On a scorching summer day in 2019, Ma Yili sat quietly in the spacious and well-lit living room, sipping a cup of steaming wolfberry tea and staring intently at the dazzling sunlight outside the window.
However, at this moment, her heart fluctuated, as if she had experienced a great ups and downs in her life - just now, she finally made a firm decision to officially announce the end of her relationship with her husband's article.
Once this blockbuster news was made public, it immediately attracted widespread attention and heated discussions in the public opinion circles. Many netizens full of love have given Ma Yili affirmation and support, praising her courage: "She took this step boldly! Ma Yili's move is undoubtedly to make that negative man deeply experience the pain of loss."
However, some people questioned this: "Is this just a scene orchestrated by Ma Yili, and what does she intend?"
Indeed, looking back on the couple's 11-year marriage, Ma Yili's decision-making is really unpredictable. From the initial forgiveness and understanding to the resolute breakup now, there may be her ingenious "strategy" hidden in it.
Back in 2014, the original low-key article suddenly fell into "darkness" and was exposed to a relationship with actress Yao Di. This explosive news was like a thunderbolt in the clear sky, quickly sweeping the entire entertainment industry.
As the wife of the article, Ma Yili, who had just given birth at that time, must have suffered a great deal of suffering in her heart.
However, what is amazing is that Ma Yili did not choose anger or divorce, but showed great tolerance and understanding, and chose to forgive the article.
At that time, she issued a statement saying: "Love is sweet, but marriage is a long and challenging journey, let us work together to spend this hard-won happy time" This words deeply touched the hearts of the majority of netizens.
All this makes people sigh how complex the predicament Ma Yili is facing. As an outstanding professional woman, the pressure and struggles she endured in her marriage were really distressing.
However, her courage and perseverance in the face of difficulties have also won people's sincere admiration.
Back in 2014, when the scandal between the article and Yao Di emerged like a tide, Ma Yili, who had just given birth, was in a state of physical and mental exhaustion.
In the public opinion environment at that time, the vast majority of people believed that Ma Yili, as a victim, should take revenge in the form of "a tooth for a tooth and an eye for an eye", after all, the betrayal of the article not only damaged his wife's reputation, but also seriously damaged the foundation of the family.
However, what is quite surprising is that Ma Yili did not choose the extreme method of anger or divorce, but gave the article endless tolerance and understanding with her broad mind.
She knows that this weathered marriage has endured too much grinding, and if it is easily allowed to collapse, it will become the biggest regret of her life!
So, she took the initiative to stand up and paved a way back for this precarious relationship!
In Ma Yili's tolerance and understanding, people seem to see a tenacious force supporting her. She understands that love is sweet, but married life is a long and challenging journey that needs to be managed and cherished with care.
Therefore, she chose to forgive the article and decided to devote herself to the development of her career as a way to soothe the pain in her heart.
As Ma Yili said: "We need to manage with heart and cherish each other." This sentence undoubtedly demonstrates her in-depth insight into marriage. As an outstanding woman, she knows that it is not enough to rely on family life alone, and women should also have their own career pursuits.
Therefore, in 2015, she did not hesitate to return to the entertainment industry and started a new journey. With her superb acting skills and extraordinary temperament, she has emerged among many excellent works, and her career has quickly rejuvenated.
This undoubtedly made the article, which was at a deep ebb, feel shameless and deeply guilty.
Faced with her husband's betrayal, Ma Yili chose the path of forgiveness and restarting her career. This undoubtedly shows her unique wisdom and strength, and it also makes people feel a heartfelt respect for this woman.
Her choice, as confusing as it is, is moving, and this kind of tolerance and tenacity is truly commendable.
Ma Yili was born in Hongkou District, Shanghai, and grew up in a thrifty family. Although their parents cherish money in their lives, they have never been stingy with their only daughter, Ma Yili.
Since she was a child, Ma Yili has deeply experienced the love of her parents, as long as it is something she likes, her parents will always do everything to meet her wishes.
In her childhood, Ma Yili was full of obsessive enthusiasm for dancing and endless admiration for the shining star actors on the screen.
She has told her family more than once about her deep desire to be able to step onto the star-studded stage and become a high-profile artist.
Although they tried to persuade their daughter to change this dream, Ma Yili responded in a very firm tone: "I don't have the slightest interest in anything other than dancing."
