After Su Jianren failed to catch up with his favorite college classmate Li Ying, he found a woman on impulse and gave birth to his son Cheng Jiayuan.
However, when Cheng Jiayuan, who became an adult, joined Shenmao Bank, Su Jianren didn't know that the slightly obese and somewhat stupid young man in front of him was his own son Cheng Jiayuan
Therefore, Su Jianren also ridiculed Cheng Jiayuan because of this.
This made Cheng Jiayuan jealous of Su Jianren, so he saved Su Jianren's name as an "old bastard" in the mobile phone address book
However, not long after, Cheng Jiayuan changed "old bastard" to "Su Laosan".
Not long after, Cheng Jiayuan not only called Su Jianren "Dad", but also beat his former good colleague Tao Wuji for Su Jianren's grievances
So, what kind of change did Cheng Jiayuan go through to Su Jianren, from the initial alienation and even hostility, to the final acceptance and reliance?
01
At first, Cheng Jiayuan's attitude towards his father Su Jianren could be described as indifferent and even hostile.
All this because he felt that Su Jianren was an irresponsible father and husband, indifferent to the family, and only busy with his own business.
Under the arrangement of his grandfather, Cheng Jiayuan entered the work of Shenmao Bank and started his career.
At that time, Cheng Jiayuan almost turned a blind eye to his father's existence, let alone had any deep feelings.
However, as time went on, things began to change subtly.
When his grandfather died, Cheng Jiayuan had an in-depth exchange with Su Jianren.
This conversation allowed Cheng Jiayuan to see the fragile and true side of his father, and also made him start to re-examine this father-son relationship.
He discovers that his father is not as ruthless as he imagined, and he also has a deep tenderness and care.
02
Su Jianren was heartbroken after his father's death, borrowed alcohol to kill his sorrows, and even tore up the fake marriage certificate and will with Cheng Jiayuan's mother.
This scene deeply touched Cheng Jiayuan, and he saw his father's deep cherishment of the family and the nostalgia for his deceased relatives.
This sincere expression of emotion made the resentment in Cheng Jiayuan's heart gradually dissipate, and was replaced by sympathy and understanding for his father.
At the same time, as Cheng Jiayuan continued to sharpen and grow in his work, he also began to become more and more sophisticated.
Cheng Jiayuan understands that in this complex society, there is a limit to the ability to rely solely on oneself, and it takes the help of various resources and relationships to go further.
As his father and industry veteran, Su Jianren is undoubtedly one of his most valuable resources.
As a result, he began to take the initiative to repair his relationship with his father, seeking his help and support.
03
In this process, Cheng Jiayuan also gradually discovered his desire for father's love.
He envied the close relationship between Tao Wuji and his father, and longed for the same warmth and dependence on himself.
When Su Jianren began to care about his life and work, and gave him advice, he felt unprecedented fatherly love.
This feeling of being cared for and supported made him more determined to move towards the path of reconciliation with his father.
Su Jianren's help to Cheng Jiayuan is not only reflected in emotional support, but also gives him great help in practical actions.
He helped Cheng Jiayuan rectify the mess with Tao Wuji, advised him on his pursuit of Hu Yue, and even used his influence to transfer him to the audit department.
At critical moments, Su Jianren always tried his best to protect Cheng Jiayuan from implication and harm.
These actions made Cheng Jiayuan deeply feel the greatness and selflessness of his father's love.
04
However, the good times did not last long, when Cheng Jiayuan finally got the long-awaited father's love, he faced the crisis of losing everything because of Tao Wuji's unintentional actions.
Angry and disappointed, he beat Tao Wuji and scolded him for being a villain.
Although he knew in his heart that Tao Wuji couldn't be completely blamed for this incident, the emotional fluctuations made him unable to face all this rationally.
Cheng Jiayuan's experience is sympathetic, he first lost the powerful backer of his beloved grandfather, and then finally established a deep relationship with his father, but faced a new dilemma.
Cheng Jiayuan regarded Tao Wuji as a friend who was like a brother, but Tao Wuji chose to deceive and betray him, and this kind of blow was unbearable for anyone.
However, we should also see Tao Wuji's innocence and helplessness in this matter, he was used by Zhao Hui without knowing it, and he may face huge psychological pressure and public opinion accusations after the truth is revealed, but all this is out of his concern and loyalty to Cheng Jiayuan, but the method is just inappropriate.
05
Returning to the father-son relationship between Cheng Jiayuan and Su Jianren, we can find that the emotional changes of the father and son are not only because of the death of their grandfather and Su Jianren's help, but also because of their deep love and care for each other, and this sincere emotion cannot be changed by any external factors.
After a series of turmoil and trials, the father-son relationship between Cheng Jiayuan and Su Jianren will be stronger and deeper, and they will also work together to face the challenges and difficulties of the future and create a better life together.
However, the minds of their father and son were not used in the right path of seeing the light.