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That was 30 years ago, and when I think about it, I always have mixed feelings in my heart. It was a heartbreaking experience, but it was also something I will never forget. If it weren't for that, I might never have appreciated the value of family affection, and I wouldn't have been able to cherish the happiness of the moment.
I have a second uncle at home who is very irritable. He thinks highly of himself and often criticizes others. I've been afraid of him since I was a child, and every time I see his fierce face, I always subconsciously shrink my neck.
"Why are you so short, don't you grow taller, but you'll really become a dwarf winter melon!" My second uncle often laughed at me like this.
"Second uncle, when I am growing up, I will definitely be very tall. "I could only respond timidly.
"Hmph, you give me a good meal and sleep, if I don't grow taller, I won't be able to fight back!" The second uncle said, and made a fist gesture, so frightened that I quickly stepped aside.
I often secretly observe her between classes, to see her side face as she takes notes seriously, to see her frown slightly frowning and thinking about problems, and to see her happy smile when she is praised by her classmates. As soon as I see her, my heart will jump with joy, and my whole body will exude unprecedented strength and vitality.
That spring, I finally mustered up the courage to confess my heart to Xiaofang. Unexpectedly, she felt the same way and happily agreed to be my girlfriend. We started a sweet romance and every day was like walking in the clouds.
However, the good times didn't last long, and half a month later, my second uncle accidentally discovered our relationship.
"You kid is actually in love? The second uncle was furious, grabbed me by the collar, and shook me violently.
"Second uncle, I, I've grown up, what's wrong with falling in love?" I was terrified.
"Nonsense! You kid hasn't even gone to college, and you're thinking about falling in love? The second uncle roared angrily and slapped me in the face, which hurt hotly.
The second uncle's palm hit me hard in the face, and the hot pain made my eyes black. I clutched my swollen cheeks, tears streaming down my face.
"You hairy boys, how do you know what true love is? It's all stinky and bad! Break up with that little girl right away, or I'm welcome!" The second uncle's rough words were like a heavy hammer, smashing my heart.
"Second uncle, I really like Xiaofang, please, don't force us to break up, okay?" I choked up and pleaded, but in exchange for a more hideous face from my second uncle.
"Shut up! I'll hear you say one more word, and I'll break your dog's legs!" The second uncle grabbed my neck tightly with both hands, and I instantly suffocated and gasped with difficulty.
Just when I thought I was going to suffocate to death, my mother rushed in and slapped my second uncle hard. "You are a rampant, do you still want to be a man? let go of my son!"
Under my mother's reprimand, my second uncle pushed me away fiercely, and I collapsed on the ground, gasping for breath.
After that conflict, my second uncle insisted that I break up with Xiaofang, otherwise he would cut off all contact with us. I had no choice but to follow his decision.
I made an appointment with Xiaofang and told her about my second uncle's decision. She was in tears, pounding my chest in pain.
"You big liar, didn't you say you'd never leave me? Xiaofang cried and scolded me, and I could only be speechless.
Eventually, in the midst of her cries, we had to break up. I looked at Xiaofang's crying red eyes, my heart was like a knife, and my internal organs were hurting. From that moment on, I lost the courage and hope to survive, and my whole person fell into boundless darkness.
I began to lose interest in life and spent my days depressed and listless. My mother saw it in her eyes and felt pain in her heart, but she couldn't do anything but watch me go down day by day.
After more than half a year, my life became a mess. And at this moment, the second uncle's attitude began to change.
One day, I was lying in bed in a daze when my second uncle suddenly pushed the door in. I was startled and subconsciously shrunk back.
"What's wrong with you kid? I haven't seen you in months, you've become this skeleton!" The second uncle stared at my bony body, and there was a look of concern on his face.
"No, nothing, I'm fine. I kept my head down, reluctant to say more.
"Che, do you think I can't see it? It's all for the little girl's business, right?" The second uncle sighed and said helplessly.
I was stunned, I didn't expect that the irascible second uncle could also see my situation.
"Listen, you've grown up, it's time to learn to take responsibility for your feelings. The second uncle pondered for a moment, and finally spoke: "If you really like that girl so much, I won't force you." But you have to make sure that you finish your studies well and have a future to be worthy of her. "
The words of the second uncle completely shocked my heart. I didn't expect that the rough second uncle would have such a reasonable side.
From that day on, my life changed completely. I am no longer the depressed teenager, but I have rekindled my enthusiasm and fighting spirit for life.
I began to study hard and review my homework every day. The hard work paid off, and a year later, I was admitted to the university of my long-awaited choice.
During college, I still think about Xiaofang a lot. Despite years of separation, my love for her has not diminished in the slightest. I made up my mind that I must pursue her again and get us together again.
In my senior year, I mustered up the courage to call Xiaofang. Although I haven't seen her in years, my heart still pounds when I hear her familiar voice.
"Xiaofang, we've been breaking up for several years, do you remember me?" I took a deep breath and asked straight to the point.
"Remember, how could you possibly forget you liar?" Xiao Fang's tone was a little resentful.
"I'm sorry, but I really had to do it. But I've been waiting for you all these years, hoping to be with you again one day. I said sincerely.
Xiao Fang's words were like a thunderbolt from the sky, and they crushed me fiercely. I never expected that after many years of breakup, she would have agreed to someone else's marriage proposal. Suddenly my heart was enveloped in a darkness of despair.
"Xiaofang, how can you do this to me? I choked up, tears rolling in my eyes.
"Don't talk about that, that's all in the past. Now that I have a new life, you should also open the knot and start over. Xiao Fang's tone was full of determination.
