actually mean the same thing.
However, the phrase "watch the sunrise" is beautifully packaged and poetic, making people more receptive.
15
No matter what you sell, you have to give customers twice the nominal value as much as possible, so that customers feel "value", and your business can grow bigger and bigger.
For example, if a customer buys you 20 yuan roasted chestnuts, and you give away a roasted sweet potato worth 20 yuan (in fact, the cost is only 2 yuan), the customer will feel that it is worth it, and there will be more and more customers in the future.
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If you have helped others, forget it, don't mention it, let alone mention it repeatedly, otherwise, the other party was originally grateful, and if you mention this repeatedly, they will hate you.
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Borrow a relative's or friend's car to drive, and after driving, take the initiative to help someone fill up the gas, and after filling up, tell the other party lightly, which can leave a good impression.
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To put it bluntly, part-time work is actually a business, but it has low risks and low returns.
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What costs money is the cheapest.
When you are out of town and spend the night at a friend's house, you have to look at the face of your friend's spouse. However, for a few hundred yuan to stay in a three-four-five-star hotel, the hotel waiter wants to look at my face.
When you go out and take someone else's ride, you owe people family favors, but, call a Didi, you ask the Didi driver to wait for you for 5 minutes, he doesn't dare to say a word, and he will never dare to show you a face.
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The reason why those big people in history dared to risk their lives to fight was because they figured out two things:
First things first: sooner or later, people are going to die, and dying on the execution ground and battlefield is not necessarily more uncomfortable than dying in a hospital bed.
The second thing: a dull life is not worth living, so it is either brilliant or dead.
Therefore, those famous figures in history, they are not reckless, nor stupid, but different from the choice of most people, nothing more.
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In interpersonal relationships, the active party is the strong mentality, the one who is psychologically high.
The passive side, usually the underdog mentality, is the one who is psychologically at a low level.
Therefore, people who take the initiative are not because they are shameless, but because they are confident.
On the contrary, the so-called "face" of the passive party is actually self-imagined, and TA is essentially inferior.
This is true of the nature of any human relationship, whether it is making friends, starting a business, or pursuing the opposite sex.