When a middle-aged couple divorces, who will be more "difficult" in their old age? This is indeed an observation in real life. Recently, I heard the shocking news that one of my most loving couples in college had actually divorced. This surprised me and made sense. Surprisingly, they were so sweet in college and almost a model couple in our eyes. They had almost no quarrels for four years, and after graduation, they naturally entered the marriage hall, and everyone thought they were a match made in heaven. However, they also divorced, which was really unexpected to me.
However, it makes sense because divorce is now quite common. In the past, we always felt that as long as it was not tolerable, we would not choose divorce. But now, it seems that everyone has some divorced friends around them. In the past, it was widely believed that life would be difficult after divorce and that options for remarriage would be limited. But now, more and more young people are accepting being single and thinking that it is not impossible to live alone.
So, who will be more struggling with middle-aged divorced couples in their later years? Actually, I don't think this issue has anything to do with gender. Although women in second marriage may face some difficulties when reorganizing their families, it does not mean that they will be stuck. As I said, as long as you are able to be self-sufficient and provide yourself with a stable livelihood, you can live well as a single person.
For couples who divorce in middle age, it is often the party who makes the mistake who is more likely to get into trouble in their later years. After entering a marriage, the failure to take due responsibility is the main reason for the failure of the marriage. Such people often find it difficult to recognize their problems in a failed marriage and correct their mistakes. They may continue to repeat these problems in their future lives, making it difficult for them to have a happy second marriage. In addition, since they are already entering middle age, it is likely that they already have children. The impact of divorce on the children is inevitable, and it will also cause them a certain amount of distress.