A netizen said that menopause can only write about menopause, but I want to say that the age of menopause is only menopause?
I am 54 years old this year, and I have entered the third stage of menopause after menopause, and in this menopausal age, I encountered a particularly difficult hurdle, my heart was blocked, and I didn't know where to confide, so I could only write it here to relieve my inner distress.
From April 11th to today's 19th, in the past nine days, I have encountered eternal problems, half happy, half sad, mixed joys and sorrows, and no one can understand that complex mood.
As early as the marriage of his son a year ago, he was scheduled to hold a wedding on May 2, his son is 30 years old this year, and he talked about a girlfriend's home in Nanyang, working in Zhengzhou, and the two are in love and ready to hold hands for a lifetime on May 2, 2024 this year.
As a parent, I am sincerely happy for my son, all the wedding preparations are going on step by step, everything is ready, only the east wind is owed, everything is almost ready, just waiting for the wedding ceremony.
This is also something that my husband and I have been looking forward to for a long time, our son is about to start a family, which is a great joy, but something happened in the middle of this, which makes people very depressed.
On the evening of April 11, my son's grandmother vomited blood and was admitted to the intensive care unit, my son's grandmother is 89 years old this year, has been on dialysis for two years, has been taking blood pressure medication for many years, and is usually well maintained.
At this moment, she suddenly vomited blood and was admitted to the intensive care unit for treatment, and when the bleeding stopped and stabilized, she could be transferred out of the intensive care unit.
However, my son's grandmother is old, and some treatments are no longer suitable, such as gastroscopy, which can only be treated conservatively.
I don't even know what to say, my son's happy event is approaching, and his grandmother is admitted to the intensive care unit, and her life and death are uncertain.
My husband and I are really mixed with each other, and we all say that life and death are not up to anyone, but who doesn't know the pain.
I'm really angry, very, very angry, but who should I be angry with, who should I hate? Who should I find to vent this bad breath? I can't even find a figure.
Why do you give me such a big problem, let us be in a dilemma, why do you let me encounter any problem?
I don't even dare to hear the phone ringing in the middle of the night, and when I hear the phone ringing, I think something is wrong with his grandmother, and I have been called to the hospital in the middle of the night for two nights, and I am so scared that I am gone.
A little better, my son's grandmother was transferred out of the intensive care unit from the 17th and entered the emergency room of the general ward, and today on the 19th, the child's grandmother is still like that, and the doctor explained that she can eat some liquid food, and she can drink half a bowl of thin noodle soup a day.
She lives in the hospital, and everyone in the family is not at ease, her son's good things are getting closer and closer, and we all take turns to be on duty in the hospital, and we have to find time to prepare for our son's marriage, what is it like? I can't describe it, I can only sigh at my fate.
On the one hand, the son's marriage went smoothly, and he went to his in-laws' house on the sixth day of the first month of March; on the tenth day of March, the son and daughter-in-law registered their marriage and received a marriage certificate, and they were already legally husband and wife.
On the other side, my son's grandmother is living in the hospital like this, and it is unknown whether she will get better, and she is like a time bomb hanging in the air in our hearts.
The eldest sister and eldest brother husband were not at ease, so they went to find a fortune teller to calculate the calculation for their son and grandmother, saying that these three or five days were a hurdle, and they got through it, and it was the end of April in the lunar calendar.
Originally, everyone gave their husbands ideas, if his grandmother had an accident, his son's wedding would be advanced, or he would go on a trip to get married, or postpone it.
But a few days in advance, this time was too hasty to keep up, this plan was excluded, the traveling marriage son did not agree, and it was not possible to delay, these plans were all excluded, and they could only be carried out according to the original plan.
Tomorrow is the ceremony of putting on the quilt, I can only do it simply, alas, the child's grandmother, let me say what are you good about? What should I do with you?
Grandma of the child, can you get better quickly, let your grandson's wedding be held smoothly, so that we can all participate in the wedding with peace of mind, I am all Amitabha.
Grandma child, get well quickly.