Have you noticed that many young people nowadays, no matter how hard and tired they are, insist on taking care of their own babies and avoid the help of the elderly.
Seriously, many times the elderly with a baby can reduce the pressure on the mother, but a generation has a generation's habit of bringing a baby.
Many older generations can't bring up babies scientifically, and the younger generation doesn't say it or not, and it's easy to deteriorate the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, so it's better to work hard.
A netizen complained that her daughter was born in 14, and at that time, information was not yet developed, and she was a mother for the first time, so she didn't understand anything.
Because the mammary glands are blocked, the breast milk is not enough, and the weather is also very cold, so the mother-in-law added rice noodles to the child before the confinement was born, saying that the child could eat enough and did not need to diarrhea.
Another netizen shared that he went back to work 6 months after giving birth, and the children were all brought by his mother-in-law, and he was always afraid that the child would not be able to eat, and he was afraid that the child would be able to eat everywhere, until he was 2 years old, he was fed, and he lacked independent eating, and now he has become a "rice slag", and he regrets it!
Dress your child too much
I am afraid that my child will catch a cold, wrap it like a dumpling in winter, and wear long sleeves in summer
Take the and pee too early
In order to save money, it is not conducive to the child's bone development if the child is too early to pee and feces
Feed with chewed mouth
This is something I can't stand and I really don't understand why I want to do this? I don't think it's unhygienic? Oral bacteria are the most, and chewing rice too much is not good for children's tooth development
Limit how much sleep your child gets
My in-laws are the same, the child sleeps well, I have to wake up the child, saying that I sleep too much and refuse to sleep at night, I am also drunk, he is not in a coma, he has his own sleep consciousness, why interfere?
Pinch the bridge of your child's nose and head
Many older generations will adjust the head and nose bridge of newborns, I just want to say, he is not a mud doll, is this really not self-deception?
Stand too early, go
In order to save trouble and show off, the older generation will train children to stand and walk too early, don't you know that this will damage the child's spine and legs
Make it a habit to fall asleep
Some old people always say that children can only sleep when they are held, and they wake up when they are put down, is this not a bad habit formed over a long period of time?
Children eat hands
This is an old man who stands in line, because many children eat until they have pimples on their fingers, and it is difficult to quit when they grow up
Unscientific feeding, premature complementary food
The older generation is afraid that their children will be hungry, and they think that the 个️ older children will eat so much milk powder, which is all water, and they will add complementary food to their children in three months when one or two bubbles of urine are gone
Pro-child
I can't stand this, my mother-in-law often kisses children, her face is full of saliva, I have said it many times, and then she doesn't kiss you face, I know that she has kissed the child as soon as I hug the child, you know!
Write to the end
I know that the elderly help to take care of the baby in order to reduce the burden of their children, but some of the habits of bringing the baby are really unscientific.
Now it is different from the previous era, in the past, it was enough to eat enough, but now we pay attention to scientific feeding
Some reasonable elders will feed them according to scientific methods, but some old people with outdated ideas think that you are picking thorns, and it is really unreasonable to see her unpleasant.
Do you know what other bad habits with babies are? Welcome to leave a message in the comment area and discuss with me
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