Text: Han Shi's words
Edited by Han Shi's words
Preface
"We've been married for so many years, and she's been having children, and there's nothing else to do. ”
This is what actor Chen Haomin said when asked how he evaluated his wife Jiang Lisha.
has been married for more than ten years, and has given birth to four children, while also taking care of his mother-in-law.
But in exchange for her husband's sentence "She is a very productive person".
Who hears such a thing and shudders?
But Jiang Lisha is "enjoying it".
And tell these things as a joke to other people.
Even, when she was about to give birth, she had to be pulled out by her husband to "block the gun" to calm the turmoil.
The "Wolf Kisses the Door" incident
During Jiang Lisha's pregnancy, Chen Haomin was exposed by the media to the "wolf kissing the door" incident.
Chen Haomin kissed and touched 19-year-old Hong Kong actress Chen Jiahuan after drinking, and the scene was outrageous, which can also be said to be "sexual harassment", which directly scared the actress very scared and panicked.
After the incident was exposed, Chen Haomin was "bombarded" by netizens all over the network, and the abuse was even more intense, as the fermentation of the incident became more and more unbearable, Chen Haomin pulled out his pregnant wife in order to calm public opinion, and attended the press conference together to apologize.
At the press conference, Chen Haomin's wife, Jiang Lisha, cried bitterly in front of reporters and media, hoping that the woman and the public could forgive her husband's inappropriate behavior after drinking.
It can also be seen from here that Jiang Lisha is very tolerant of her husband, and even if she has bad behavior, she is willing to bear it with her husband.
What is so good about Chen Haomin that Jiang Lisha can do this?
And before Chen Haomin got married, he was in a constant relationship.
In "Fengshen Bang", Chen Haomin fell in love with Ye Xuan at first sight, and when filming "Love Soda Machine", he fell in love with Charmaine Sheh because of the play, but Chen Haomin was not satisfied, and he fell in love with actress Zhang Meng again in the play.
Clear-eyed people probably understand that Chen Haomin has constant scandals and may not be a good marriage partner, but Jiang Lisha resolutely married Chen Haomin.
Chen Haomin, who is "full of scandals", why did Jiang Lisha become confused?
Fengzi Marriage
In 1985, a basketball family gave birth to a delicate girl, and this girl was Jiang Lisha.
Although born into a basketball family, her dream was to be a model and fashion designer, so she specialized in this area and made a name for herself in her field.
But when Jiang Lisha met Chen Haomin, everything was different.
At that time, Jiang Lisha was working in Italy, and she returned to China because of a holiday, and after returning to China, Jiang Lisha naturally participated in a lot of dinners, including meeting Chen Haomin at a dinner.
And Chen Haomin took a fancy to Jiang Lisha's white skin and beautiful long legs, so he took the initiative to ask for her contact information, when the two added contact information, Chen Haomin would chat with her from time to time, but the holiday had a deadline after all, so Jiang Lisha returned to Italy again.
The time in Italy and China is 7 hours slower than in China, but Chen Haomin doesn't care about these, even if he stays up late, he has to wait for Jiang Lisha to finish working on the Internet, chat with Jiang Lisha, and go back and forth like this, which touched Jiang Lisha's heart.
So, this woman, who was carried away by love, gave up all her jobs in Italy and her identity that came soon, turned around and returned to China, and threw herself into the arms of Chen Haomin.
In fact, with Jiang Lisha's ability, she can still make herself shine in China, but after she met Chen Haomin, she has been on the way to have children.
Jiang Lisha and Chen Haomin have been in love for a year, and in 2011, they married their son in a low-key manner, and this incident hit Jiang Lisha's parents quite hard, the daughter who has worked hard since childhood gave up her career for a man, and they are not worth it for Jiang Lisha.
But there is no way, his daughter is dedicated to Chen Haomin, plus she is pregnant, so she got married in a low-key manner, got married in July, and her eldest daughter Chen Yaxu, who was born in November, can be imagined that the month was not small at that time.
Jiang Lisha originally thought that by marrying the man she loved, she would be able to live a happy life, but the reality gave Jiang Lisha a hard slap.
Called a "fertility machine" by her husband
As the saying goes: the country is easy to change, but the nature is difficult to change. Chen Haomin obviously did not give up his large "fish pond" because of marriage.
Not long after marriage, the "wolf kissing the door" incident was exposed, and despite public relations, his reputation was irretrievable, and even some artists in the circle also denounced him, accusing him of excessive behavior towards actresses.
Chen Haomin also caused his career to plummet because of this incident, and Chen Haomin, who had no job, naturally focused on having children.
