The relationship between the non-marriage of men and the inability of laws to protect women's rights and interests has resonated with the majority of men. In today's blind date market, there is a huge difference in the values of boys and girls, and girls seem to only pursue rich partners, and the other party's character becomes a secondary consideration, while property, income and savings become the primary criteria for choosing a partner. This distorts the respect for marriage and seriously affects the implementation of laws to protect women's rights.
First of all, the root cause of this dilemma lies in the competitive pressure of the blind date market. In modern society, many young women are bound by the notions of society, family or relatives and friends, and when they reach a certain age, everyone expects them to be able to find a partner with financial strength to maintain a safe and happy life. However, this single standard has led to a fundamental shift in women's values, and they have begun to turn material conditions such as property and money into the most important basis in marriage, while ignoring the importance of the quality of their partner.
Second, this state of affairs also reflects a shift in society's values. Nowadays, the pursuit of material happiness and comfort has become a common goal, and this pursuit makes women pay more attention to the economic power and financial status of the other party when choosing a partner. However, it is important to be clear that a person's wealth does not determine his qualities and attitude towards marriage, so it is not a wise choice to evaluate a person's suitability to be a partner based solely on money.
In addition, marriage, as a system of social and personal relations, was established to safeguard equality between men and women and to protect women's rights and interests. However, when marriage becomes a property-led transaction, it defeats the original purpose of protecting women's rights. Behind this view of marriage lies the neglect and deprivation of women's right to independence. If men withdraw from the marriage market because they do not want to marry, it will be difficult to continue to establish and guarantee the implementation of laws for women's rights.
To solve this problem, we need to stimulate both the active participation of men and the transformation of women's values. First of all, society should encourage men to participate more actively in marriage and family, and improve their sense of identity and responsibility for marriage. In addition, better legal mechanisms should be established to protect the proper implementation of women's rights and interests. At the same time, we also need to educate women to view marriage correctly, to realize that property does not represent the whole of a person, but should pay more attention to the quality and personality charm of their partners.
Not only that, but the adjustment of the concept of marriage also needs to start from the family and education. Families should educate their children with the right values of marriage and pass on positive values about marriage so that they understand that marriage is based on love and respect, not just an economic transaction. At the same time, the education system should also include guidance and education on the concept of marriage, so that the younger generation can understand the true meaning of marriage and cultivate their correct outlook on life and values.
In summary, there is a correlation between the reluctance of men to marry and the implementation of laws to protect women's rights. When women's values change to the pursuit of money, the concept of marriage is distorted, which affects the recognition of the institution of marriage and the protection of women's rights and interests. However, by encouraging men to actively participate in marriage, strengthening the establishment of legal institutions, and the guidance of family and education, we can gradually adjust this unhealthy view of marriage and re-establish the correct concept of respecting the institution of marriage and protecting women's rights.