Preface
Some people say that "childhood sweethearts" identify childhood friendships, and some people say that "bamboo horses can't compete with the sky", looking for their favorite people.
Bamboo horse is a memory and pure emotion when I was a child. When you are young, you may be looking forward to all kinds of possibilities with your playmates and looking forward to a better life. But life is full of unknowns, with many grim and test.
Childhood friendships and emotions do not necessarily translate smoothly into adult love, and may even turn into family affection. And the person who "fell from the sky" may be the real lifelong partner.
Yue Lingshan, as a female character written by Mr. Jin Yong, is very charming but controversial, why did she abandon Ling Hu Chong and choose Lin Pingzhi?
1. Thinking about the precipice
Ling Hu Chong and his little sister Yue Lingshan have been childhood sweethearts since childhood, and they are happy with each other, and Ling Hu Chong also takes good care of Yue Lingshan.
They co-created the Chong Ling Sword Technique, and in the process of cultivating together, every move and style carried the emotions and commitments between them, and became a witness to the deep feelings between each other. This relationship deepens with age.
Ling Hu Chong has a deep fate with Si Guoya, because this is not only the beginning of his real journey to the rivers and lakes, but also the turning point of his fate, and also the place where he and his little sister Yue Lingshan fell in love.
People tend to be grateful to the person who helped them in need, especially if that person is their sweetheart. It was originally Lu Da who delivered food to Ling Hu Chong every day, but Yue Lingshan robbed Lu Da of his errand in order to be able to see Ling Hu Chong every day and accompany him, and he also quarreled with Lu Da because of this, crying and red-eyed.
Ling Hu Chong was overjoyed when he saw that the person who came was a little junior sister, but when he saw her crying red eyes, he couldn't bear it.
He wanted to see his little sister, but he couldn't bear Yue Lingshan to go to Siguo Cliff every day for himself. But Yue Lingshan seemed to be a gift from God, she used gentle and smart words to relieve his daily boredom, and also increased her friendship with Yue Lingshan.
Although the two people did not directly express their feelings in their hearts in the thought of the cliff, they expressed their surging love for each other in a way that both parties understood.
Yue Lingshan would come to Ling Hu Chong every day regardless of wind and rain, which was tantamount to sending charcoal in the snow for Ling Hu Chong, which made Ling Hu Chong feel endless warmth and happiness.
2. People from heaven
The roads in Huashan were rugged and the climate was harsh, and Yue Lingshan fell ill after delivering food to Linghu Chong a few times. Ling Hu Chong was distressed and asked Yue Lingshan to recuperate with peace of mind and stop doing such drudgery.
But while Yue Lingshan was recuperating, another man broke into her world. Yue Lingshan was rescued by Lin Pingzhi by chance. Although the hero saves his sister is very old-fashioned, it is not outdated, Yue Lingshan took a fancy to this chivalrous and personable young man at a glance.
After Lin Ping went up the mountain, the two also got acquainted, exchanged hearts, and determined the identity of the couple.
However, Ling Hu Chong was thinking about the cliff retreat and did not know about these things. When he finally came down the mountain, he found that his little sister already had a partner. He looked at Yue Lingshan and Lin Pingzhi's affection, and felt that he was an outsider, a third party who destroyed other people's feelings.
But obviously he was the one who grew up with Yue Lingshan, he was very unwilling and unacceptable, and he was upset and irritable every time he thought of this, especially after he missed Yue Lingshan's blue water sword, Yue Lingshan was very angry, and ignored him even more, and even never looked at him alone.
Since then, Ling Hu Chong has no Yue Lingshan by his side. Yue Lingshan chose Lin Pingzhi instead of Ling Hu Chong, could it be that Lin Pingzhi had anything special?
3. Reasons for choosing
Physical appearance is an important factor for many people, especially when it comes to love and marriage. Yue Lingshan favored Lin Pingzhi because of his life-saving grace, perhaps because he did not have a rough appearance like a person who practiced martial arts, but was a little more gentle and elegant, and his humility and approachability left a deep impression on Yue Lingshan's heart.
And in addition to appearance, character, talent, morality, etc. are equally important. A true relationship should be based on mutual understanding, respect, and trust, not just on appearances.
In the process of getting along with each other in daily life, Yue Lingshan found that Lin Pingzhi only knew how to practice martial arts, and never got involved in bad habits such as gambling and alcoholism. He behaves in good faith, is down-to-earth and hardworking, polite, and very gentle and considerate to himself, which is very in line with Yue Lingshan's mate selection standards, and also meets the requirements of Yue Lingshan's parents for their son-in-law.
On the contrary, Ling Hu Chong is a bold person who drinks and eats meat, and he doesn't care too much about his appearance, nor does he think about what others think of him.
Although everyone thought that Ling Hu Chong was not bad-hearted, he was wholeheartedly devoted to Yue Lingshan, and he was also a righteous gentleman, but the balance in his heart was still in favor of Lin Pingzhi.
In this way, Yue Lingshan and Lin Pingzhi got married. But after marriage, the two had different positions, resentment, and eventually became a pair of resentful couples.
After Ling Hu Chong came out of lovelorn, he married Ren Yingying, and the two finally retired to the rivers and lakes.
epilogue
In the journey of life, we will encounter many emotions, such as friendship, family affection, love, and kindness from strangers. In these relationships, love is very mysterious, uncontrollable, and unpredictable.
Yue Lingshan and Ling Hu Chong grew up together since childhood, and the two of them were childhood sweethearts, and they had no guesses, and they established a deep friendship. They spent many happy times together in their childhood, had many fond memories, and also fantasized about their later lives and looked forward to the future.
However, as time passed, the two of them drifted apart in their lives, and there were even many unpleasant and quarrels.
Yue Lingshan met Lin Pingzhi when she was growing up, and the relationship between the two made her feel different feelings. Lin Pingzhi's steadiness and restraint made her feel a different heartbeat and emotion from Ling Hu Chong, and the girl's spring heart couldn't help but sprout. She also chose Lin Pingzhi because of this, and gave up Ling Huchong, who was her childhood sweetheart.
After Ling Hu Chong learned of Yue Lingshan's choice, he may have had resentment and dissatisfaction in his heart. Even so, he still has a tolerant heart, and is sincerely willing to bless the two of them to grow old and love each other.
Whether it is "bamboo horse love" or "love from heaven", it is a way of love, which is worthy of our cherishing, care and maintenance. And no matter how love comes to our lives, we should go with the flow, treat it with sincerity and kindness, manage it with heart, and care for it with love, so that we can have a good life!