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If you feel that life is too hard, there are too many unsatisfactory places in life, or you are on the verge of collapse, and you feel that you can't live anymore, then I suggest you go to the hospital to have a look, where there will be a lot of joys and sorrows happening every day, when you see those heartbreaking but particularly helpless things, you will have a new understanding of life, and you will feel that "except for life and death, everything else is a trivial matter", which is simply a wise saying.
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Xiao Lin is a nurse, and many years ago, when she was interning in the oncology department, a male patient made such a deep impression on her that she still feels uncomfortable when she thinks about it after many years. The male patient is a teacher, so I'll call him Mr. Liu here, Mr. Liu was already stage 4 lymphoma when he was treated in the hospital, and his health was getting worse and worse. It is a pity that Mr. Liu is only in his 20s, and his daughter-in-law is about to give birth in a month.
The patients and their families who live on the same floor as Mr. Liu silently pray for him in their hearts, hoping that God will open up the net so that Mr. Liu can meet the children in his lifetime and not leave with regrets. But on the day of Mr. Liu's daughter-in-law's delivery, his condition suddenly deteriorated, and he couldn't do it, and when the medical staff of the oncology department were doing their best to save Mr. Liu, his daughter-in-law was giving birth in the obstetrics and gynecology department.
Who would have thought that fate was so cruel, Mr. Liu persisted for so long, and finally couldn't wait for the moment when the child came, not long after he closed his eyes forever with endless regrets, the child he had always wanted to see but finally failed to see, finally came to this world crying. Xiao Lin said that she can't forget what happened to Teacher Liu in her life, it's too heartbreaking, the father is gone, the child is here, at that moment, Xiao Lin would rather believe in the cycle of life, Teacher Liu has not passed away, he just changed his identity and came to accompany the person he loves the most!
In the emergency room of the obstetrics and gynecology department of a tertiary hospital, the fetal heart rate dropped sharply, and the mother had to immediately carry out cesarean section. Can you imagine that scene? That kind of pain is not unbearable for anyone, thinking about it will make people can't help but chill down the spine, cold sweat straight out, this is the greatness of maternal love, it is really not easy to be a mother, it is already very uncomfortable to conceive in October, and to suffer such a big sin when giving birth to a child, so anyone should be grateful to their mother, what our mother has given us, we can't repay one ten-thousandth in our lives.
10 years ago, Xiao Xin worked in a private hospital, once an unmarried girl came to the hospital to induce labor, the girl was more than 6 months pregnant, the doctor who induced labor for her was afraid that the child's head would be big and hurt the perineum. Later, the child came out, I don't know why he didn't die at that time, he was still angry, humming, and another doctor used gauze to make the child out of breath. The doctor scolded and said while doing it, as a doctor, she really shouldn't have done these inhuman things, doctors should have saved lives, how could they do such inhuman things?
The daughter of a colleague of mine works as a nurse in a tertiary hospital, and she is used to seeing the warmth and coldness of human nature outside the hospital ward. But one day, when my colleague's daughter was outside the door of the intensive care unit, I saw a little girl who looked like she was only in her teens kneeling down to her father, holding her father's trouser leg, crying and saying: You go and borrow money to save your mother, please, no matter how much money it is, I will pay you back when I grow up and earn money, please! The father kept bowing his head and kept silent, letting his daughter hold his trouser leg and beg bitterly, maybe he had done his best, maybe he really couldn't raise the money for his wife's treatment, maybe ......
A colleague's daughter said that when she saw that scene, she still couldn't stop crying, the scene was so heartbreaking, and she only hated herself for not having money and power, and she couldn't save the little girl's mother from fire and water.
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Last week, I went to the hospital for a follow-up, and met an old man who looked almost 80 years old in the elevator, trembling and holding a bunch of lists, and asked me: "Young man, do you know how much chemotherapy costs for a month?" I shook my head and told the uncle, I don't know how much it costs, you should go to the payment window and ask the staff!
