For many children, it is inevitable that they quarrel or be bullied by others because of conflicts with others in school, and when they encounter this situation, how parents deal with it has become the key to the problem! The head of the Guizhou family has cleverly solved this problem with their own methods!
A mother in Guiyang, Guizhou Province went to school to deliver things to her 12-year-old daughter, and then the daughter told her mother, "Recently, there was a boy in my class, and he targeted me every time", after hearing her daughter's words, the mother was obviously shocked, "Targeting you? Why?" and then the daughter told her mother how she was targeted, "He made a pornography to me every time, and then bullied me, and when things fell, he threw them for me and broke them."
Mom then asked, "Do you usually have a holiday with him?" "Does he do this to you alone or to everyone else", the daughter said "He is very good to other girls", and the mother continued to ask, "Have you communicated with him?" because something provoked him. "Do you want me to call you over?" "Mom gave him a snack and talked to him. Then the mother called the little boy that her daughter had mentioned!
I thought that the mother would be furious when she saw the little boy, thinking that she had bullied her child so blatantly many times, and then insulted the other party, and warned the other party not to bully the little girl again! But I didn't expect that the mother's next actions were commendable! First of all, the moment the woman saw the little boy, she directly praised the other party for "such a young man with such spirit", and then went to the main topic: "My daughter said that you are good friends with him, right?" "She said that you often help him. "If someone bullies him, you will help her, is it really fake?" The boy said "really" with a weak heart!
After seeing the other party's affirmative answer, the woman immediately expressed her gratitude to the other party for her help, and took the little boy's hand and said, "To show my gratitude to you, I will give you a banana and egg yolk pie." Then the boy put the snack away.
Maybe it was because he was guilty, or maybe the boy realized what his problem was, because he knew in his heart that he had never helped the little girl, but often bullied her! So the boy asked, "Are you mocking me?" The woman then replied, "No ridicule!" Seeing that the little boy had understood what she wanted to express, the woman quickly said, "Then someone bullied her, can you help her?" Auntie thanked her again. Then the woman reached out and took the boy's hand, and the boy said embarrassedly, "It's okay, and I want to thank you." ”
After hearing the conversation between the mother and the little boy, the daughter suddenly realized, "Mom, you are amazing. At this time, the woman patiently said, "Is this method good? Make sure that he will not bully you in the future, and if someone bullies you, he will also help you." The daughter admired her mother's method and exclaimed, "I didn't even expect it, it's amazing." The mother then told her daughter, "This is called turning enemies into friends, do you understand?"
After seeing the mother's way of doing things, I had to praise her, a simple sentence not only successfully resolved the contradiction, but also made the little boy naturally become the daughter's umbrella!