In fact, most women see that their husbands have such unbearable behavior, either divorce or discord in face and heart, but Jiang Lisha does not, she is willing to be a "fertility machine" and give birth to four children in five years.
And since the first child, Jiang Lisha has had four consecutive caesarean sections, with three girls and one boy, a total of four children, and in the face of such a number, everyone is very puzzled.
Some people say that it is patriarchal, but Chen Haomin said: I am afraid that my wife will be lonely after I leave, and I want my children to accompany my wife.
At the same time, some netizens also found that Jiang Lisha never goes to confinement, and Chen Haomin also said that only people who are not in good health need to be confined, and his wife's health is very good. In the face of these answers, it can be said that it is getting more and more outrageous, isn't it?
For Chen Haomin's behavior, netizens are also very dissatisfied, because since ancient times, giving birth to a child has been called "a ghost door to close", even if there is no confinement custom in foreign countries, pregnant women must be given time to rest after giving birth.
If Chen Haomin really cherishes his wife, why did he give birth to four children? Why wouldn't he let his wife rest after giving birth?
Not only daily, Chen Haomin also said that his wife is a "very capable person", this sentence is for Chen Haomin, he thinks it is a praise for his wife, but for a woman, it seems a little ridiculous.
In addition to taking care of her four children, Jiang Lisha also has to take care of the daily life of her mother-in-law and husband, and even sometimes, she can't even eat a hot meal, she is really exhausted.
But even so, Jiang Lisha is willing to be with her husband and be a cow and a horse for the family.
Marriage change?
With the development of self-media, live broadcast has gradually become a way for celebrities to earn money, and Jiang Lisha has also joined the ranks, either live streaming goods on social platforms, or sharing her life.
Even in the live broadcast, Jiang Lisha is also a "desperate Sanniang", sometimes she will broadcast live in the hospital, and even have dinner at the same time to live broadcast and bring goods, ushering in the second spring of her career.
And in 2022, there is news of the divorce of the two on the Internet, during the National Day, Jiang Lisha called Chen Haomin to ask where he went, but Chen Haomin said that he was filming in the crew, but Jiang Lisha knew that the crew had already been on vacation.
For this reason, the two argued, because Chen Haomin, who had a criminal record, was directly questioned by his wife Chen Lisha whether he had taken other women out for a trip, but Chen Haomin said that he was helping the crew step on the spot, and also said that if it was a divorce, as long as her request was not excessive, he would agree.
When there was a lot of discussion about this matter on the Internet, Chen Haomin and Jiang Lisha quickly started a live broadcast to clarify the matter, and posted a ring to show that their marital status was stable, and the matter stopped.
And now Jiang Lisha and Chen Haomin rely on live broadcast to maintain their family's economic expenses, not only that, but some netizens found that Chen Haomin seems to be a little "tired" of Jiang Lisha.
At that time, when the two were live broadcasting, Jiang Lisha complained that Chen Haomin spent 1,500 to buy sky-high vegetables, and complained about Chen Haomin's waste in front of the whole network, and bluntly said that he couldn't afford to eat it at all.
And Chen Haomin, who was standing on the side, not only did not show guilt, but also treated Jiang Lisha very coldly.
This kind of thing happened, in fact, not more than once, once Jiang Lisha asked Chen Haomin to help wear earrings, and many attempts were unsuccessful, so Jiang Lisha spoke ill of Chen Haomin, Chen Haomin felt that he had no face and broke the earrings.
In the face of all kinds of signs, some netizens think that Chen Haomin is tired of Jiang Lisha, but in the end, it is unknown what the truth is.
Although Jiang Lisha is now 12 years younger than Chen Haomin, due to her constant giving birth to children and excessive work, her face is not as delicate as the live broadcast room, and she is very old in reality, older than her older husband.
epilogue
Some people say that Chen Haomin married Jiang Lisha because of luck. Chen Haomin is riddled with scandals and his career is not going well, but Jiang Lisha still does not give up, and even brings goods to support her family by herself.
Some people also say that Jiang Lisha can't know people clearly, Chen Haomin is not a good person, and Jiang Lisha, as a high-achieving student who has studied abroad, is immersed in the whirlpool of love and can't extricate herself, and can't see moral right and wrong clearly.
However, "it is difficult for a clean official to decide family affairs", who can tell all the cause and effect?
In the marriage relationship, there is no absolute right or wrong to win or lose, but mutual tolerance and understanding.
Jiang Lisha is immersed in her love for Chen Haomin, and Chen Haomin also enjoys the care brought by Jiang Lisha. Isn't it Zhou Yu beating Huang Gai, one is willing to fight and the other is willing to suffer?
As a spectator, "letting go of the plot of helping others and respecting the fate of others" is also a choice.
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