Some people may ask: What is the difference between middle-aged women's view of love and that of our young people?
First, let's take a look at the middle-aged woman's view of love. They have gone through the passion and romance of youth, and have begun to pay more attention to realistic needs, will weigh the pros and cons, and will desire stability. They have tasted the ups and downs of life, experienced the ups and downs of feelings, and along the way, they have a more mature and sober cognition.
So, how to win the hearts of middle-aged women? In fact, it is very simple, there is no need to be overly flattering, just take the initiative to give them these two things: a stable material foundation and deep understanding and respect.
First of all, we must give her good economic conditions and live a stable life. If love is not integrated into the trivial details of life, such as dressing, eating, sleeping, and counting money, its vitality will be short-lived. Middle-aged couples, the road to life is full of ups and downs. Supporting the elderly, raising children, housing and car loans, all of them are inseparable from the support of money.
When women enter middle age, they no longer pursue those ethereal romances, they crave more stability and steadfastness. Like Feng Xiaoqin in "Home of the Heart", she longs to have her own home in Shanghai and live a stable life with her husband and children. Therefore, to truly love someone, you must create a stable living environment for her, don't let her worry about money, and take the initiative to solve material problems.
Secondly, we have to give her respect and understanding, love and consideration. The love of middle-aged people has long faded away from the flashy sweet words, but is hidden deep in the bits and pieces of daily life, and endless tenderness breeds in each other's hearts. They respect each other, understand each other, warm each other's hearts with deep love and thoughtfulness, and let the relationship grow deeper and deeper.
Just like the two works "Parental Love" and "Golden Wedding", they depict the emotional changes of the couple's life. Jiang Defu cherishes and considerates An Jie, he respects her living habits, understands her petty bourgeoisie, and even asks his sister to help take care of the children to reduce her burden. And An Jie also reciprocated with tenderness and tolerance, and their days became sweeter and sweeter.
On the other hand, Tong Zhi and Wen Li's marriage, Tong Zhi's various dissatisfaction and accusations against Wen Li made her resentful and suspicious. He failed to appreciate her hard work and was unable to provide her with adequate support in the midst of family conflicts. Wen Li gradually became hysterical in loneliness and disappointment, and the relationship between the two gradually drifted apart.
In fact, a woman's gentleness and virtue are not innate, but inspired by a man's care and thoughtfulness. When men are caring and considerate of women, they will be willing to pay more for their families and be willing to compromise in the trivialities of life.
Good love has nothing to do with age, it only depends on whether you manage it with your heart. As the writer Ye Xuan said: "Every man must grow up through marriage, to understand the firewood, rice, oil and salt of life, which is trivial, and every woman must also grow through marriage to understand responsibility and tolerance." ”
The secret of happiness lies in always remembering the original intention of love, caring for her, understanding her, and cherishing her with love. In this way, even if time passes, she is still as bright as the stars, and even if the years are long, she still smiles like a flower and blooms with happiness.
Entering middle age, what a woman wants is actually simple. It's just that tranquility and stability, so that the years are quiet, not alarmed or disturbed, but it is the sincerity and affection that makes love the same as ever, never withering. In the vast sea of people, since we have spent time with her, we should be determined and take the initiative to give her these two precious gifts, so that her soul can be stable and peaceful. The rest of your life is long, I hope you can cherish her beside you, and spend the wind and rain hand in hand, until the gray hair is gray, and you are still in each other's hands and go to the white head together.
So, dear readers, do you think that middle-aged women's view of love is more focused on material foundation or spiritual satisfaction? Welcome to share your views in the comment area!