After a while, after the elevator door opened, I walked out of the elevator, and the uncle had to continue to walk up, and the moment the elevator door closed, I suddenly felt that the old man was so pitiful. I don't know if the old man is treating himself or his family, it is not easy for such an old man, no one to accompany him, and it is not easy to run around with a bunch of lists in his hand, since he asked about the cost of chemotherapy, then the patient's condition is definitely not light. If the patient is the old man himself, it will be too uncomfortable, with such a serious disease, there is not even a person to accompany him, he needs to pay for chemotherapy, and he has to run up and down in person. In these years, patients go to the hospital to see a doctor, they have to sign in first when they see a doctor, and they have to scan the code when they get the report by themselves.
If the old man is treating his wife, then what about his children? Why don't the old people show up when they are seriously ill and need their children by their side? The patient has to do chemotherapy, not an ordinary cold and flu, and no matter how busy he is at work, he can't let such an old man run up and down the hospital by himself to solve these difficult problems? No matter which aspect, it doesn't make sense? Unless the old man has no children, maybe the children have gone before the old man, if this is the case, the old man will be even more sympathetic.
If the old man is a caretaker, and it is his children who are really sick, it will be even more heartbreaking, and the old man who is almost 80 years old, at an age when he needs to be taken care of by his children, has his children have a disease that requires chemotherapy, and he has to turn around to take care of his children, which is too cruel, right? Why did God let the old man who should have enjoyed his old age go through such suffering? While giving him a long life, he also gave him unbearable suffering.
Three years ago, when I went to visit a patient in the oncology department of the people's hospital in the city, I happened to meet the doctor on a ward round, and a young patient with esophageal cancer in the ward was said to be very serious and had multiple metastases, but the young man himself did not know how serious his condition was. During the doctor's rounds that day, the young man asked the attending doctor of the ward rounds with a dull look: Can I still see the sun tomorrow?
The doctors in the oncology department often have to face patients with advanced cancer, and they often encounter the question of how long they can live from seriously ill patients, and they will play Tai Chi to easily resolve it, but that day the attending doctor still seemed a little unprepared in the face of this young patient's question, and after a few seconds of speech, he snorted and prevaricated the young man. In fact, at that moment, the patient had already realized that there was something wrong with his body, and the doctor certainly knew better what kind of outcome the young man would have in the future, and the main reason why it was difficult to answer was that the patient was too young! If you want to complain, you can only complain about this damn malignant tumor, why do you want to haunt such a young man? I don't know if the young man is married and has children, if he already has a wife and children, after he leaves, how painful his wife and children will be! Even if the young man is still married and has children, but for his parents, the pain of the white-haired person sending the black-haired person, and the middle-aged loss of a child is tantamount to the collapse of the sky above his head, and how to spend the long night for the rest of his life?
Finally, there is a particularly unsettling thing, outside the obstetrics and gynecology operating room, the parents of both men and women are happily talking about whether the little life that is about to be born is male or female, and the father-to-be is also looking forward to it, ready to welcome the arrival of a new life at any time. In the operating room, the mother had an amniotic fluid embolism, and the newborn had an infection in the lungs, and the situation was extremely critical. The parents of both sides couldn't accept this fact, and they all sat on the ground, crying, the scene was really impossible to look at, and even hard-hearted people would cry tears of sympathy when they saw it.
Obviously, on the first night of the operation, the nurse had only eaten the candy sent by the child's father in advance when she was on night duty, and when the nurse inspected the mother on the night shift, her indicators were also normal and everything was fine. This little couple are very good personalities, very kind people, the little couple is sweet and loving, the parents of both sides seem to get along very well, they seem to be very educated, the little couple are the only children in the family, I didn't expect fate to do this to such a happy family, directly let the mother and son both die, God, what are you going to do? What you have to do is too speechless!
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Even though I heard about it from someone else, and even though it's been many years since I think about it, I feel uneasy. It is said that life is not as good as expected, perfect life does not exist, imperfection is the true meaning of life, but some pain, some ups and downs are really too unacceptable, who said that fate is in our own hands? I really can't answer, only when tomorrow really comes, and you really see the sun tomorrow, can the answer be truly revealed.
Therefore, what each of us can do is not to compete with fate, accept the reality calmly, live the present, live well in the moment, and strive to make the life of our family members better while living well, there is only so much we can really do, isn't it?
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