The father-in-law slapped his daughter-in-law nine times and threatened, "I'm going to beat you today", what is the deep hatred between them?
On April 18, a home surveillance video quietly appeared on the hot search, in which the father-in-law in blue slapped his daughter-in-law wildly, and the slapping and screams were intertwined, making the viewers shudder.
This incident quickly aroused public attention, what is the deep hatred between the two people, and they have to be so ruthless? And how will this matter be handled?
1. The father-in-law slapped his daughter-in-law nine times
In the video, the father-in-law in blue is in the center of the picture, holding the charging cable to charge the phone, and in the lower left corner of the picture, the daughter-in-law sitting in the children's fence holds the child and says, "Then I'll bring it myself, okay." ”
After hearing his daughter-in-law's words, the father-in-law was obviously emotional, and while pointing at the woman with his finger, he scolded loudly: "You bring it yourself, I don't worry about you!"
The two quarreled over the issue of bringing the baby, and the daughter-in-law, who was angry, replied directly: "I don't worry about you yet! I will bring my child myself!" But soon she will pay a painful price for her words.
When the father-in-law heard his daughter-in-law talking to himself like this, he rushed to her in three steps and two steps, and slapped the woman in the face, his voice was crisp and loud, obviously very hard. The woman was also stunned by this slap and cried, and the child in her arms was also frightened and cried.
But the father-in-law didn't stop there, but became more and more addicted, slapping you and gritting his teeth and saying: "I'm going to beat you today, what's wrong with beating you!" and even kept exploding foul language, which was simply unbearable.
The woman sat on the ground, still holding the child in her arms, and was powerless to resist at all, so she could only let her father-in-law slap her five or six times, even if she didn't dare to fight back, she could only whine and sob, even if the child kept crying, her father-in-law still didn't stop slapping her.
At this time, a boy in a school uniform appeared in the picture, which should be the eldest son of the woman, he went straight to his grandfather, wanting to stop this family dispute, but he only dared to gently grab his grandfather's hand and did not dare to be too tough.
The violence continued, but the woman couldn't bear it anymore, she confessed her mistake to her father-in-law, saying, "Dad, I was wrong, I'm sorry." But her show of weakness did not extinguish her father-in-law's anger, he continued to slap wildly, and while making a ruthless hand, he said: "You are wrong, you are wrong, it is too late for you to be wrong." ”
In this video, the woman was slapped by her father-in-law a total of 9 loud slaps, and domestic violence is the focus of public attention, not to mention that the identities of these two people are father-in-law and daughter-in-law, which has aroused heated discussions among the public.
Second, netizens in the comment area have fried the pot
What everyone talks about the most is that even if the old man in blue is a father-in-law and an elder, he is not qualified to slap his daughter-in-law 9 times in a row, this is not an impulse, but a blatant vicious domestic violence.
As an adult, if you have any grievances, you should be able to communicate and solve the problem in a proper way, rather than using violence as the only way to solve the problem, not to mention that two children are around, which will inevitably cause irreversible psychological damage to the child.
There are also netizens who are angry, thinking that the woman is too cowardly, and she doesn't dare to resist when she is bullied, and weakness will only make the other party more arrogant, if she herself was very strong from the beginning, things would not have developed to such a point.
But one thing to say, in the case of a huge gap in physical strength between men and women, the woman's admission of mistakes and weakness is also a method of self-protection.
Many netizens paid attention to the boy in the school uniform, but his attitude towards this matter was very intriguing. He didn't dare to be too tough to stop his grandfather from beating his mother, whether it was because he was afraid for a while, or because this kind of thing was too common in this family, he knew that he couldn't stop anything with his own strength.
Some netizens paid attention to the fact that the male owner of this family has been in a state of invisibility, as a husband, as a son, as a father, he is the core figure in dealing with family disputes, but he has not appeared from beginning to end, if he loves and respects his wife enough, will his father slap his daughter-in-law 9 times without scruples?
Compared with these indignant netizens, there are some people who are more rational, and they think that there may be a reversal behind this matter, because this video reveals strangeness everywhere.
Some netizens said that this video was edited before it was posted on the Internet, and a lot of content was missing in the middle, so that the facts seen by netizens were not comprehensive, and they could not be defined just by this short video of dozens of seconds.
Did the two really have such a fierce conflict over a simple issue of bringing a baby? Is there a deeper problem hidden in the deleted video content?
Some netizens put forward their own opinions, thinking that the woman was suspected of deliberately manipulating the matter, first secretly angering the other party, and then showing weakness, on the surface, the woman is the weak party, but maybe she is the real controller of this matter.
Some netizens also stood up to prove the authenticity of the matter and commented: This is an owner in my community, the father-in-law and son of this family have domestic violence, and the heroine is so pitiful.
And this comment is still questioned, just because the location of the incident is Shenzhen, and the IP address of the netizen who broke the news is Jiangxi, which makes many people wonder.
This matter continues to ferment under the enthusiastic discussion of the public, not only the people are concerned about this matter, but even the relevant departments are involved in the investigation, what is the latest progress of this matter?
Third, the relevant departments involved, the latest progress
On April 18, the sub-district office of the woman's place of residence issued an announcement to the whole network on the matter, disclosing the latest progress of the matter.
On the night of the incident, the police at the police station dealt with the matter in a timely manner, asking the father-in-law to leave, and the next day, the street office, the Women's Federation, and many other staff went to the woman's home to do a good job of follow-up assistance, and said that they would continue to follow up on the matter, and would provide legal advice and other services if necessary.
This is the latest development of the matter, although there are still some issues that have not been properly explained, but the matter has been closed for the time being. After this incident, we cannot know whether the woman will choose to divorce and start a new life, or whether she will continue to forbear, but we hope that she will have a good outcome.
The author thinks
It is inevitable that there will be all kinds of contradictions in the family, and there are great differences between the elderly and young people in terms of personal thoughts and living habits, especially in the matter of raising children, each has its own reason, and conflicts and quarrels will inevitably occur in life, but contradictions and conflicts are not an excuse to rationalize domestic violence, violence cannot solve the problem, but only intensifies the problem.
Even in a society governed by the rule of law, there are still many people caught in the whirlpool of domestic violence. So when you encounter domestic violence, will you hold it back, or will you fight back?
Resources
Beijing Youth Daily: April 18, 2024 "A woman was slapped 9 times with her father-in-law because of a quarrel with a baby"
Douyin account @elephantnews: April 18, 2024 "A woman in Shenzhen, Guangdong was slapped in the face because she had a quarrel with her father-in-law with her child, and the Women's Federation responded on April 18: I have seen it, and I will follow up the investigation and deal with it"