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In this life, people avoid not dealing with all kinds of people.
Whether in life or in the workplace, when we get along with others, we must learn to pay attention to proportion, and we must also know how to protect ourselves and pay attention to ourselves, so that we can not be easily bullied by others.
After all, people have to be social, and they can't escape socialization, but when we get along with others, we will inevitably have conflicts with others.
To be a man, your kindness must also be sharp, so that you will not be taken advantage of.
So, no matter who you get along with, remember these three sentences, and no one will dare to pinch you.
1. If people don't offend me, I won't offend anyone.
No matter who you get along with, when others have been challenging your bottom line, and even doing a lot of things to slander you, let you get into trouble, let you be misunderstood, let you suffer, and let you lose something, then you must also dare to stand up and defend yourself, don't always be tolerant, tolerance is also limited, only know how to show your edge, in order to let others know that you are not good to bully.
In "The Story of Cheng Huan", Mai Chenghuan was framed by a colleague, which led to problems with the project she presided over, and was even suspected and misunderstood.
Cheng Huan found the colleague who framed her, so she couldn't bear it anymore, because her colleague had framed her many times, so this time, Cheng Huan didn't forgive her, but chose to do business and chose to call the police to defend herself, and finally her colleague was fired, and she also proved her innocence.
Therefore, when getting along with others, if others have been making trouble for you and framing you, then you don't have to be polite, but dare to stand up, show your hole cards, and protect your life.
2. Change yourself and remember that no one can control your life.
In this life, whether it is with your family or with whom, if they always impose their will on you, always ask you to satisfy them, and always let you live according to their ideas, then what is the meaning of your life?
People must know how to change themselves, improve their own cognition, and don't let others easily control your life.
Remember what Mr. Yang Jiang said, life is your own and has nothing to do with others.
Although we go our own way and live the life we want, don't always care about what others think of you, let alone live according to others' evaluations, but develop ourselves well, improve our understanding of the world, and make ourselves excellent.
When you're good enough, you'll meet great people.
3. Strengthen yourself and let yourself have a way out.
No matter who we get along with, we should not think of relying on the strength of others to make ourselves safe, and we should not always rely on others, but learn to rely on ourselves.
In this life, only those who know how to rely on themselves can find more ways out and make themselves stronger.
Life is not just a way to go, when we have no way back, we have to break a way out by ourselves, in this life, we should not easily offend others, do not easily accept the kindness of others, everything must be measured, leave room for it, so as to maintain their own character, let themselves get better things.
Life can't always be smooth, we must always persevere, the more frustrated the more courageous, only by strengthening ourselves, others will not think that you are a good bully, nor will they pinch you, but look at you with admiration, and dare not provoke you.
People live for a lifetime, do not resent, do not fight, no matter when, do not forget to improve themselves, make themselves stronger, become their own backers, there will always be a way out.
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