Pay attention to the official account, the compass of the west wind, to read the text "What is the endgame in ten years?"
I wrote two in a row:
Is Article 21 fair to men?
How to prevent others from cheating money through marriage?
I've been asked this question, what should I think from the perspective of a man with a monthly income of 3K?
My answer is very simple, expectation is a thing, it is formed by the environment, and when the environment changes, the expectation itself will change.
The reason why you feel awkward at the moment is actually the problem I mentioned earlier, that you simply don't have the ability to predict the future.
In the 80s, you looked at how awkward the stall was, but today you don't look awkward.
What does it mean? It shows that most people are just awkward, awkward, and he is not coming.
That's all there is to it.
What is the most important thing for us to act in the initial stage, just like riding the wind and waves?
Production is the most important thing.
Suppressing consumption, restraining desires, and grasping production are the most important things.
Under what circumstances will people be particularly tolerant of sleeping on the floor, working overtime every day, and not resting a day for a month?
Under what circumstances?
When his self-awareness is close to Zhu Yuanzhang, he is like this.
Zhu Yuanzhang is a workaholic, and his idea is that I will finish all the things of the world in my life, and my children and grandchildren will not have to do anything in the future.
You see the in the wind and waves, that old lady, who doesn't sleep all night and kicks the sewing machine, that's what she thinks.
I do all the work, so my grandson doesn't have to do it.
If she knew she didn't have grandchildren, wouldn't she work so hard? No.
The old lady had already gone on a trip.
Well, decades have passed, everyone's expectations have not changed, and they are still saving up a lot of energy, like poplar trees, brushing upward.
But I ask you, what about the environment?
The environment has changed.
In those days, there were no swim trunks, and everyone wanted to buy swim trunks, but no one produced them, so they had to work overtime. Short of swim trunks today?
How about the lack of everyone today?
Everyone stays up late and works overtime to pedal the sewing machine, who is responsible for swimming, who is responsible for buying swimming trunks?
They all stay up late, they all work overtime, they all produce swimming trunks, who are waiting to wear them? Waiting for their grandchildren to wear them?
If no one goes into the water to swim, the swim trunks will be unsalable, and the profits of a single piece will be reduced.
I used to earn a dollar for producing a pair of swim trunks, but now I can only earn a penny.
Why are you saving money like this? Marry a daughter-in-law? Save enough 500,000 bride price to buy a Vietnamese daughter-in-law?
You paid 500,000 yuan when you turned around, but the Vietnamese daughter-in-law stayed for a week, and it became 500,000 yuan, and they went back to Vietnam.
didn't leave you a grandchild, and your bamboo basket was empty.
Do you understand?
Do you expect a very small number of marriage scams to boost consumption? Can they get money from many people, and they all come back.
Who will benefit? Let me ask you, who will benefit from your own businessman?
No one.
But what if we found out that it wasn't cost-effective?
It will cost money.
What can you do with 3,000 yuan a month? Can you marry a daughter-in-law? No.
But you can buy some braised vegetables and drink a little wine, is this day beautiful?
So beautiful.
You are beautiful, those small shopkeepers who open braised vegetable shops, they are also beautiful, the clerks they hire are also beautiful, and those who raise pigs and cattle are also beautiful.
Everyone is beautiful, and this day is booming.
You have traveled to developed countries all over the world, and there is only one thing you can do, which is to try to let everyone live a good and beautiful life, which does not mean that everyone is promised a dream of Zhu Yuanzhang.
If you have a monthly income of 3,000 yuan, you have to think about the throne in your family every day to inherit, even if you can't find a match, you must buy a daughter-in-law.
So what do you want me to say?
What kind of circumstances did that kind of buying a daughter-in-law happen? It happened in the royal family.
This is called marriage.
Does this have anything to do with the common people? No, in all the developed countries of the world, it has nothing to do with the common people.
Eleven years ago, I was at the airport and took a taxi with a former colleague, who is the chairman of a listed subsidiary of Party A Group.
He was in his 40s at the time, I was still young at that time, so I joked with him, what did you think back then, why did you marry an ordinary woman like a sister-in-law (his daughter-in-law works at the group headquarters and looks very ordinary), you were also an executive of that subordinate listed company before you got married, why don't you get close to the water and get the moon first, marry a female star or hostess.
He told a very simple truth, he is the chairman of a listed company under Party A, and he is not a real boss who gets a salary.
If he married a female star and hostess back then, it would be difficult not to make mistakes.
Everyone's income structure and consumption habits are completely different, and there is no emotional foundation, how can you live this life for a long time?
What do people want from him? It is nothing more than his resources, so how can he not make mistakes?
He is marrying a daughter-in-law, not buying a daughter-in-law, so what he wants to marry is an ordinary woman who does not want a house, a car, or his own work and position resources.
Otherwise, he would not be able to live his own life, and he would fall into the quagmire.
He is not a rich man with a net worth of more than 100 small goals, he is just a salaryman with an annual salary of one million.
Why do you have to buy a marriage?
You can buy marriage, but you can't buy feelings, you can't hold it.
Whether it is a security guard with a monthly income of 3,000 or the chairman of a listed company under Party A with an annual income of one million, they are all workers.
You can't get out of the relationship and try to get into the marriage by buying.
Who is the kind of person who gets married by buying?
It was a wealthy family in ancient times.
He was a Japanese daimyo with an army of 10,000 men, and if he repented of his marriage, his men would be killed.
What about you? What do you have? Do you have 10,000 brothers who will accompany you to your Vietnamese mother's house?
You don't have anything, please. You really went to Vietnam, the bride price didn't come back, and you still left a pair of waists.
What I said was really heart-to-heart, just like that former colleague back then, and people also took out their hearts and lungs.
He can't afford it, understand, does he like beautiful female celebrities, hostesses?
It's a man who likes it.
But he couldn't afford it, he didn't want to buy it, and he would step on the sewing machine in the number in the future.
In the same way, if you can't afford to buy it, who will you blame if you are deceived?
In a society, the need for fertility is the appearance, but what is the truth? It is the need for consumption.
As I said before, what society needs is a consumer population, commonly known as your money is really not enough to spend, you have a few more children, live in a confinement center a few more times, and help you spend your money.
But if you spend it all, not only do you not spend it, but you also save it up, waiting to spend it for the future of the so-called future generations who don't know where, then in fact, instead of stimulating consumption, it will suppress consumption.
In any society, once the GDP switches gears, from high speed to medium speed, it will ultimately rely on consumption, not production.
There is nothing more important than consumption.
If you have money, you will live, and if you don't have money, you will spend it yourself, all of this is for consumption, and only when you consume well can you be good to him, and everyone is good.
In the end, everyone's expectations will be on par with developed countries, there is money to spend today, don't wait, there is no point.
Not just for young people, but even for the older generation.
You have been slamming the door all your life, reluctant to eat and reluctant to wear, and your daughter-in-law has spent all your time back. It's not certain whether your daughter-in-law will give you grandchildren or not.
Think about it yourself, if you can't figure it out, social reality will educate you to figure it out.
It's just that when the time comes, it may not be happy.
Just like the joke eight or nine years ago, these people, reluctant to eat and spend, were all handed over to P2P in the end.
Hehe, probably, this is life.
Pay attention to the official account, the compass of the west wind, to read the text "What is the endgame in ten years?"
