''Many children's early love is not love at all, it is just adolescence, a lonely child, looking for a tree hole, wanting to find a place to talk, or asking for comfort online!''
The person who told me this is a tall and strong Internet celebrity young man, I used to call him lazy meat, but now? Well, the word lazy should be removed, or call him meat, this is his nickname.
Why do you want to get rid of lazy words?
It's because lazy meat didn't go to work before, and stayed from house to house all day to gnaw on the old. Actually, it's just appearances. Oops, let's look down on other people's children. Lazy Meat went to work outside for a while after graduating from college, but he felt that his grinding and chirping, slow and leisurely personality was not suitable for the workplace, so he withdrew!
After withdrawing it, this meat is not going to gnaw on the old bastard and lie down. It turns out that he is not such a baby. He's going to turn the track and find a different way. Lazy Meat used to have a stunt, that is, to play games, and it is said that he has also participated in e-sports competitions and won rankings!
So, Rou wants to make money online with this ability, and he plans to do game playing, game development evaluation, and game peripherals.
Oops, anyway, in that field, I don't know anything about an aunt, but the transformation of lazy meat is very successful, and now he has signed a studio, what is the studio, we don't know much, anyway, I know that it is a unit to give five insurances and one housing fund!
Aunts like us, when I heard that there is a unit that can get money from the class to the point, and there is a guarantee to earn wages, oops, for many parents in Tianjin, we are Amitabha Buddha at the moment.
I heard that lazy meat is doing well in his industry, but this baby is a loose person in Longzhong, and he doesn't plan to go out to settle down in the world, but plans to enjoy life from house to house.
Not to mention people with this kind of spirit, they are often very popular in the tide of the Internet.
So, listening to Lazy Meat, he now has a lot of fans, including twenty or thirty female iron fans, and he is very cautious about Lazy Meat.
Meat said he was to be strict with himself.
When you communicate with female fans on weekdays, you have to output positive energy! Those are all little girls who are still in school. Lazy meat, as a big brother to give them Amway:
Usually you have to combine work and rest, you can't always play games, and you have to go to bed early. Girls' health should start from junior high school!
You can't be greedy for cold during your menstrual period, don't you feel like it now?
Don't keep wearing a suspender, this dress is equivalent to a girl who can be put in the eyes of boys. No one thinks you're unconventional, and boys think you're easy to cheat, so your chances of encountering a scumbag will be greatly improved!
Good fellow, I am a life instructor who has done this ideological and political work very well, and I greatly admire this.
But when the lazy meat heard this, he grinned disdainfully, and he said to me:
Auntie, these are little girls, oops, in my eyes they are all half-grown children, I treat them as sisters, I always wanted to have a little sister, but unfortunately not!
I have a bottom line in life, I don't cheat people out of money, some give me a gift, brush the carnival, I advise her to stop in moderation, well, don't spend all your pocket money on me.
Parents give you money to buy some snacks or pencils and stationery, not to ask you to brush gifts for people everywhere, and if you let your parents know about this, they will be angry.
I asked Lazy Meat why there is still such a thing as brushing gifts, and Lazy Meat said that now I am promoting it on multiple platforms. In a certain sound, a certain book, a certain station, there are my footprints. Heck, it's a strategy of our company, and I tell you that you don't understand it.
If it's warm today, spring is also blooming, and the lazy meat who loves to enjoy life, relying on their family to live on the first floor, began to put up his barbecue stall that is not open for business, only for his own enjoyment, by the small flower pond at the door.
On the one hand, the meat is holding a lamb skewer made of iron bars, and the small kidneys are carefully roasted there, while a large bottle of beer is put on it, plus the flower hair that Tianjin people love, and sometimes even a casserole, which is made for him by his grandmother, and handed it out by the window. It's hot and fragrant. Oops, the meaty barbecue party has started again...
The smell went straight upstairs, causing several big brothers to come down and chat with Lazy Meat, and when I walked past them, Lazy Meat stopped me, so I joined their barbecue party!
Lazy friends are all over the world, with different sizes, including 50-year-olds like me and middle-aged people in their 40s.
Eh, to say that this kid is really a bit extraordinary. He's an old man.
What is called out of the nest old, that is, some children are born dignified and steady, like little adults!
Anyway, I remember that the 100-year-old photo of lazy meat is different, this little baby who was just born for a month has a lot of hair, sit there, hey two hands next to him,
The crib was stunned, making him feel like a master chair. Just 100 days of little meat, the smile on his face is particularly kind, lazy meat can take that kind of 100-day baby photo, illuminating the feeling of a 100-year-old birthday banquet, anyway, this baby is old!
