In 1993, Pang Xiuyu, a 14-year-old genius girl with a smile on her face, was awarded the honor of "National Top Ten Teenagers".
At the time, her name was the darling of the media with hopes and dreams, and Mr. Barkin's encouragement gave her confidence.
However, she never foresaw that a few years later, she would drop out of school and become a mother of three children, but she would not be married.
This twist, like the plot of a novel, makes people wonder: is she writing her own life, or is she just weaving the plot of the novel?
In 1979, Pang Xiuyu was born in an ordinary working family in Tianjian, her father was a hard-working and capable worker, and her mother was a full-time housewife.
When Pang's father was young, he had a great ambition to become a leader in the literary world, he was familiar with all kinds of books, but his luck was not good, his wish was disappointed, and he was defeated by reality after all.
The arrival of Pang Xiuyu allowed his father, who lost in the literary world, to find an opportunity to turn the tables against the wind.
He set up a Zhou Xiang plan for his daughter, hoping that his daughter could replace him to complete his dream of becoming famous in the literary world, and strive to make his daughter a genius literary girl.
He bought a lot of children's books for Pang Xiuyu, and in a few years, he spent a lot of money to find more than 10,000 books. When other children didn't know anything and only knew that they were running after their parents, Pang Xiuyu had already begun to learn.
Since she went to elementary school, this requirement has become even stricter. She had to memorize an ancient poem every morning and write an essay after school.
Even the plan her father had arranged for her was planned to the minute, and if she couldn't complete the plan, he would beat and scold her. Every evening, she has to read extracurricular books for another hour and make detailed reading notes. If you can't finish it, you can't eat.
In Pang Xiuyu's impression, her father is like an ancient private school teacher, always with sharp eyes, cold rulers and loud reprimands.
Over time, Pang Xiuyu began to stop asking for her father's love, and began to meet all her father's strict requirements like a robot.
After a long time, she no longer asked her parents to take her to the playground, but went back and forth between school and home every day, and when she came home, she was bored studying, obedient and withdrawn.
Young Pang Xiuyu basically didn't sleep before 12 o'clock.
After several years of high-pressure training, Pang Xiuyu finally began to make a name for herself in the literary world and became an unattainable star among her peers.
After entering elementary school, Pang Xiuyu's composition has become a standard composition that is often read in the same grade.
At the suggestion of the teacher, Pang Xiuyu began to pay attention to the National Juvenile Essay Contest held by major magazines, and she successively won the championship and runner-up in the "National Primary School Literature Club Essay Competition" and "National Primary and Secondary School Composition and Poetry Grand Prix".
Everything she did was to make her father satisfied, and the medal that Pang Xiuyu took home did not belong to her.
After winning two consecutive national awards, Pang Xiuyu's name spread among students of all sizes across the country, and almost all of her students in the same class have referred to her compositions.
During her elementary school years, she published more than 40,000 words in total.
From 1991 to 1994, she participated in many provincial, municipal and even national essay competitions, won many awards, and became the object of media attention for "genius girl". Her fame even predates that of famous writers Jiang Fangzhou and Guo Jingming.
During the same period, she also published a collection of poems, Hope, and often participated in book signings in major bookstores.
Once, when she signed a large number of books, she came home with swollen hands that made it difficult for her to even move.
In addition, in 1993, she was awarded the Soong Ching Ling Foundation Scholarship, becoming one of the first students to receive the scholarship. I was also invited to Japan for an exclusive interview.
In the same year, Mr. Ba Jin wrote back to Pang Xiuyu with the affectionate name "Xiuyu Little Friend" and sincerely hoped that she would "continue to work hard in her studies".
CCTV made a big report on her, praising her as a "genius girl".
Her future was once thought to be limitless. Her father, Pang Yi, has great expectations for her and regards her as the future of the family.
Pang Xiuyu, who tasted the sweetness of "fame" for the first time, soon realized the pain of fame.
The junior high school where she was located was a famous local school, and it was because of her fame that she was admitted to become a member of it, and all her classmates around her were top students.
Various media interviews, various invited speeches, etc., all occupied a lot of Pang Xiuyu's study time, and her exam scores naturally plummeted.
Soon, because of her bias, other classmates felt that she was not a genius girl as the media said, she was just a poor student who could never pass mathematics.
Pang Xiuyu, who was in school, began to have low self-esteem and began to show signs of boredom with school, and the media who pursued her at that time also began to ignore her because of the retreat of popularity.
Seeing that his daughter's genius personality is about to collapse, Pang's father's temper is getting more and more irritable, no matter day or night, if his daughter does not do well at all, he will be beaten and scolded, and even his attitude towards her mother will become more and more tyrannical.
