As an important figure in modern Chinese literature, Yu Dafu is not only known for his outstanding literary talent, but also for his love life. And Wang Yingxia, the beauty of Hangzhou, attracted Yu Dafu's attention with her beauty and talent, and a remarkable love story unfolded between the two.
Their encounter seemed to be arranged by fate. When Yu Dafu visited a friend by chance, he met the young and beautiful Wang Yingxia for the first time. Wang Yingxia's beauty and temperament made Yu Dafu's heart move, and he seemed to see the ideal partner in his heart. And Wang Yingxia is also full of good feelings for Yu Dafu, she has already read Yu Dafu's works and deeply admires his talent. When the two first met, they seemed to have a heart, and the attraction to each other was irresistible.
However, fate does not seem to be lenient on them. Although the two are in love, Yu Dafu already has a wife, and Wang Yingxia is also engaged to someone. However, the power of love makes them irresistible. Yu Dafu began to write letters to Wang Yingxia frantically, pouring out his thoughts. And Wang Yingxia also pushed down the marriage contract for Yu Dafu, and the two began to exchange letters.
Wang Yingxia is a smart woman, she wants more than just a correspondence, she longs to spend her life with Yu Dafu. She hopes that Yu Dafu can divorce, marry herself, and give herself a name. However, Yu Dafu was caught in a tangle. He didn't want to divorce his wife, but he also wanted to be with Wang Yingxia, which made Wang Yingxia feel very sad. Her family is also against her being with Yu Dafu, believing that she should find an honest and reliable person to marry instead of tangling with a married man.
However, the power of love is immense. Despite the difficulties, Yu Dafu and Wang Yingxia still insisted on being together. In the end, they overcame all obstacles and held their wedding in Hangzhou. Although Yu Dafu did not officially divorce his wife, the two have separated, and Wang Yingxia finally became Yu Dafu's wife.
Life after marriage was sweet at first. Yu Dafu praised Wang Yingxia in his literary works, calling her the flame of his love and letting him see the dawn of love. Wang Yingxia also fully supported Yu Dafu's creative career and assisted him in completing many excellent literary works. The two supported each other and spent many wonderful times together.
However, as time goes by, love gradually reverts to a dull life. The contradictions between the two also began to appear. Yu Dafu loves Wang Yingxia deeply, but he can't understand her inner needs. Wang Yingxia longs for a stable family, but Yu Dafu's character can't give her such a life. The differences in the personalities of the two gradually increased, and the contradictions became deeper and deeper.
Eventually, the marriage came to an end. Wang Yingxia chose to divorce Yu Dafu, and she ended this twisty relationship physically and mentally exhausted. In her later years, she expressed her dissatisfaction with Yu Dafu in an article titled "Yu Dafu and My Marriage Change". She thinks that Yu Dafu can only be her friend, not her husband. The two had incompatible personalities, which eventually led to the breakdown of their marriage.
From the failure of Yu Dafu and Wang Yingxia's marriage, we can learn profound lessons. In marriage, love alone is not enough. Men need to understand their wife's inner needs and learn to listen and understand her voice. Only in this way can a strong and happy marriage be established. Although the story of Yu Dafu and Wang Yingxia ended in tragedy, it has become an important reference for us to think about marriage and love.