I married far away to the Northeast, and my hometown is the beautiful Hebei. My husband and I worked hard in Beijing and earned a good income, and we had a dream to buy a house of our own there. However, even though we did not intend to live in my in-laws' house for a long time, when I saw the wedding room they had prepared for us, my heart swelled with indescribable discomfort.
The small tiled houses, with a shabby appearance, hardly any signs of decoration, especially the narrow door, which I have never seen before. I have discussed with my husband that I hope to carry out at least some simple decoration to make the soft decoration more delicate and make the wedding room look more warm and festive. After all, marriage is a major event in life, and we all want the wedding room to be filled with happiness.
However, when I actually came here, I still saw the dilapidated scene. My in-laws didn't seem to care about it, and I was very disappointed by their attitude. Seeing my husband growing up in such an environment, I feel even more sorry for him, he seems to be a neglected child who has not received the love he deserves.
I sincerely hope that one day we can use our own efforts to create a warm and comfortable home, so that my husband can feel real happiness and warmth. At the same time, I also hope that my in-laws can understand that decoration is not only for beauty, but also to give us a warm and comfortable wedding room, so that we can start our beautiful married life here.
My husband and I have a bedroom that is very simple and has almost no decent furniture and appliances. This is a picture we took when we came back from the wedding, and there was a thick layer of dust on the tables, on the stools, and there was not even a clean place to sit. Looking at such an environment, I can't help but feel a sour feeling in my heart.
You may not believe it, but there are only two appliances in the whole house, a freezer and an old-fashioned TV
There is no bed in the bedroom, it is a big kang, a layer of ash has fallen on it, this kang is connected to the kitchen, and the kitchen will heat up here as soon as the fire burns, it is estimated that many people have not seen it
In the end, the wedding was held in the county seat instead of the hometown. The reason for this is that I can't bear to let my parents who come from afar see the shabby and dilapidated marriage room of my in-laws' house. I know that if they see such an environment with their own eyes, they will find it difficult to accept, and their hearts will be filled with anxiety and pain. I don't want them to worry about me, and I don't want them to feel sorry for it. Therefore, I chose to hold the wedding in the county seat, hoping to present them with a more warm and decent scene, so that they can participate in our wedding with peace of mind and happiness.
Taken in a hotel room
On the day of the wedding, the original seven-table banquet was particularly deserted. There was a table for my mother's relatives and friends, a table for wedding personnel, a table for my mother-in-law's family, and the remaining four tables were empty, which seemed so lonely. What makes it even more difficult for me to accept is that there are only six relatives in my in-law's family, where does such a scene look like a lively wedding?
I had hoped that my colleagues in Beijing would come to congratulate me, but I did not expect them to excuse themselves for various reasons. On weekdays, sisterhood is deep and they often get together, but when it comes to the critical moment, they are so indifferent. Such an attitude makes me deeply sad and disappointed.
I won't say much about the simplicity of the wedding room, but even the wedding is so shabby, it's really unacceptable. I can't help but feel aggrieved and helpless, and the loss and grievances in my heart are indescribable.
However, I understand that life will not always go as it should, and some regrets and losses are also necessary for growth. I will try to adjust my mentality, face the reality, and believe that there will be better times waiting for us in the future.
When I returned to the wedding room in my hometown from the county seat, I didn't sleep all night
I feel uncomfortable in my heart
When I got up in the morning, my brother-in-law came to help us clean up the room, and I was called away by my father-in-law to do my work, and I continued to clean up
I feel a little better after cleaning up