Preface
Dear friends, have you ever heard an amazing family story? This is a bloody plot from domestic violence to reconciliation to uncovering the fig leaf, which has made countless netizens deeply attracted! When the wife burns her husband with a pot of boiling water, have you ever been shocked? When celebrity divorce has become a trend, how do you reflect on the weight of ordinary people's marriage? Wait, please follow me to appreciate this heart-wrenching road of divorce and reconciliation!
1. Review of domestic violence incidents in Chaoshan couples
The resurgence of the waves, the dispute over domestic violence
It all started 11 days ago. On that day, an ordinary couple from Chaoshan fell into a fierce family dispute.
The husband was upright and punched and kicked
The origin of the dispute is no longer known, only the fist speaks. The husband exuded anger all over his body, and his hands were clenched into fists and smashed into his wife's body. The fist was to the flesh, and the wife curled up on the ground in pain, wailing incessantly.
The wife poured tea and sent the Buddha, and the hot water counterattacked
Her husband's atrocities didn't stop there. The wife gritted her teeth and endured, waiting for the opportunity to fight back. Just when her husband completely let his guard down, she took the opportunity to pick up a pot of boiling water and poured it violently.
"Ah-----h The burns are shocking, especially on the face, which is unbearable to look at.
No one could have imagined that a housework dispute would evolve to such a point.
After the incident, public opinion was in an uproar, and the wind suddenly rose
The news quickly spread throughout the Internet, and onlookers were in an uproar over his wife's "soup spilling" behavior. For a while, public opinion changed abruptly, and his wife became the big stinking of domestic violence referred to by Qianfu.
"It's too cruel, I ruined my husband's appearance with my own hands!" "It's so miserable, she was seriously scalded by boiling water, does she need to be criminally responsible?" This is a crime, and it must be brought to justice!"
Once upon a time, family conflicts would turn into criminal conflicts fueled by public opinion. The fate of the couple fell into a whirlpool because of this...
2. Reversal of the plot: the husband and wife reconcile and reconcile
Change your mind and turn the tide
No one expected that in the storm of public opinion, this couple who suffered from domestic violence staged an unexpected reversal!
The wife wept and repented, and the husband unexpectedly forgiven
"I'm sorry, I know it's wrong... I went too far that day...", the wife knelt beside the bed and confessed to her husband in agony. Her eyes were filled with tears, and the fierceness she once had was long gone.
Unexpectedly, the husband did not get angry because of this, but showed a gentle smile. He gently held his wife's hand and said slowly: "It's okay, I forgive you." I was also at fault that day, so let's start all over again. "
Bang bang, this moment seems to have a monstrous applause ringing. Once upon a time, family disputes would be resolved in mutual forgiveness? Such generosity really amazed netizens.
The power of home
It turned out that it was for the sake of this family and the poor child that the husband and wife made up their minds to let go of their hatred and choose to start over.
"Baby, Mom and Dad have a fight, but we'll get along. The husband gently stroked the child's head and said earnestly. The child's innocent eyes opened and nodded as if he didn't understand.
As a result, the stormy rain of the previous days faded away, replaced by the bright sunshine. This couple, who had almost broken up, regained unprecedented happiness and hope.
Tracing the cause of the incident
Uncover the mystery and make the abyss clear
Just when this broken and reconciled couple received the blessings of thousands of netizens, a domestic violence video that was inadvertently exposed by his wife completely lifted the veil of the whole incident!
The husband is manic and bloodthirsty, and the wife is still violent and does not leave
In the video, the wife curls up on the sofa and begs, while the husband has angry eyes and fiercely beckons his wife's face and body with his fists.
"Ahh
But the husband turned a deaf ear, his fist seemed to be venting his inner mania, and smashed his wife's cheeks, abdomen without mercy... Until his wife collapsed to the ground.
It turns out that domestic violence has its own vicious circle
Seeing such a terrifying scene, netizens finally seemed to suddenly realize: it turned out that the husband was the culprit, and the wife splashed him with boiling water, but it was just an expedient measure for self-defense and revenge!
"She deserves to be burned, to her own devices. "Now it seems that she was also forced to be helpless at that time. "Well, what I scolded her before is going to be taken back..."