Faced with such a resolute attitude towards their daughter, Ma Yili's parents had no choice but to start looking around about the dance school that was enrolling students, and her father would carefully read every corner of the newspaper every day to search for possible useful admissions information.
Finally, on a sunny day, my father found an exciting news in the newspaper - the art troupe was enthusiastically recruiting students! He did not hesitate to take Ma Yili and immediately embarked on the journey of signing up.
Although Ma Yili was lucky enough to step into the art troupe and start her dance journey, she was often exhausted from the daily intense training process, and her father always went out of his way to encourage her daughter, such as promising to share a delicious KFC meal with her after training.
However, the moment Ma Yili stood in front of the KFC store, she suddenly felt deep guilt and uneasiness in her heart. She realized that this sumptuous dinner had been the result of her parents' hard work, and how could she accept it with peace of mind, so she did not hesitate to hand it back to her father, and firmly stated that she did not want to eat it.
At that moment, Ma Yili secretly vowed in her heart that she must use her sweat and hard work to create a happy life for her parents.
In 1993, Ma Yili, who was only 17 years old, was fortunate to be appreciated by the director and participated in the performance of the movie "Liu Haili", although she only received a meagre salary of 800 yuan, but she was not complacent.
Through cooperation with many senior actors, Ma Yili deeply realized that her acting skills need to be further improved. So, she resolutely decided to devote herself to the embrace of Shanghai Theater Academy, and won the favor of many well-known film and television crews with her excellent performance during her schooling.
Her source of income is completely dependent on her hard work in her acting career, rather than the financial support of her family.
From the moment she fell to the ground, Ma Yili showed extraordinary perseverance and persistent pursuit. She knows that gratitude is the foundation of human beings, so she cherishes the care of her parents, and knows that through her unremitting struggle and hard work, she can repay the kindness of her family.
This unswerving spirit of pursuing her dreams made Ma Yili finally achieve remarkable achievements in the field of acting career.
Ma Yili was born in the bustling Hongkou District of Shanghai and grew up in a thrifty family environment. In her beautiful and unforgettable childhood memories, her parents were the kind of people who cherished money very much.
His father's clothes had faded, but he was still reluctant to buy new ones, and on cold winter days, he always rode to and from work in the biting cold wind, and even though his hands had been eroded by frostbite, he was determined not to buy a pair of warm leather gloves.
In contrast, Ma Yili's mother is more strict, whether it is the cost of water and electricity, or the firewood, rice, oil and salt needed for daily life, she strictly controls to ensure that the monthly expenses never exceed the budget.
However, these two seemingly "stingy" parents have never been stingy in their care for their only daughter Ma Yili.
The young Ma Yili deeply felt the affection of her parents, as long as it was her favorite item, her parents would always give everything they had to fulfill her wishes.
Ma Yili has had a strong interest in dance since she was a child, and she is full of admiration for those star actors on the screen, and she has repeatedly told her family about her dream of becoming an artist, however, as parents who have come before, they naturally know the hardships and challenges of this road.
They had tried to persuade their daughter to give up this dream and choose to live a comfortable and stable life. However, when they saw that Ma Yili was so determined, they could only start to look around for the dance schools that were recruiting students.
My father would carefully read the middle seam of the newspaper every day, searching for possible useful admissions information Finally, on a sunny day, he found in the newspaper that the art troupe was in full swing to recruit students, so he did not hesitate to take Ma Yili on the road of registration.
Although Ma Yili successfully joined the art troupe and officially started her journey to learn dance, the high-intensity training process often made her feel stressed and difficult.
To help his daughter grit her teeth and persevere, her father generously promised to accompany her to a delicious KFC meal after rehearsals.
However, the moment Ma Yili stood in front of KFC, her heart was instantly filled with deep guilt and unease. At this moment, she resolutely handed back the coin she was holding in her hand to her father, firmly and sincerely stating that she did not want to enjoy these delicacies, but preferred to return to the comfort of her home to be with her parents.
At that moment, Ma Yili's heart swelled with a firm belief: she vowed to use her hard work and sweat to work hard to create and build a comfortable and beautiful living environment for her parents, so as to repay their affectionate love for selfless dedication over the years.
Despite the difficult circumstances of her parents' lives, they have always shown unreserved love for their daughter. It is this unconditional family support that has become a powerful source of motivation for Ma Yili to continue to chase her dreams.