The rift between the parents is getting bigger and bigger, and the family war is going on every day, and Pang Xiuyu is even more unwilling to study. After repeating the third year of junior high school, my grades still did not improve.
In 1998, there was another fierce quarrel in the Pang family, and Pang Xiuyu and her mother ran out of the house as if they were fleeing, and never returned.
A month later, Pang Xiuyu's parents divorced, and she and her mother lived on the 40,000 yuan of property they received.
Under the pressure of studying and family changes, Pang Xiuyu dropped out of school.
And this year, Pang's mother was also diagnosed with diabetes.
At this time, the aura on Pang Xiuyu's body has long faded, she is just a poor girl who has not graduated from junior high school, her parents are divorced, and her mother is sick.
At the beginning, the first thing she thought of was the position of a clerk in an office building, but because she did not graduate from junior high school, although she had the title of a previous genius, no unit dared to ask for her.
After hitting a wall many times, he finally worked as a waiter in a restaurant with a monthly salary of 500 yuan. Although the salary is low, at least he can pay himself a monthly salary, and Pang Xiuyu plans to do it first.
The mother is a typical housewife, with no education and no work experience, and after divorcing her husband, she lives on a meager monthly pension from her husband. Now I live with my daughter and rely on my daughter for everything.
I didn't know what it was like to be young and sad, Pang Xiuyu didn't have a sense of crisis in life at that time, she simply thought that as long as she married a good family, she could live a stable life.
It was during that time that she met a man who cared for her, often bought her gifts, and even took her out to dinner when she was off work.
This gentleness made Pang Xiuyu, who had been under her father's high-pressure education, feel warm, she thought she had met love, and threw herself into the arms of the other party regardless of everything.
The other party rented her a house, Pang Xiuyu didn't need to work, she could get a fixed living allowance every month, she felt free and satisfied.
On December 13, 1999, Pang Xiuyu's first child was born, at first the child did cherish the man's heart, Pang Xiuyu, who was not in good health after giving birth, was taken care of by the man in every way, looking at the attitude of the man in front of her, Pang Xiuyu was convinced that her vision was correct, even if the two were not married, she was very satisfied.
However, the good times did not last long, Pang Xiuyu was found to be pregnant again, and the man at this time began to gradually expose his true heart, and he went to the hospital to visit Pang Xiuyu less and less, but fortunately, the man at this time still had the slightest conscience, and he would pay Pang Xiuyu living expenses every month.
On November 18, 2000, she gave birth to twin daughters, and in just 11 months, she became the mother of three children in succession, when she was only 21 years old, but it seemed that she had finished her life.
Pang Xiuyu no longer has the energy to entangle with that man, she just wants to get her life on track as soon as possible, but at this time, this man has not shown up for 3 months, and he has not sent any more child support.
In desperation, Pang Xiuyu had to file a lawsuit with the court in the spring of 2001, but in the end only sentenced the man to pay 1,200 yuan per month in child support.
Pang Xiuyu, who had nothing, had no choice but to sell her only property - the house her mother got through divorce in order to support her three children.
In this way, at the age of 26, the once smash hit genius girl became an unmarried mother who was poor, had no fixed place to live, and dragged three babies.
Desperate, she decided to turn to the newspaper for help.
But her appeal is not to find a job, nor to solve the problem of children's housing and schooling, but to put hope once again on a man who can support her.
After the letter was released, a southerner in his fifties found Pang Xiuyu.
For the next five years, this person took care of the daily expenses of the Pang family, while Pang Xiuyu served him like a nanny.
But every time they talk about getting married, the two will get into a quarrel because of the three children, and in the end the marriage can only be stopped.
In 2011, Pang Xiuyu reappeared in the public eye, posting a post on her website titled: "China's "famous" unwed mother Pang Xiuyu founded the Green Boat Organization.
She wrote in the article that she will set up a public welfare organization called Luzhou to help unmarried mothers who have the same experience as her.
This idea sounds good, and many people are looking forward to her gorgeous transformation into a professional woman who campaigns for public welfare.
But it's a pity that the rest will be gone, and there will be no follow-up.
Maybe it's because my own life is difficult, where can I think about helping others?
After this post, she fell silent again and disappeared into the vast sea of people.
Who is the culprit who made Pang Xiuyu fall from "genius girl" to "hell"?
It should be mainly the lack of love: children who lack love in their hearts are easily deceived by rhetoric. May you who are reading this article have a lot of love, and I hope that parents will give their children enough love!