I knew that her determination had been made, and that my pleas would be in vain. Our once sweet love came to naught, and my heart was completely cold.
Just when I was in great pain, a sudden car accident completely changed my fate.
It was a rainy night, and I was walking alone on the road, looking dejected. Suddenly, a large truck that was out of control roared towards me and crashed into me frantically! Before I could react, I was slammed into the air, and my body hit the concrete floor on the side of the road.
Blood soon poured out of my mouth and nose, and I felt a sharp pain all over my body, and my consciousness was rapidly blurring. Just when I thought I was dying like this, a familiar figure suddenly appeared in my sight.
"Second uncle, is that you?" I called weakly, but I saw that my second uncle's face was pale, and he was holding on tightly to the runaway truck.
I watched dumbfounded, and the second uncle actually dragged the large truck weighing dozens of tons with both hands! He gritted his teeth and exerted all his strength to finally pull the vehicle to a stop.
"You stupid boy, why are you so careless? Fortunately, I arrived in time!" My second uncle helped me up, sweating profusely and shaking his hands violently.
I was shocked, I couldn't have imagined that my second uncle would have such amazing power. What shocked me even more was that he was in danger and desperately saved my life.
From that moment on, my perception of my second uncle changed drastically. Originally, I always thought that he was a violent and cruel person, but now it seems that his heart is so pure and generous. It was he who saved my poor life with his own hands!
The car accident shocked me so much that I began to reflect on the family relationship between myself and my second uncle.
How stupid I was in the past, I was always hostile to my second uncle, thinking he was a thug. In fact, his love for me is so pure and persistent. It was because of his intervention that I was able to get through that difficult time of first love safely and not be led astray. More importantly, it was his unbounded courage in the face of danger that saved me from danger.
I began to hate my former self, the self who was so indifferent to family affection. If it hadn't been for my second uncle's timely rescue, I would have died on that road by now. How I owe him!
From then on, I made up my mind to use my life to cherish and repay my second uncle's kindness to me. Because family affection is so precious, it is the only thing we can truly rely on and cherish in this world.
In addition to cherishing family affection, I also began to reflect on my attitude towards relationships.
I began to realize that attachment is not a burden, but a precious asset. It taught me how to love and how to cherish. It was because of this failed first love that I was able to truly grow up and learn to look at the world with mature eyes.
Since then, I have been determined to spend the rest of my life cherishing all the good things I have now. Whether it is family, friendship or love, I will guard it tightly with my own hands and never let it slip out of my life again.
Since that car accident, my life has been like a hanging, and everything has been going in a good direction.
After graduating from university, I got my wish to work for the company I had been dreaming of for a long time. Due to my diligence and eagerness to learn, I quickly gained the appreciation of my leaders for my excellent work performance, and I rose through the ranks step by step.
Xiaowen gave me a new feeling, her gentleness and thoughtfulness made me feel more caring, and her empathy gave me an unprecedented sense of security. I began to realize that Xiaofang was just a love in my youth, and Xiaowen was the bosom lover who was destined to spend my life together.
In this way, with the blessings of family and friends, Xiaowen and I stepped on the red carpet together and held a grand wedding. When I looked into Xiaowen's happy eyes, my heart was once again filled with happiness and warmth. Yes, I finally waited for my own marriage, and waited for this soulmate who could allow me to place it for life.
In the days after marriage, Xiaowen and I respected each other like guests and enjoyed each other, and our lives were enjoyable. Our relationship is getting deeper and deeper, and we gradually have our own little baby. Whenever I look at the child's innocent smile, I think of my unrequited love years ago, that youthful and painful experience. Now that I have Xiaowen and my children by my side, I don't have to endure loneliness alone anymore.
In this way, in the double joy of a successful career and a happy family, my life finally embarked on a successful track. The self-esteem, loneliness, and hesitation that I used to have low self-esteem, loneliness, and hesitation have been completely left behind. I gained the most precious family affection and love, and lived the life I expected at the beginning.
Just when Xiaowen's child and I were full moon, my second uncle came to congratulate me. Seeing his old face, my heart couldn't help but overflow with a thousand emotions.
Yes, it was this once rough and impulsive second uncle who saved my life with his own hands on that night 30 years ago. Without his courage, I would not be able to live this happy life today.
"Second uncle, thank you so much!" I held my second uncle's age-spotted hand tightly, tears rolling in my eyes.
"You kid, you've grown up. The second uncle smiled and patted me on the shoulder, and the once fierce face was now full of kindness.
"Yes, if you hadn't saved me fearlessly, I wouldn't be like this today. I say it sincerely.
"You had a rough time when you were younger, but you made it all over and I'm happy for you. The second uncle smiled and said earnestly, "But you must also remember that happiness and contentment are all bought by you with your own hands, and they are not gifts from God." You have to cherish what you have now, and you must not let it slip out of your hands as you did back then. "
I nodded, taking in my second uncle's teachings. Yes, this hard-won happiness is exactly what I bought with the life that my second uncle saved in danger. I will spend the rest of my life cherishing what I have now, and I will never let it go away from me again.
At this moment, Xiaowen walked over with the child in her arms. The second uncle touched the child's little head dotingly, and a pleased smile appeared on the corner of his mouth. Seeing this scene, my heart couldn't help but feel a wave of warm emotion.
Yes, it is with the great rescue of my second uncle that I can have everything I have today. He not only saved my life, but also made me embrace this wonderful world again. From now on, I will cherish my current family, friendship and love, and strive to live as my second uncle expects, and live the happy life he blesses.