Is the child a poor man or a rich man's life? It is predestined from the moment it is born
For the vast majority of parents, they hope that their children will grow up to be the pillars of the country, but not all children can grow up according to their parents' expectations. As far as a child is concerned, whether he will be a poor man or a rich man in the future is basically doomed from the moment he is born; some people may say: What does the child know when he is still young? Although the child does not understand, the child's parents understand! The older generation often says: "A dragon gives birth to a dragon, a phoenix gives birth to a phoenix, and a son born to a mouse can make a hole." This sentence is not without a little truth.
The position of the parent's competence determines the future of the child.
Many parents blame their children for not being good enough, but they forget to reflect on themselves, is it because they do not provide their children with a big enough platform, so that their children's development is limited? If the parents themselves are very good, then the things that the children see and come into contact with from the moment they are born will naturally be a step higher than ordinary people, and how can the children who grow up in this environment not be excellent?
While this may sound a bit cruel, it is. If you don't believe me, we can observe the families and children around us. If the parents are in business, there is a 90% chance that the child will inherit the parent's property when they grow up. However, if the parents are in politics, the children will also work in enterprises and institutions like their parents when they grow up, and stand on the shoulders of their parents to climb up.
The main reason for this situation is that children will be imperceptibly influenced by their parents in the process of growth, and this influence comes from all aspects, and even many parents themselves are not aware of it. If the parents have both the ability and status, then their children will definitely not be ordinary in the future, even if they are poor, they can rely on their parents' connections to harvest what they want.
The way parents educate determines their children's future.
The way parents educate will also affect the future development of their children, the biggest difference between the poor and the rich is the logic of thinking, many poor people will be poor, not because they are not working hard enough, but because their thinking is not open. Always enclose yourself in a small space. But it's different for the rich, who know how to make money with their money and how to use others to make money for themselves.
When we compare the reality, we will find that many children are ordinary because their parents are too shallow and do not know how to plan for their children's future, nor do they know how to let their children avoid risks. In this case, the future path can only be found by the child himself, whether it is right or wrong, the child needs to bear the consequences. When the child finally found the right path, he found that he had wasted a lot of time and had already been thrown out by others.
But for those parents who are more aware, they deeply understand the importance of education for their children. When a child is still a young child, it paves the way for his future development. In the process of growth, every step of the way has a corresponding plan. With the guidance of parents, children can also take a lot of detours, and this kind of child will definitely have a good development in the future.
This article says that whether a child is a poor man's life or a rich man's life is doomed from the moment he is born, do you agree?