For babies who are born old, young people like us, and even middle-aged people, we have to humbly ask for advice.
So a father in his 40s asked lazy meat very seriously:
You said that many children are in early love now, what is going on? Is it because you eat too many hormones, or is it because you drink too much milk?
In this regard, Lazy Meat does not agree at all. He hurriedly waved his hand and said:
It's not like that, now there are a lot of students who are in junior high school with little girls and boys, and they look at men and women falling in love together. In fact, many of them do not have feelings for the opposite sex, and they all want to fall in love. They don't think the same way as adults, in fact, many children are quite lonely nowadays!
Aloneness?
This aunt doesn't understand, there are not many children in anyone's family now, one is common. At the end of the two, parents are concerned about their children's education, in addition to left-behind children, ordinary urban babies should not be lonely, they are like a little sun, the family revolves around him, how can they still be lonely?
When the meat heard this, he lazily raised his unspirited eyelids, and looked at my aunt like an old fairy who had seen through the mortal dust, and then the lazy meat said:
Do you know what it means, loneliness in the hustle and bustle?
Emma, this is a whole philosophy, no. Auntie can't help but say hello. We don't understand! We know that when there is a hustle and bustle, we follow silly music. It's like entering the opera garden and listening to Guo Degang's cross talk, why is there loneliness in the hustle and bustle? So I decided to humbly ask for advice, and lazy meat is also willing to teach earnestly.
The next things were told to me by lazy meat, and I was shocked when I heard it!
Speaking of lazy meat, they don't only have his piece of meat in their unit, in fact, I heard that there are fifty or sixty pieces of meat like him. The boss of the company put them all on the board, each packaged, everyone cooed, and then pushed them to the platform to attract fans.
I heard that there was a piece of his kind that had a disaster last year, which made people come to the door, and it is said that it also alarmed the police, what is the trouble?
It turned out that it was a female blogger.
Hey, we don't know if they should be called bloggers in this business, anyway, let's call it that first. She also did game boosting and game tutoring for others on the Internet, and slowly got in touch with a little girl who was addicted to games.
The little girl has just entered junior high school, the third year of junior high school. She spends a lot of time playing games, and her homework is probably not bad. But in addition, the little girl often contacts this female blogger on the Internet. At the beginning, I also gave some tips, but not much, but from the words of the little girl, the female blogger captured the child's financial ability is good!
So this female blogger moved her mind, she replaced her avatar with one, a character in martial arts fantasy, anyway, it is the image of a handsome and elegant young man, and then chatted with this little girl as a big brother, this chat is not good, it didn't take long for the little girl to become addicted, and she sank into her online relationship with her big brother.
In fact, what many online datings pursue is that kind of illusory feeling, what does it feel?
It is that I exist in this world and can be perceived by the outside world.
If this is used in the field of biology, it makes sense. Because biologists have studied, even a mushroom, a lowliest animal, right. Mushrooms should be considered animals. It also emits some radio waves to communicate with the outside world, and it also hopes to have some communication with other mushrooms.
Who made it a mushroom? Who made it not wheat?
That's the difference between a plant and an animal. Even if it is the lowest and lowest animal, it wants to fit into a group, and it also wants to be discovered, perceived, and even valued by others, which is an instinct of all animals.
But there are many children who have to fight against this instinct from an early age. The reason for this is very simple, because no one really wants to contact them, no one responds to their emotional appeals, and the children are lonely!
And these lonely children are not necessarily the kind of left-behind children, maybe their parents are by their side, but what to say?
The child is a mushroom, and the parents are a squirrel, and no one touches anyone. The squirrel squeaks at the mushroom, and what about the mushroom? The squirrel doesn't receive the radio waves it emits, and the squirrel doesn't receive it, oops, the two creatures are the same as the duck.
Take this little girl, for example.
Her parents only had requirements for her studies and threw a lot of money at her to buy various classes. She was sent to various cram schools, but the girl was very resistant to studying, because she felt that her parents didn't care about her at all, and just used her as a machine to brush questions.
If she doesn't do well in school, then her parents will yell at her, and if she improves a little, her parents will give her a brief compliment, but soon the standard line will be raised again!
The little girl actually has a lot of adolescent troubles and wants to communicate with her parents, she feels lonely in school, this school is a key school, and her parents spent sponsorship money to send her.
