My name is Zhang Wei and I am an ordinary office worker. My wife Xiaoxue and I have been married for five years and we live an ordinary and happy life. My family background is also very ordinary, and my parents are ordinary workers, barely making ends meet. Although we are not rich, we can get by.
All along, I have been in charge of my family's finances. I feel that as the breadwinner of the family, I should take responsibility for the family's finances and manage my money well. Xiaoxue is responsible for taking care of the housework and taking care of the children, and we each perform our own duties and cooperate with each other.
However, recently Xiaoxue and I had a little conflict over a small matter. One day, I went home with a large sum of money and wanted to deposit it in the bank, but Xiaoxue said to me, "Give me this money, I'll take care of it." ”
I was a little surprised: "Why? I've been managing my family's finances, so why would you suddenly take over?"
Xiaoxue explained: "I think you are too tired, busy with work, and you have to be responsible for everything at home, and I want to share some of your pressure. ”
Listening to her words, I was a little moved, but a little hesitant: "But, you have no experience, can you handle it well?"
Xiaoxue smiled and said, "Don't worry, I will study hard, I believe I can do it." ”
I thought about it and finally gave the money to Xiaoxue. Although I was a little apprehensive, I believed in her ability and sincerity.
However, it didn't take long for me to find the problem. Xiaoxue's management of money is not as ideal as I imagined, and sometimes the accounts are chaotic due to some trivial expenses. I began to feel a little annoyed, but I was too embarrassed to blame her, after all, I had left it to her to manage.
By chance, Xiaoxue and I sat together and chatted, and I couldn't help but say, "Xiaoxue, I think we should leave the money to me to manage, and you can help me share some housework and child care." ”
After hearing this, Xiaoxue said with some frustration: "I know I'm not good enough, but I really want to help you share some of the pressure." ”
I patted her hand lightly and said, "I know your intentions, but I think we should still do our jobs and cooperate with each other." I will take good care of the finances at home, you just need to take care of the housework and the children. ”
Xiaoxue listened to my words, and her eyes were filled with tears: "Thank you, Weiwei, I will work hard." ”
Ending: Xiaoxue and I solved this small conflict with mutual understanding and tolerance. I understood that the management of money is not the responsibility of one person, but the responsibility shared by both husband and wife. Our marriage has become stronger because of mutual understanding and tolerance, and we cherish each other even more.