Family affection should be the purest and warmest relationship in the world, but some families have drifted away from this family happiness for various reasons. Recently, a bizarre incident of "father and daughter living together for 12 years without speaking" has been widely circulated on the Internet, causing an uproar and heated social discussions.
According to reports, a 73-year-old Uncle Yu and his daughter have been living under one roof for a long time, but since 2012,
Half a month ago, my daughter suddenly moved out of her residence and ran away from home. Uncle Yu was puzzled, hoping to reconcile with his daughter, but was ruthlessly blocked by his daughter.
What was the cause of the incident? The daughter explained in an interview as follows:
However, some of her father's habits made her feel extremely uncomfortable, such as using the same towel to wipe the floor and wipe the refrigerator. What made her even more unacceptable was that her father was angry over a trivial matter and slapped his son-in-law violently.
At that time, she had to hide in her bedroom to prevent her father from hurting her. Unexpectedly, her father followed her and pushed her out of the house. It was then that the daughter made up her mind to cut ties with her father, and it has been 12 years since then.
Regarding his daughter's statement, Uncle Yu did not directly deny that he had beaten his son-in-law, but denied the accusation of pushing his daughter, saying that he was a good father, how could he do such an excessive thing.
When the reporter conveyed Uncle Yu's idea of reconciliation to his daughter, her daughter's attitude was very resolute and blunt, and she bluntly said that she could not forgive and did not want to reconcile.
The conflict between the father and daughter has been going on for a long time, and all kinds of old grievances have deepened the estrangement between the two sides. Some analysts have pointed out that this includes not only discord in living habits, but also fierce physical conflicts, resulting in long-term confrontation between the two.
But even so, the 12-year break is too harsh.
However, the daughter's refusal to reconcile with her father even after she knew he was willing to reconcile raises questions about whether her approach is too bigoted.
After all, if the relationship between father and daughter is really so cold, why didn't she choose another place to live immediately after her parents divorced?
It is true that from a moral point of view, children should have filial piety to their parents, but this does not mean that the rights and wrongs of their parents' actions can be completely ignored. After all, everyone has no right to blame and judge too much.
We can't speculate on the merits of the entanglement between the father and daughter, but we hope that they will release their old suspicions and regain their family affection as soon as possible. The family conflicts and intergenerational estrangement reflected by this incident are really thought-provoking.
The times have changed, and the difference in concepts has created an invisible gap; Life stress and spiritual emptiness often lead to the loss of family affection.