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Getting along with others begins with appearance and loyalty to character.
No one likes others to be treacherous to themselves, they don't like others to be double-faced, and they don't like people who have worked hard to train to stab themselves in the back when they are about to change jobs.
At the beginning, when I was watching the Three Kingdoms, I liked the character of Lu Bu very much, and I always felt that his martial arts were world-famous, with a halberd in his hand, a red rabbit horse when he sat down, and a tall person, he was a hero in everyone's mind.
However, the more I saw the end, the more I felt that such a tall and powerful person, he should not be a hero in our minds, how could a person who is particularly prone to apostasy be a hero.
"Lu Bu among people, red rabbit among horses", this is the world's praise for Lu Bu.
He once galloped on the battlefield and was known as the "First Fierce General of the Three Kingdoms", but he fell step by step in the torrent of history, and finally died in Baimenlou.
Many people feel sorry for Lu Bu, saying that why did a generation of warriors come to this?
In fact, Lu Bu's ending has long been written in his experience.
In fact, the road to death has been paved at the beginning, and Lu Bu's death is the bitter fruit of his own hands.
02
Sima Qian said:
"The world is bustling, all for profit, the world is bustling, all for profit. ”
For the sake of selfish interests, it is sometimes understandable to do something out of the ordinary, but in the face of righteousness, it may not be able to withstand such a mistake.
Confucius said:
"Unrighteous wealth and nobility are like clouds to me. ”
The real hero should be such a kind, the rich and noble cannot be lewd, the mighty cannot be bent, and the poor and lowly cannot be moved.
The reason why future generations prefer characters like Guan Yu is that he is loyal to Liu Bei, hanging the seal and sealing the marquis, passing five levels and killing six generals, and riding alone for thousands of miles, still returning to Liu Bei's side.
For any boss, who doesn't like such a character, even if he can't create much value for himself, he is loyal to himself and does not poke the knife secretly, this is the instinct of human nature.
Every time I saw Meng Zhang Fei getting drunk and scolding Lu Bu, there was such a sentence of "three family slaves", which laid the groundwork for Lu Bu's fate.
Sometimes he can't make a mistake, let alone many times, he was first tempted by Dong Zhuo to use a good horse and a high-ranking official Houlu to kill his father-in-law Ding Yuan.
Later, he was bewitched by Wang Yun with a "beauty trick" and killed his second father-in-law, Dong Zhuo.
As a "godson", he personally stabbed two fathers-in-law, which is an explosive existence in any era.
As a result, everyone in "Three Kingdoms" knows that when Lu Bu's father-in-law is a high-risk occupation, he will give you a knife one day.
Lu Bu, who is a slave with the third surname, seems to have already become a lost dog, and no one of the princes is willing to take such a risk, leaving Lu Bu by his side is a hidden danger at any time, you don't know when he will suddenly stab you in the back because of what kind of interests.
03
After learning a little bit of management knowledge, I began to get in touch with a little understanding of talents, and suddenly I was enlightened and enlightened.
I began to suddenly understand the cause of Lu Bu's death.
For any big boss, employing people is such an important knowledge, you see that Xiang Yu, the overlord of Chu, is not a master who can use people, even if there is a character like Han Xin under his command, he is stunned to give up such a talent to his enemy's side, and the ending of a Wujiang self-killing is also doomed.
Invisibly, I will also be particularly moved and appreciate Liu Bei's philosophy of looking at the thatched house for a moment, cherishing talents and valuing talents, so there is Liu Bei's three-point world.
For employees, we often divide him into several kinds, first-class people, must be the kind of talented and virtuous people, Zhuge Liang is one, and Sima Yi even if he becomes the final winner in life, but he does not belong to this kind.
And the second level is precisely a virtuous and talentless person, even if he may be a little mediocre, but his initiative in destroying you is limited, and such people often occupy the majority in life.
The third level of people is a talented and unvirtuous person, in addition to you have enough skills to control people, to be able to better control this type, generally prefer not to make a choice, compared to the second type of people, even if they are a little mediocre, but the destructive power may not go anywhere, but for talented and unvirtuous people, there is no bottom line, mercenary, and anything can be done.
When we go to classify, which kind of person Lu Bu belongs to, we already have our own answer, such a person, which boss dares to use it, it is risking his life, Boss Cao is destined to be a sober person, cut through the mess quickly, and kill Lu Bu so as not to repeat the mistakes of the past.
04
Wanting to take refuge in Yuan Shu, Yuan Shu expelled him on the grounds that he was capricious and untrustworthy.
Showing favor to Cao Cao at the White Gate Tower, Cao Cao listened to Liu Bei's words and recalled his "father-killing" past, and resolutely put him to death.
A generation of heroes, in the end, ended in tragedy.
Confucius said:
"I have seen it and I know it. ”
That is to say, when we see others making mistakes in life, you should not just be a pure melon eater, but find life experience that you can learn from and use it as a guide for your future life, so that you can better manage your own life.
People get along with each other, no one will like a capricious person, Lu Bu's style of acting and the way of thinking about life have a huge rift, so he also buried his fate and future, even in history, it is often not welcomed by future readers.
In the short term, Lu Bu was reused after every betrayal, but the ungrateful were eventually spurned by the world.
On the road of life, every bullet you shoot will eventually hit your eyebrows.
Every step of the road of life is counted, planting melons and planting beans and beans, there is no way but people call themselves, I began to understand, the road knows the horsepower, and the people will see the hearts of the people over time, no matter what kind of relationship, in the end it is all about character and responsibility.
05
For the sake of immediate interests, facing the sword with a benevolent person will only gain small profits and lose people's hearts.
Only with affection and righteousness can we stand in heaven and earth and win the trust of others.
Always remember the kindness of others, and others will remember your kindness.
No one wants to deal with a character who often brings them infinite risks for a long time, just like who chose Lu Bu by their side, why not carry a time bomb by their side, when to do a little treacherous thing to blow you up without knowing it.
Like a person, it starts with appearance, falls into talent, is loyal to character, obsessed with the body, obsessed with sound, and drunk with affection.
Getting along without a moral bottom line is doomed to an endless disaster.
Sometimes it is said that I would rather offend a gentleman than a villain, the gentleman is righteous, and the villain is profitable.
When you are surrounded by someone who may be double-faced at any time, what kind of life risk will it be.
As the saying goes, reading history can make one wise, and it is true at all.
Sharpening the knife Huo Huo to the pig and sheep, I began to know that the knife that killed me was being sharpened by Lu Bu for himself bit by bit.
After reading "Romance of the Three Kingdoms", I had an epiphany that Lu Bu was killed by "himself".
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