But the little girl is not good-looking, her grades are also below average, the teacher ignores her, and her classmates are also very ridiculed by her.
Once, she plucked up the courage to go to the class grass of their class, and it was said that he was a boy with good academic performance, and asked him about something.
It seems that she asked the teacher in class just now what exercises she would do after she went back, but she didn't hear clearly. But who knew that after listening to her question, that Ban Cao didn't react at all. Ban Cao looked ahead indifferently, and then opened his mouth to say:
You don't listen well in class yourself, and you come to me after class to ask me to answer your questions when you want to take advantage of other people's time, do you think you have this qualification?
Hahaha.
Many classmates next to him burst into a piercing laugh at this time, and some people in the crowd said that they didn't look at her appearance, so they went to Ban Cao's side, this is the little fairy now!
What a powerful psyche!
This incident had a great impact on this little girl, because in front of many people, she felt that she was too humble, too ridiculous!
She wanted to pick up the compass and prick it into her heart, notice that this was the little girl's exact words!
Children's minds are not yet sound, especially at the stage of junior high school, and some people are sensitive by nature. Hey, since this incident, this little girl has become very introverted and has a very low self-esteem. She felt that her classmates were laughing at her, laughing at her for licking the school grass and looking for it boring. Oh, there are even some foul language, this is actually a kind of school bullying, but after the little girl is bullied, she has nowhere to confide, she is very sad!
After that, the little girl took many extreme actions, pressing her hand on the burning candle, for which there were often burns on her hands, but the parents did not care too much, and the little girl even slashed her arm with a blade several times, but the parents did not notice.
The little girl was a lonely mushroom, where she cried out loudly with her own radio waves. But there was no response, just like that, fate would meet. Soon she met the female blogger on the Internet, but as for the female blogger, she is not a character like an enthusiastic big sister.
She was willing to interact with the little girl and comfort her, but the female blogger had other plans, she guided the little girl to give her gifts, and even later simply transferred money.
After developing to a certain extent, this female blogger actually asked the little girl to buy her a gift, a real gift, such as a very expensive sneaker, or a bag that can be used by both men and women, and the image of this female blogger on weekdays is also more boyish.
In this way, the little girl spent all her pocket money on her, and it is said that the money is as thick as hundreds of thousands.
Of course, the incident was discovered by the parents soon after, and they also reported it to the authorities.
It is said that someone uses online dating to scam money. And the female blogger was soon found as well. She also returned part of the money. Things seem to have been returned, but how did you solve them?
Lazy Meat said that the company, the female blogger and the little girl's parents agreed on several parties, and the police uncle was supervising on the side, and in the end the matter was resolved peacefully.
But the problem is that after this incident, the little girl became even more disheartened, and after a while, Lazy Meat heard that the girl had dropped out of school. She has depression and has been recuperating at home, and now I don't know what happened, the girl is offline, and she is not in this circle.
This lonely mushroom has lost contact with them ever since.
I was very embarrassed when I heard it.
Now think about it, the reason why some of our children have such serious psychological problems is because of academic pressure, and on the other hand, it is also due to the negligence or paranoia of their parents.
Children need friends, children need help, when they have all kinds of emotions in their chests, can parents calm down and listen to their children's thoughts and understand their children's voices.
You can't just let them appear in this world in the form of a lonely mushroom. After all, if a person encounters emotional problems, if this person can have someone to talk to, then his chances of suffering from depression will be greatly reduced!
I have been in contact with two people with depression before, one milder and the other more severe.
The heavy one, perennial drug control.
It was a man with a very wealthy family, and in the eyes of others, he enjoyed the best match in life.
But when you actually get in touch with him, you'll find that he's in a very difficult situation.
Although he comes from a wealthy family, his pressure is overlapping, like a hundred thousand mountains!
I remember one night he sat on the floor of the bathroom, leaning against the wall, and said to me sadly:
Mao Ning, why is this world always so dark?
It's like a black sea, the kind of black sea you've ever seen.
Indeed, I have seen it!
When I was diving in Thailand, I saw a good coral reef, and suddenly there was a black patch in front of my eyes. The black, which could not be seen anywhere, was as black as ink all around. I shuddered, but luckily the instructor pulled me over.
Later, I heard that the black place was the cliff at the bottom of the sea, and it was an abyss where no light could be seen!
Educate your children less, guide them more, listen more, respond more, and don't let your children live in a black sea!