Subsequently, there was an even more shocking inside story leaking out - it turned out that behind this domestic violence, the husband's long-term domestic violence against his wife was already a clear fact. And every time the wife can't bear to fight back, the husband will immediately change himself, pretending to be an innocent victim, cunning and aggressive.
It seems that the contradiction between the couple has been going on for a long time, and the vicious circle of confrontation between the two sides has finally been completely torn off by the outside world under that pot of boiling water.
Fourthly, a call for the resolution of contradictions
Qianfu refers to the two sides of yin and yang
Just when netizens insulted and condemned this couple, a voice that made people suddenly realize suddenly sounded:
"Wait! Do you know the story behind them? People are not sages, who can do nothing? We should tolerate each other, not blindly accuse and abuse!"
It turned out that after experiencing the torment of domestic violence, the couple finally chose last year's grievances and went to the next warm home together.
The willows are dark and the flowers are bright, and they are born to the sun
"Baby, I'm sorry Mom and Dad hurt you by arguing. The wife knelt reverently in front of the child, tears rolling down. The husband on the side held his wife's hand tightly and gently wiped away her tears.
"It's okay Mom and Dad, I know you love me. The child innocently responded, "Let's live well!"
In this way, an unprecedented warm picture was presented in front of the eyes of netizens. The grudges and accusations of the past seem to have been forgotten at this moment.
It turns out that their greatest understanding and tolerance for each other comes from their love for this family and this child. When that emotion converges into a river, no matter how big the grievance is, it will be self-defeating.
The past is a thought, and the future has a long way to go
"After all those days, we finally understood. The husband sighed and apologized: "In the past, we all made mistakes, so we can only understand each other, take care of each other, and live a good life." "
"Yes, total pain is born in distraction. The wife also spoke slowly: "But from now on, let's start over." For the sake of the children, for the sake of this family. "
Seeing that the couple, who had been pointed out by netizens, changed their minds and took a solid step on the road to regaining happiness, netizens were all moved and applauded. As some netizens said: "They did it, and they lived out the spirit of turning hostility into jade." This is the greatest wisdom in life!"
5. Compare the marriage of celebrities with ordinary people
Money solves a thousand sorrows, and civilians know it
Just when this ordinary couple was struggling to repair their home, a middle-aged man with the title of "Diamond King Lao Wu" was exposed to the exciting inside story of "living with the mistress" in another news section!
"Can I be so willful after I have earned hundreds of millions? What if I divorce and divorce my mother-in-law, it's normal to get a few juniors!" The "Diamond King Old Five", who is worth hundreds of millions, said confidently to the camera.
It turns out that in the eyes of these crazy nouveau riche, marriage is just a dispensable consumable, saying that they can leave, they can take concubines if they want to take concubines, and they can pay for everything with a snap of their fingers. But who would have thought that it was the profligacy of these nouveau riche that was exchanged for the helplessness and sweat of thousands of ordinary people?
Poor people are forced to live in the quagmire
"What is a celebrity divorce? Zhang Jizhong is just an old cow eating tender grass!" An old Beijinger sneered and said, "We, the common people, are the ones who really bear the burden of marriage! After a lifetime of hard work in exchange for a broken house, how can we dare to mention divorce?"
"That's right!" The aunt who was selling snacks on the side also immediately echoed: "Look, where do the couple who were splashed with boiling water dare to leave? They want to support their families, where do they have spare money to divorce?"
In the words of these wise men, it is not difficult to understand the regret of ordinary people for marriage. For them, marriage is not something that can be carried by a momentary novelty, it is more like a heavy mountain, and it takes a lifetime of perseverance to show its weight.
It is precisely because of this that they should cherish the only happiness they have now. Don't be like those celebrities and bigwigs, turning marriage into a dispensable game, otherwise you will only fall into the quagmire of hesitation and live more hesitant than philosophers.
epilogue
The road of marriage is tortuous, but as long as you use love and tolerance to overcome every hardship, you will definitely find an outlet for happiness. Let's applaud this difficult couple and take this opportunity to reflect on our own attitude towards marriage. Living in the present, cherishing the people in front of you, and resolving all hatred with tolerance is the greatest wisdom. We should not have too much prejudice against nouveau riche like Diamond King Lao Wu, everyone has their own philosophy of survival. The important thing is that we have love and hope and strive to live the kindest and happiest version of ourselves under the sun.